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 Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 12:42 pm
I need some help/advice about breaking up with my real life gf. Can anybody help me?
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 7:44 pm
I'd be happy to help! What's the issue? biggrin
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 8:57 pm
Well why would you want to break up with her and how do you wish to do it? Be nice and calm about it or awkwardly lol
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 11:42 pm
This is something that isn't going to be pretty. Though I think you know this already. Just be straight up and honest with her. Sit down and have a the conversation with you. Preferably in a public place so that she wont do anything stupid, though that can always backfire.
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Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 8:09 pm
In a public place?!?! No! Then she will just be reeeeeeally embarassed or mad that you showed like the entire world! Public place=bad idea!
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Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 8:32 pm
iArekushisu In a public place?!?! No! Then she will just be reeeeeeally embarassed or mad that you showed like the entire world! Public place=bad idea! Not to metion if she gets all mad and shtuff, people will give you really wierd looks everytime they see you
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Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 8:32 pm
make it somewhere you both feel comfprtable. Also, make sure there are others close by that she doesn't know about just incase she goes balistic
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 6:37 am
How do I get myself to actually do it cause I don't want to seem like a jerk so I'm afraid to break up with her.
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 8:04 am
Just be yourself. You seem like a nice guy, so I doubt you're a jerk. Besides, it's only really in movies where the girl either pulls the "no-don't-break-up-with-me-I-love-you-stuff" or the "if-you-break-up-with-me-_____-will-happen".
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 10:51 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 1:58 pm
iArekushisu Just be yourself. You seem like a nice guy, so I doubt you're a jerk. Besides, it's only really in movies where the girl either pulls the "no-don't-break-up-with-me-I-love-you-stuff" or the "if-you-break-up-with-me-_____-will-happen". I wouldn't say that last one only happens in the movies. I know someone whos sister was forced to date some guy cuz he threated to kill himself when she tried breaking up with him.
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 2:47 pm
Rashir Fenrick Treyarch iArekushisu Just be yourself. You seem like a nice guy, so I doubt you're a jerk. Besides, it's only really in movies where the girl either pulls the "no-don't-break-up-with-me-I-love-you-stuff" or the "if-you-break-up-with-me-_____-will-happen". I wouldn't say that last one only happens in the movies. I know someone whos sister was forced to date some guy cuz he threated to kill himself when she tried breaking up with him. Not really reasurring Rashir. Though I do agree with the comfortable place idea. Choose somewhere where you both feel comfortable and break the idea out to her slowly...but then again, some people perfer a straight forward break up. Guess it depends on how your gf's currently handling the situation.
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 4:45 pm
I'm not going to beat around the bush: she's being a b***h. I'm just too nice to break up with her. I'm going to try tomorrow cause I really want out soon and I think she'll be fine with the idea. I just need more courage. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 4:48 pm
You're breaking up with Shannon? Yikes.
Well, I wish ya the best of luck. Try to be sympathetic, y'know? Be straightforward, but not harsh.
Also be ready to run. She's scary.
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 9:33 pm
Aww... you're too nice to break up with her? That's so sweet!
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