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 Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:47 am
Having a problem with your bf/gf that you want to resolve? Having trouble thinking of the right way to ask out someone you really want to ask out? No one has the perfect relationship, and we all have troubles making things work out just right. But perhaps with a little advice, we can make things more enjoyable for you. Ask for any advice you need in here. See someone who needs advice for a situation you have been in b4 yourself? Your knowledge and experience and advice could save them some grief and misery.
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Posted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 6:17 pm
Hi. I need some advice...you probably guessed that, as I am under the Advice Discussion Topic.
Anyway. Ahem.
My bf and I are totally together, everyone agrees. But the problem is, both of us are super shy and we hardly ever talk. The one time we do talk, it's at our church while we're alone, and it's hardly ever about US. I want him to understand how I feel about him, but I'm too shy to talk to him about it, and him vice versa.
I need help. Anybody got any ideas?
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 3:58 am
Kleopatra Selene Hi. I need some advice...you probably guessed that, as I am under the Advice Discussion Topic. Anyway. Ahem. My bf and I are totally together, everyone agrees. But the problem is, both of us are super shy and we hardly ever talk. The one time we do talk, it's at our church while we're alone, and it's hardly ever about US. I want him to understand how I feel about him, but I'm too shy to talk to him about it, and him vice versa. I need help. Anybody got any ideas? Well, Why Be Shy Right? When You Knew You Love Him And He Loves You Back, Don't Be Shy To Tell Him Your Feelings Because He Won't Bite Or Laugh At You Or Something And Besides Everyone Knows Your A Couple Right? So Go For It! :]
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Posted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 4:37 pm
My friend met this guy and at first they thought they loved each other very much, but then they didn't get to talk much, so they decided to break up. But now my friend is jealous because all these girl are like obsessing over him and my friend is really mad/sad, got any advice? whee
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 2:36 am
Kleopatra Selene Hi. I need some advice...you probably guessed that, as I am under the Advice Discussion Topic. Anyway. Ahem. My bf and I are totally together, everyone agrees. But the problem is, both of us are super shy and we hardly ever talk. The one time we do talk, it's at our church while we're alone, and it's hardly ever about US. I want him to understand how I feel about him, but I'm too shy to talk to him about it, and him vice versa. I need help. Anybody got any ideas? Be sneaky like a ninja and send him an email from an email address that won't give yourself away and ask him if he is interested in you that way. A lot of people find it a lot easier to talk to people online than irl. ninja
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 2:42 am
FalChu My friend met this guy and at first they thought they loved each other very much, but then they didn't get to talk much, so they decided to break up. But now my friend is jealous because all these girl are like obsessing over him and my friend is really mad/sad, got any advice? whee She should either get over this guy and move on or try to get back in the relationship if she still has feelings for him. If she wants the guy and wants to find out something to talk about, she should disguise herself as a ninja and sneakily stalk him and find out all of the things he likes so she can think of things to talk about with him. ninja
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:40 pm
Okay, so I like this one guy. He's smart, funny, and absolutely adorable. But the thing is that he's younger than me ( He's in 7th grade and I'm in 8th. ) And he's ... shorter than me. But that's not a problem for me. :]
The way we act towards each other, to me, is like we like each other. We always talk/tease each other constantly when we see each other during the school day. We always talk when we're walking the same way in the hallways. And I sometimes catch him looking at me during study hall. Plz, any advice on how to get him to notice me/like me more??? Plz, I really love him.
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 9:34 pm
Ella Franki Okay, so I like this one guy. He's smart, funny, and absolutely adorable. But the thing is that he's younger than me ( He's in 7th grade and I'm in 8th. ) And he's ... shorter than me. But that's not a problem for me. :] The way we act towards each other, to me, is like we like each other. We always talk/tease each other constantly when we see each other during the school day. We always talk when we're walking the same way in the hallways. And I sometimes catch him looking at me during study hall. Plz, any advice on how to get him to notice me/like me more??? Plz, I really love him. Well, Try hanging out with him more often :] and tell him what kind of boy you like smile And then tell him what you feel about him but use a code name like "I like this guy on the 7th grade and I so so love him" but just go for it!
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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 12:25 am
Ella Franki Okay, so I like this one guy. He's smart, funny, and absolutely adorable. But the thing is that he's younger than me ( He's in 7th grade and I'm in 8th. ) And he's ... shorter than me. But that's not a problem for me. :] The way we act towards each other, to me, is like we like each other. We always talk/tease each other constantly when we see each other during the school day. We always talk when we're walking the same way in the hallways. And I sometimes catch him looking at me during study hall. Plz, any advice on how to get him to notice me/like me more??? Plz, I really love him. You could ask him out. (He will definitely notice you if you do that) I myself like a girl who is confident and knows what she wants. Also, by asking the question directly, you eliminate the chance of him misunderstanding what you are getting at by asking/saying things that may seem strange to him when you are trying to hint to him that you are interested. Even if he isn't interested in you that way, at least you will know and stop having to always be wondering if he would ever be interested in you or not. And if he really is your friend, then he will keep being your friend even if he's not interested that way and understand how you felt. Also, knowing that you are interested in him, it may give him time to think about it himself and he may discover that he really is interested in being more than friends afterall. And since you will have already opened the door, he won't have to worry about wondering if you feeling the same way about him. This is the 21st century, tis totally ok for a girl to ask a guy out. 3nodding And also, if he doesn't wanna be your bf, then you can know that and move on and open yourself up to looking for someone else to be your match. wink Rejection can be hard, but its a part of life. It will prepare you for the real world. And the acceptance will be so sweet if he does feel the same way. cool You seem like a really nice person to me. I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there who would be interested in dating you. So it will be his loss if he doesn't want you. cheese_whine I myself am a guy, so I help my advice will be of help to you. smile Good luck smile
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 10:58 am
Ella Franki Okay, so I like this one guy. He's smart, funny, and absolutely adorable. But the thing is that he's younger than me ( He's in 7th grade and I'm in 8th. ) And he's ... shorter than me. But that's not a problem for me. :] The way we act towards each other, to me, is like we like each other. We always talk/tease each other constantly when we see each other during the school day. We always talk when we're walking the same way in the hallways. And I sometimes catch him looking at me during study hall. Plz, any advice on how to get him to notice me/like me more??? Plz, I really love him. i agree with neo, but with a little less directness, this could be just me but jokingly saying something would get me, sarcasticaly say you want to date him, don't make it sound serious at all, then guage his reaction, if he gets really serious he might actually like you, if he instantly laughs he probably doesn't like you. but it depends on the guy, if hes a funny person then him laughing might mean he does like you but won't admit it. it's all dependant on the person your talking to, but like i said it could just be me that likes that and he won't find it funny at all
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Posted: Fri May 14, 2010 6:19 pm
Okay, so, about the problem with the guy I like. Things have been going pretty well (NO, I haven't asked him out yet).
But the thing is, I found out today at school that my friend likes him. ( X ) The thing is, all my closer friends say that she's ugly and that I have a way better chance with him than she does. But can I believe them? I mean, they are my friends. Are they just saying that to keep my feelings up?
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 2:17 am
Ella Franki Okay, so, about the problem with the guy I like. Things have been going pretty well (NO, I haven't asked him out yet). But the thing is, I found out today at school that my friend likes him. ( X ) The thing is, all my closer friends say that she's ugly and that I have a way better chance with him than she does. But can I believe them? I mean, they are my friends. Are they just saying that to keep my feelings up? Does your friend know that you like him too? Hopefully if he is of good character he will like a person for who they are and not what they look like. So the big question is what kind of personality would he prefer? That of you or of your friend? Perhaps you and your friend should both engage him in conversation and see which of you he seems to enjoy being with the most from that. Who does he tend to converse more with and seem to enjoy talking to the better. I think that would be a good basis to determine which of you should ask him out first. I hope that will help you out. ninja
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2010 7:00 pm
Okay, I think this guy is finally leaning towards me! heart (Metaphorically speaking) Okay, so lately he's been striking up conversations as we're on our way to our buses after school (Since we both ride buses, we both walk the same way. And usually, we both end up walking near each other, so we usually start talking). And then this happened at school:
Me, the boy (His name is Collin( heart ), so I'll give him his name), and my friend Taylor (The girl who also likes him) are in the same lunch together. At Taylor's table, there is a girl that always goes over to his table to talk to him for her, Abbie. So a couple of days ago, Abbie went over to his table and started talking. When they were done, Abbie went back to her table and started talking to Taylor. When I looked over their way, Taylor looked sort of glum. And she acted sort of glum the rest of the day. So I sort of hoped that Abbie had asked him if he had liked Taylor, and he said no. I hoped.
What do you think? Any comments? Please, if you can, give me feed back. I really feel like things are working out in my favor.
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 11:53 pm
Ella Franki Okay, I think this guy is finally leaning towards me! heart (Metaphorically speaking) Okay, so lately he's been striking up conversations as we're on our way to our buses after school (Since we both ride buses, we both walk the same way. And usually, we both end up walking near each other, so we usually start talking). And then this happened at school:
Me, the boy (His name is Collin( heart ), so I'll give him his name), and my friend Taylor (The girl who also likes him) are in the same lunch together. At Taylor's table, there is a girl that always goes over to his table to talk to him for her, Abbie. So a couple of days ago, Abbie went over to his table and started talking. When they were done, Abbie went back to her table and started talking to Taylor. When I looked over their way, Taylor looked sort of glum. And she acted sort of glum the rest of the day. So I sort of hoped that Abbie had asked him if he had liked Taylor, and he said no. I hoped.
What do you think? Any comments? Please, if you can, give me feed back. I really feel like things are working out in my favor. Your conclusion seems pretty in order.I think that is it.
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 12:01 am
Okay,so here's my problem:I used to have a huge crush on this guy,Branden. So,on like Thursday,my best friend asked him out.She wasn't the one who told me,Branden was.When he told me,I was surprised.She knew I used to like him.Anyways,I was kinda in shock because I was getting my feeling for him back.Then,there's another thing:I'm kinda IN LOVE with Branden's best friend,Jesse.There's also a twist:Jesse likes me and Jade(best friend who asked Branden out).Branden knows Jade likes him.Jesse does too.Nobody knows about my crush,though.Branden said he didn't say anything to her,but every time I look at his top on Myspace,I see Jade third,It scares me because what if he says yes?It would weird out our friendship.Jesse,Branden,and Jade are all my friends!Please help me!
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