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 Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 4:03 pm
Ohhkay, alot of you are saying,not all of you but i good amount of you, that you shouldn`t tell someoe or you didn`t tell someone.
You ALWAYS should tell someone, whether it`s a family memeber or a friend or even the cops. you say something
NOT saying anything could damage what may happen in the future.
When you don`t say anything at this point of time,
that`s what is going to stick with you for the rest of your Life and you`ll regret it.
Sure you`re scared and nervous at first to say anything.
but you Have to or at least you should.
If you don`t tell anyone then how are they supposed to help you ????
Sure, MAYBE they won`t believe you but that`s an if.
There`s alot of -If's- in Life.
But that emans there`s a chance that SOMEBODY will believe you and get you the help you need.
Everyone gets scared, you just have to remember that you`ll feel better when you say something instead of keeping it a secret and... They can help you out with any of the problems you`re dealing with.
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Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 6:14 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 6:40 pm
I'm going through this right now
Everyone of my friends is telling me to tell my mother
But I'm scared to death
I could barely tell my cousin without shaking/crying/ and nearly throwing up on myself.
Can't imagine what I would do if I told my mum.
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Posted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 1:13 pm
Lady Kira X I'm going through this right now
Everyone of my friends is telling me to tell my mother
But I'm scared to death
I could barely tell my cousin without shaking/crying/ and nearly throwing up on myself.
Can't imagine what I would do if I told my mum. well it`s hard to tell a family member... especially your mother. But you should what you should be thinking about is what if you Don`t tell her ? then she can`t give you the help and support you need o:
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Posted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 4:00 pm
DoMoWuVsPuRpLeAnDpOrN Lady Kira X I'm going through this right now
Everyone of my friends is telling me to tell my mother
But I'm scared to death
I could barely tell my cousin without shaking/crying/ and nearly throwing up on myself.
Can't imagine what I would do if I told my mum. well it`s hard to tell a family member... especially your mother. But you should what you should be thinking about is what if you Don`t tell her ? then she can`t give you the help and support you need o:
Everyone thinks the way I am.. is because of the child abuse I went through when I was little.. but thats not it at all.
My mom already think shes a failure to me because of how my life is now.. if I tell her this one and she realizes all those times she never noticed and wasnt there... Idk how shed handle that.
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Posted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 2:54 pm
Lady Kira X DoMoWuVsPuRpLeAnDpOrN Lady Kira X I'm going through this right now
Everyone of my friends is telling me to tell my mother
But I'm scared to death
I could barely tell my cousin without shaking/crying/ and nearly throwing up on myself.
Can't imagine what I would do if I told my mum. well it`s hard to tell a family member... especially your mother. But you should what you should be thinking about is what if you Don`t tell her ? then she can`t give you the help and support you need o:
Everyone thinks the way I am.. is because of the child abuse I went through when I was little.. but thats not it at all.
My mom already think shes a failure to me because of how my life is now.. if I tell her this one and she realizes all those times she never noticed and wasnt there... Idk how shed handle that.well you got to find out don`t you ? it doesn`t matter what they "think" as long as you know you told the truth and be honest, tat`s all that should really matter to you.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 8:19 pm
Lady Kira X DoMoWuVsPuRpLeAnDpOrN Lady Kira X I'm going through this right now
Everyone of my friends is telling me to tell my mother
But I'm scared to death
I could barely tell my cousin without shaking/crying/ and nearly throwing up on myself.
Can't imagine what I would do if I told my mum. well it`s hard to tell a family member... especially your mother. But you should what you should be thinking about is what if you Don`t tell her ? then she can`t give you the help and support you need o:
Everyone thinks the way I am.. is because of the child abuse I went through when I was little.. but thats not it at all.
My mom already think shes a failure to me because of how my life is now.. if I tell her this one and she realizes all those times she never noticed and wasnt there... Idk how shed handle that.You know that by keeping it in you're just hurting yourself more. It's probably make your mother feel honored if you told her.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 8:26 pm
Chancess Everyone gets scared, you just have to remember that you`ll feel better when you say something instead of keeping it a secret and... They can help you out with any of the problems you`re dealing with. I agree with telling someone. However, just because you tell someone doesn't mean they'll help. When I told my mom, she just brushed me off and told me that I'd forget about it when I grew older. It's been 8 years since then, and I still think about it everyday.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 9:58 pm
P i n o c h u Chancess Everyone gets scared, you just have to remember that you`ll feel better when you say something instead of keeping it a secret and... They can help you out with any of the problems you`re dealing with. I agree with telling someone. However, just because you tell someone doesn't mean they'll help. When I told my mom, she just brushed me off and told me that I'd forget about it when I grew older. It's been 8 years since then, and I still think about it everyday. I believe you should tell someone, too. If the first person doesn't help, maybe there are others that will. I'm sorry about what happened with you and your mom.
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Posted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 7:07 pm
Lady Kira X I'm going through this right now
Everyone of my friends is telling me to tell my mother
But I'm scared to death
I could barely tell my cousin without shaking/crying/ and nearly throwing up on myself.
Can't imagine what I would do if I told my mum.
You should tell your mom NOW. She'll understand. Just like my mom did. You can trust yourself. :]
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 9:10 am
I've always kept quiet about my "Issue"
Only because I was ashamed of it, and I was embaressed that something like that happened to me..
I wouldn't know how to explain what happened, the person who molested me Is 17 and he's..well, in bad shape. And his parent's believe he's a Saint, and they wouldn't even believe me after I showed them the Email message I got from him about the whole situation.
I even showed my Father and they wouldn't believe me.
So whenever something like that happened to me, I just let it slid because no matter how much proof I had no one would help me or believe me.
His dad Thought I was a slut and that I was only trying to get attention :<
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 4:58 pm
hey im lonly well thats what me friends call me atleast dont see the issue saying me name i had things whit this like whit friends and stuff...
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Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:09 pm
i know what you mean, its hard and scary, but its better to tell her.
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 11:09 am
Of course it's hard to say something...
But under the circumstances of rape or even molestation,
It is best to tell someone.
Even telling a complete stranger could help, especially for venting.
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Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 7:38 pm
MY best freind was raped by her uncle... he only went to jail for 2 years scream !! makes me so mad that some ppl get of so easy for doing this to someone.... people think only girls can get raped but this isnt true my freind ryan was raped by his father and he hasnt told anyone.... should i tell someone for him...
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