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 Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 6:56 am
ok, so my boyfriend is my friends ex but there still great friends. well now i found out she still likes him and is constantly flirting with him behind my back! well of course im pissed so i confront her. She denies the whole thing (except for likeing him). but i know its true cuz shes told our other friends and they tell me. So she starts saying stuff like "Well hes my first boyfriend and i wasnt really ok with you guys dating i just made that up" (f.y.i its not her first!!!!) so she basically is telling me to break up with him so she can have him. But i was like "I love him and you didnt even like him most of your guys's relationship!" so now were friend again because we didnt want more drama at school.... but im still really pissed and know she still gonna flirt. WHAT DO I DO?!?!
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 7:11 pm
Basically this is a case, of, "Female Dominance", she has dated him before and i assume from you saying he's her ex, has dated him before you
thus her innate instinct of competition for mates kicks in and makes her think lesser of you and more highly of herself simply because she was with him first, and likely for a longer time frame
as for what to do:
Simply wait it all out
if you love this boy, you'll endure the lies from her, and if he in turn loves you, he'll begin to brush her off if she tries to flirt again
also a thing about this "love": if your in Middle or Highschool, then it wont play out well, especially when you both hit college,
if you're college or older, then my advice on it is simply wait it all out
---also if it's high-school or younger, it aint love, it's affection
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