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PostPosted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 4:07 pm


I love how people keep trying to come up with ways to avoid rape...
And they make things like,
"Kick them in the balls"
or
"Kill them."

Sorry to say, though those methods are effective...
They probably won't work.
Statistics show:

Approximately 2/3 of rapes were committed by someone known to the victim.
93% of juvenile sexual assault victims know their attacker.
73% of sexual assaults were perpetrated by a non-stranger.
38% of rapists are a friend or acquantance.
28% are an intimate.
7% are a relative.

And come now, we aren't ninjas. You can't just jump up and murder the person... :/
Since when did rapes become so predictable?!
You can't just come up with silly ways to avoid rape...

There honestly, are no ways to avoid the common rape,
Especially considering most rapes happen within the family.


But here are some real websites that do show you how to defend yourself and prevent rape:

Women's Self Defense Institute
No Nonsense Self Defense Rape Prevention


There are a few hotlines out there to call if you have been raped.

Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
1-800-656-HOPE
Online Hotline
Search for a Local Crisis Center

Sexual Abuse Hotline
1-888-PREVENT

National Suicide Hotline:
1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)

National Adolescent Suicide Hotline:
800-621-4000

People Against Rape
1-800-877-7252

National Center for Victims of Crime
1-800-394-2255

Rappahannock Council Against Sexual Assault
1-540-371-1666


Note: I have honestly never called a hotline, so I can't tell you how it feels or what it's like. But, I have heard from a very reliable online resource and she tells me that they're very trustworthy.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 4:19 pm


Finally e_e
Someone with common sense

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 4:29 pm


Lady Kira X
Finally e_e
Someone with common sense


Is that a compliment?
And, I'm just sick of reading people who post like,
"Kick them. Find a gun and shoot them... yadda..."
It just...
It's stupid.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 4:36 pm


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Is that a compliment?
And, I'm just sick of reading people who post like,
"Kick them. Find a gun and shoot them... yadda..."
It just...
It's stupid.


I agree with you, they suggestions are highly unrealistic.
This is rape... you aren't expecting it..
So why the hell would you be able to shoot them... do you carry a gun with you every where?

If you're going to carry anything... make it a whistle or pepper spray.. idk.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 4:44 pm


Lady Kira X


If you're going to carry anything... make it a whistle or pepper spray.. idk.


Even still,
I highly doubt that you'd have the time to use those even...
:/
But honestly, considering that most rapes are committed by family members, or people that the victim trusts... I highly doubt they'd carry around that kind of stuff with a person they trusted.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 12:53 pm


Itz just crazy
Onez like throw a pancake at them are quite.... well
Useless

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 2:41 pm


Well, not quite.
I know judo and can hurt anyone out to mess with me.
Sure I might think twice before hurting someone I know, but it all depends on if I really care about them. Which is not really :C Takes a lot for me to actually care. (I really don't care if that rapist is part of my family. Family don't harm each other. So that person ain't no family of mine >:C)
And you can actually use any object around you(Even if you are in an ally) to keep that rapist at bay.
It's not stupid. That's what I'm trying to say :C
PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:52 pm


bhappens if it gets rlly worse ... D; tht happpen 2 1 of my finwedz nd wen i heard tht form her boyfinwed nd shyt she almost got raped D; but u cnt rlly run from it ... it will mayb come bk nd haunt u 4 the rest of ur life .... it dsnt haunt meh anymur thugh (;

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 1:44 pm


exactly. no one is too strong
PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 6:34 pm


Great Information Very helpful ^^

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 6:39 pm


I have a friend who's dad won't let her go places by herself until she learns self defense and i think that, that plan could really work. Or people could do what me and my friends do and never ever go to the bathroom alone.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 6:40 pm


yes and most the time the rapist has more power then you do so basically there is no way to really avoid it. =(

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 6:45 pm


you truthfuly cant avoid rape because u dont know its comeing but be carefull of stranger danger!
PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 7:08 pm


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I agree wif u

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 7:45 pm


Rapings come unexpected so before you try to attack your attacker, your bound to get gagged or be in some position where you can't defend yourself. The best way I think is to call help is by yelling. Yelling still might be unreliable since most people get attacked in alleys or places where there nobody to call for help.
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