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FREH

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 4:00 pm


How many girls would be interested in having a relationship with someone in my situation.
(Boys can answer this too, just switch around then genders or something~)

So I'm bi.
And a while ago me and my boyfriend were talking and he knows I'm bi
but he also knows that I've never actually done anything with another girl.
And he felt bad cause he thinks he's holding me back and he feels that if I want to go out and experience that
then I should be able to.
And he pretty much said that if I want to go out and get a girlfriend on the side, that's completely fine with him as long as he knows about it.
And to be honest I really wouldn't mind going out a pursuing more of a causal relationship with a girl
(Kind of somewhere between like a ******** and a full on girlfriend...
it's kind of hard for me to explain exactly what I'm thinking of~)
If only because I never have before.
And this isn't a case of
'hey I think I might be bi so I need a little fling to experiment with'
I know that I'm for sure bisexual and have known for years.


And I guess
Feel free to share your thoughts on polyamory in general.
PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:45 pm


I think that if both members of a relationship are square on the issue of polyamory, it's fine. Your boyfriend says that he's fine with it but if you pursue another relationship to have on the side, you'd have to let anyone that you might be interested know since not everyone is as open-minded and amiable as your boyfriend seems to be.

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Das Otae Aelo

PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:30 pm


Hey, I was in that situation...I didn't do it though. I don't think cheating under any circumstance is right, but hey..if he's open to it and you want it, then go for it. Of course, we ended up breaking up in the end because "Oh Hai guys! I'm a lesbian!" but yeah...the only advice you're gonna get is do it if you want to. -shrug- That's usually how it goes anyway. But I do wish you luck and I hope all will be well. heart
PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:32 pm


Das Otae Aelo
Hey, I was in that situation...I didn't do it though. I don't think cheating under any circumstance is right, but hey..if he's open to it and you want it, then go for it. Of course, we ended up breaking up in the end because "Oh Hai guys! I'm a lesbian!" but yeah...the only advice you're gonna get is do it if you want to. -shrug- That's usually how it goes anyway. But I do wish you luck and I hope all will be well. heart

I don't believe in cheating at all.
But if both people know about it
and are okay with it.
Then I wouldn't call it cheating anymore.

FREH


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:38 pm


I believe that there are some people that need that sort of relationship. However, I personally am strictly monogamous and will only accept one partner and expect my partner to do the same.
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