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 Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 5:38 pm
ok new question:
WHAT IF MY PARENTS TELL ME TO NOT WEAR IT BECAUSE THEY THINK ITS WEIRD D:
then wut will i do TT^TT
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 5:52 pm
Parents can be so cruel crying .I suggest talking to them about why its not wierd and maybe showing them how many people wear it or ask them when you can wear it or something like that.Just a suggestion so think over what your going to do before you do it. 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 4:23 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 5:17 pm
You say, "What if?". Have you asked them about it yet? I'd suggest starting off with some toned-down things, bell-shaped skirts and fancy shirts, before investing alot of money or time into something more extravagant. If this is a slow transition, they might even think that the final product was the only logical conclusion.
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Posted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 10:19 pm
I agree with Kittywitch entirely.
It'd probably be easier to show them simpler styles to get them used to loli.
Dumping AP's latest ott-colorful-cupcake-explosion-creations onto them might be a bit too much for a first step xD
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 3:50 pm
-C'est la lune qui conduit la danse...-
That but if they're not accepting about it and you're underage and/or still living with them, there's nothing you can do about it unless you buy the clothes with your own hard-worked money. But even then there are some ******** up parents who will overdo it and throw your clothes away in a rage.
So if you can't convince them, you're lucked out. And it's probably just better to wait until you move out.
-...quand le soleil sera couché dans ton âme froide.-
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Posted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 11:47 am
Most parents accept it best (from what i've seen) if you start with casual lolita, and work your way up. Start wearing a loli blouse over jeans, for example. Find things that work with loli in stores around you - so your not bringing home a lolita blouse, its a cute shirt you bought at forever 21. Work your way up to wearing full lolita for special days with friends, then special days with family, and then they should be used to it.
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Posted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 6:13 pm
My dad is the same way. You just have to dress it down until you leave the house. Dont wear any bows of accessories keep them in your purse. same with the petticoat. If you have high socks leave them down until you get to your destination. But dont forget to dress it down on your way home
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 9:00 pm
You could point out to them that the alternative of today's modern fashions are somewhat trashy and distasteful
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:17 pm
namida_no_chi You could point out to them that the alternative of today's modern fashions are somewhat trashy and distasteful
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Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:48 pm
Tsuyoki-chan namida_no_chi You could point out to them that the alternative of today's modern fashions are somewhat trashy and distasteful This is true 3nodding The huge difference you can point out to the loli lay-person being that fetish clothes focus on showing off the body in a tawdry way (short skirt lengths, way too much focus on boob showing, etc), but Loli is much more conservative (longer skirt lengths, boobs aren't showing, no platform stripper heels)
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Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:09 am
namida_no_chi Tsuyoki-chan namida_no_chi You could point out to them that the alternative of today's modern fashions are somewhat trashy and distasteful This is true 3nodding The huge difference you can point out to the loli lay-person being that fetish clothes focus on showing off the body in a tawdry way (short skirt lengths, way too much focus on boob showing, etc), but Loli is much more conservative (longer skirt lengths, boobs aren't showing, no platform stripper heels) Sleeping Dragon of Shu The land is united at last....No, the land was always as one....
Well, problem is that even EroLoli isn't like fashion of today. It's sexy, but is still covered completely if done correctly, so as long as you don't wear EroLoli around them, or ever let them see it, you should be alright if you talk to them about it.
It was man who has been divided....
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Posted: Sat Oct 24, 2009 8:18 am
Tell your parents that your a girl and you want to be able to be feminine. Only how many years ago women never even heard of wearing pants and now everyone does. How girly is that? Not at all. Your parents should be happy you want to be a girl and not a boy. Stand up for your right to dress like your gender. Hehe I think i got a little bit to into it. mrgreen
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Posted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 2:43 pm
Back when I was a teen I was very rebelious...I just wore what I want. lol
Really though, as long as you are paying for it yourself there should be no problem. Be a rebel! :3
Or if you're too nervous about that, I suggest you take it slow. Wear a cute skirt or blouse you see at the mall that looks Lolita. Be casual, not too frilly. And maybe they'll see its not as bad as they think.
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Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 5:13 am
their not the one whos wearing it!! rolleyes
durrhh!! sweatdrop
gonk
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