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santinodemarco1 Vice Captain
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 Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 9:03 pm
Okay, seriously. I don't get them lol. Like I'm so easily boggled by how they think and react and stuffs. You could go up to a guy tell them you like them, they'll deny you and then a few months later they'll be like "Damn, I like her too". Late much? Lol.
And then we have the way too overly friendly dudes. They'll laugh with you, have some fun, psyche you out and then boom gone. Uhm, yeah cuz that doesn't make the girls feel like they've been played at all.
Mixed Signals do not work :/
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 9:32 pm
Aww, well I'm not so sure about the generalizing of the entire male gender. Then again, I have very unique beliefs about genders that I feel almost anyone would disagree with. Possibly, I'll post a thread about it in this subforum.
I definitely can relate to similar scenarios, though. It is very frustrating and hard not to take it personally or get emotionally upset even though you are not to blame. The key problem I believe is that some (maybe even most) guys are incredibly immature. Many seem to expect exactly what they want when they want it, but don't open their minds to see that reality can be much more appealing then a fantasy. I've had a guy ( who I was pathetically obsessed with at the time) reject me and then when I was no longer available want me very badly. Also, their is the being clueless component; my current boyfriend couldn't take the hint that I liked him when I did the following before we were a couple on Halloween in high school: I had this black pleather mini dress with spaghetti straps that looked pretty smokin' on me if I do say so myself (and it takes a lot for me to say something good about myself) and I was wearing this feather filled coat over it to hide away. I walked up to him at the lunch table before school started. He was with a bunch of friends and I unzipped the coat and showed him the outfit and was being all giggly. then I zipped it up again and a guy he was friends with was like "Wait, I didn't get to see" and I was like "I'm not wearing it for YOU" and then i walked up to Mike (my current bf) and sat on his lap. I mean how much more obvious could I be? LOL, and till this day he says he didn't figure it out. So sometimes I think the brain just works too slowly or something.
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santinodemarco1 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 4:23 pm
True. I usually only generalize when my head is not very cool and just want to get things out without specifics. I don't really post a lot when I rant unless it's something that truly and deeply disturbs me lol
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 6:16 pm
You know what I find strange? Man and woman were supposedly created to be together yet we have very little understanding of the other...how does that work? Men understand men, women understand women...on the other hand neither of us understand anything about the opposite sex. It's strange to me that things work out that way. Sometimes I wonder if that is a baseline understanding for homosexuality...if you understand the same sex better you might just be more attracted to them because you aren't so confused anymore...
Of course that is just a theory. But I agree with you both. The Male Species is definitely confusing. But so are we to them.
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santinodemarco1 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 7:50 pm
Wee. Well, I will admit there is that ONE guy in the group that gets you perfectly and he's completely hetero buuut, that's like so rare. All the youngins are so like immature. It's got to be that brain level thing. Like they're three or four years behind us or something? And we're ahead of the game by two. Idk, something about that. That's gotta be it, right? I mean some are seriously right there with us, and can catch up faster than the others.
Like this one guy I had a thing going for, he soooo led me on and used his best friends phone to find out who I was [cuz my bff told him to text my number without revealing who I was] and he was an a** about it. But now that the summer has passed and we're back in school together, he's pretty obvious about some stuff. But I don't want to take the chance and go for it again if he's just playing me, you know? Even his friends are getting in on it, like they're all trying to get me to notice him or be nicer to themm. I'm confused and in some dangerous territory here.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:47 pm
Aww, I hope it works out so you are the happiest and the least hurt. If he likes you enough he will have to step it up for you to see if he is worth the risk of hurt emotions.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 11:44 pm
Id say Im a decent and straight forward guy, but I know you'd say other wise Marco.
Its easy.
Guys dont move emotionally as fast as women. A women can fallin love easier then I male. Also, from what most women taught me, a girl can pick out alot of things about a guy if they like him or not.
So for you, it's easy, you see a guy and talk to him a bit. You pick out what you like an dont, if it stacks in your favor, you'll go for it. Though, the male will try the same, but most men are usually slower at the fixed finding. MOST MEN go for physical attributes and find out if they like them or not.
There is only a 34% of males who emotions can move as fast as a true women and be able to pick out attributes of and on an emotional standing that will allow us to find out if we like or even love them.
Hence, "I love you" Said female. "Oh, I dont like you." Said male. Emotions catch up, "Oh my God shes perfect!"
And the fast guy. He's looking for a quick game. He as one true motive, to get the impossible and most nerdy, high end, self councious or rich girl are impossible to get. If a girl just gives themselves to them easily, the dude will leave, cause it was too easy. He wants to play a game of cat and mouse. He wants the challenege and most girl usually give in.
There ya go, my answers for the thread. I got more, but Im being lazy!
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 2:59 pm
ExileDeath And the fast guy. He's looking for a quick game. He as one true motive, to get the impossible and most nerdy, high end, self councious or rich girl are impossible to get. If a girl just gives themselves to them easily, the dude will leave, cause it was too easy. He wants to play a game of cat and mouse. He wants the challenege and most girl usually give in. I am curious to know anything more you may know about the above quoted mentality. Is there a way to test or judge if that is a guy's intentions? Thanks for your honesty, it is most enlightening. smile
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 3:17 pm
patience1984 ExileDeath And the fast guy. He's looking for a quick game. He as one true motive, to get the impossible and most nerdy, high end, self councious or rich girl are impossible to get. If a girl just gives themselves to them easily, the dude will leave, cause it was too easy. He wants to play a game of cat and mouse. He wants the challenege and most girl usually give in. I am curious to know anything more you may know about the above quoted mentality. Is there a way to test or judge if that is a guy's intentions? Thanks for your honesty, it is most enlightening. smile Its almost hard to know a guys intentions. You just have to be very open and know how to judge a person before hand. Most men are like the above quote not steriotyping people, its just nature for men. Even if the guy is as nice and honest as the most bestest guy ever, he still looks for a challenge. As to most guys in general.
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 5:55 pm
there to confuzin eek but strangely i get alnog better wif guys then girls and then again i love mi girls!!!
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 6:13 pm
hollisterbabe174 there to confuzin eek but strangely i get alnog better wif guys then girls and then again i love mi girls!!!
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 7:40 pm
I have never had a good relationship in my life, I guess who has...looking back moments that I thought were nice had been twisted in my memory...now they are what they really are. Denial and heartache are all that comes with dating. I STAYING ALONE FOREVER!!!! *cough* What were we talking about again?
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 7:46 pm
*trys to hug batgirl, but is afraid*
Its ok. . .
You'll find the right person.
i promise.
Someday we all will!!!
Some sooner then you think ^_^
Though I think I found mine >.>
But still!!!
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Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 2:09 pm
I learned something from reading this thread.
(There was this girl i was trying to get to like me the whole year, and she kept giving me signs that she liked me always wanting to be around me, smiling when she sees me, and waking me up for school in the morning via text message, and trying to get me a job where she works at. I wasnt sure though because she had a bf at the time but i guess she did like him. I feel like a total idiot to because i really like this girl, and i talk to her still but she gives me mixed signals like, she'll give me a lot of attention then some, then none, then a lot its just crazy and i feel stupid because i might had missed my window of opportunity) D:
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Faithes light Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 2:13 pm
Sky-NinjaX I learned something from reading this thread. (There was this girl i was trying to get to like me the whole year, and she kept giving me signs that she liked me always wanting to be around me, smiling when she sees me, and waking me up for school in the morning via text message, and trying to get me a job where she works at. I wasnt sure though because she had a bf at the time but i guess she did like him. I feel like a total idiot to because i really like this girl, and i talk to her still but she gives me mixed signals like, she'll give me a lot of attention then some, then none, then a lot its just crazy and i feel stupid because i might had missed my window of opportunity) D: I say go for her now smile !
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