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 Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 7:20 pm
EDIT: The old subject was 'does size really matter', but I'm not going to change what I wrote..
I'm not talking about the size of a p***s, I'm talking about weight. If you really love someone, does it matter how big they are? What I mean by that, is if you love someone enough can you get 'horny to them' whether they're big or not?
Yes, for all those people who are going to say I'm fat, I am. Not obese, but I have a fair amount of baggage. My boyfriend says he loves me, but I'm always worried that he can't be attracted to me. I'm not about to have sex anytime soon, but if I was to lose my virginity I'd want it to be with him. So does it really matter what size you are?
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 8:24 pm
Ofcourse it doesnt. Love is love no matter what, Lanky, skinny, chubby, Tall, short whatever. If you love him, and he loves you your appearance will matter, only in the slightest, because Love is a feeling that can honestly overshadow physical attraction in my opinion.
also, remember this always.... Curves are a good thing wink
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 8:45 pm
If he loves you, your weight probably won't matter much.
And even without love, people of all sizes can be attractive. I've been attracted to guys on both extremes, scrawny and grossly obese.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 9:12 pm
My first ever boyfriend outweighed me by almost 100 pounds, and that was when I was like 140. Sometimes I found it a little hard to be attracted during sex, but I still found him handsome and attractive.
As others have said, if he loves you then your weight shouldn't matter too much. He may have a preference for a certain weight range, but that's something you two can talk about together. For example my current boyfriend's last ex was really overweight, so he would hate it if I got really heavy (I'm about 150 now, a little chubby), but otherwise he doesn't care.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 9:23 pm
I find that appearance matters at first then after a while it seems to matter less and less.
My boyfriend would be fine if I gained like 20 or so pounds; or if I had a child and was fat after giving birth. He's in love with me for me. =]
And I'd be fine if he gained some weight too.. even though he is underweight at the moment. ;p
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Posted: Sat Nov 14, 2009 3:13 pm
I've always outclassed my wife in weight by at least 80 lbs, and she is still attracted to me. Size doesn't really matter any more than the size of the guy's p***s. any real guy will worry more about if you're pleasant to be around and if you have a good personality. Most arousal, in my oppinion and experience, begins in the mind
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Posted: Sat Nov 14, 2009 5:09 pm
My boyfriend isn't the greatest looking guy either, and hates himself because of his weight, but I always reasure him that I still love him and I'm still attracted to him
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Posted: Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:36 pm
No, weight is definitely not important to me.
I can still be attracted to my boyfriend, no matter what size he is.
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Posted: Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:43 pm
love is not to be weighed. its to be decided. its what you feel. if you feel like it does, then it does. if you dont, then you dont. your decision.
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Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 4:30 pm
I have this problem too sad (
I weigh about 220lbs now (no one believes me, but I have pretty heavy bones, too. I look about 180lbs) when about this time last year, I only weighed 150. My fiance barely noticed until his mom pointed it out behind my back one day. I'm trying to lose weight because it's just not healthy for me and if by chance I get pregnant, I don't want to be huge because of my family history (difficult pregnancies run in my family because of gestational diabetes and other forms of diabetes do too).
He always tells me I don't need to change though and that I look fine the way I do, and yeah, I do look fine, but I don't FEEL fine. I won't feel fine until I'm truly happy with my appearance, and I used to be (the reason I gained weight was because of some new medication I had to be put on). If I can get back to that, I know I'll be happy with the way I look again.
But yeah, anyway, he does always tell me I'm beautiful the way I am even though I know I'm fat.
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Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 11:02 pm
I understand but weight shouldn't matter when it comes to a geniuine attraction. Some people may be shallow enough to get people based on weight, but that is only half the battle there are really cute/sexy big and small. I am overweight and I love my body. I dont overeat and I exercise. I just try to be healthy before I even think of weight. Now would I love to lose a couple pounds sure, but people will always be attracted to someone even if you don't know it.
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