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 Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 9:03 pm
Well, kind of. We decided to take a break.
Because it seemed like I didn't enjoy being out with him very much anymore. Especially around other people, it was really frustrating. And I know that he wants us to be together for a long time but I don't feel like that would work well, since he was only my second boyfriend.
And really, I'd been thinking about doing this for a while and the only thing stopping me was that I knew he probably would have a hard time with it. But I really want to see if it'll make me happier.
Maybe being alone for a while then trying other people might make me realize how good I had it with him. And maybe I'm really wrong but I won't know until I try.
Ugh just wanted to post this somewhere. >>
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 1:24 am
Quoted from Encyclopediadramatica.com
"During a relationship, there will come a time when your girlfriend will announce to you that she "wants to take a break". Seems innocent enough and her reasoning is usually that she "needs some time to herself" away from you, or that her school/work is bogging her down.
In reality what she really means by "Taking a break" is that she wants to go out and slut around until she finds a new boyfriend because she is too much of a coward to break up with you beforehand. This tactic gives her insurance that if her plan to find a new boyfriend fails, then she can get back with you with ease since the relationship never really ended. This way her constant fulfillment of attention and hugs isn't compromised.
If she does find a new boyfriend she will come back and break up with you mentioning "this isn't going to work" and continue to lie to you about how she needs to be alone, when in fact she has already had plenty of foreign d**k in her."
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:47 am
lolol indoloro
however from a girl's point of view i understand what you did. :< <33
hopefully you'll realize how good you had it with him,
and if not then you'll find another guy to love and such.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 12:10 pm
Thanks luxbb. <3 I just wanted some time alone I think. Although one of my friends from band keeps hitting on me wtf.
Ind there are actually vague grains of truth in that. Slutting around (lulz) might be a nice change but atm I don't intend to break up with him. But lol ED.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:36 pm
Indoloro Quoted from Encyclopediadramatica.com "During a relationship, there will come a time when your girlfriend will announce to you that she "wants to take a break". Seems innocent enough and her reasoning is usually that she "needs some time to herself" away from you, or that her school/work is bogging her down. In reality what she really means by "Taking a break" is that she wants to go out and slut around until she finds a new boyfriend because she is too much of a coward to break up with you beforehand. This tactic gives her insurance that if her plan to find a new boyfriend fails, then she can get back with you with ease since the relationship never really ended. This way her constant fulfillment of attention and hugs isn't compromised. If she does find a new boyfriend she will come back and break up with you mentioning "this isn't going to work" and continue to lie to you about how she needs to be alone, when in fact she has already had plenty of foreign d**k in her." Factual.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:52 pm
That's so reversed though, boys do that more then girls.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:32 pm
LeRaven That's so reversed though, boys do that more then girls. Maybe in the bizzaro parallel universe you live in. I quoted it for truth.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 6:28 am
LeRaven That's so reversed though, boys do that more then girls. I'm not sure on that. I know plenty of dudes, and I know plenty of chicks. Chicks pull that s**t and crush the dudes. Dudes either just don't get in a relationship and go manwhore, break up with the chick and go manwhore, or sometimes cheat and go manwhore, but the last one not as much as one would think because that s**t takes more effort than just breaking up with someone.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 7:26 am
Indoloro LeRaven That's so reversed though, boys do that more then girls. Maybe in the bizzaro parallel universe you live in. I quoted it for truth. Nah. I've never done that. When it's over, it's over.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:32 am
WELL MAYBE OUT HERE IN SLUTTY CANADA.
Out here the guys cheat 10 to 1 more times then the girls.
Plus they'll be all WE NEED A BREAK -******** five girls- AW BABY I MISS YOU LETS GET BACK TOGETHER.
Same principals c'monnn.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 1:07 pm
LeRaven That's so reversed though, boys do that more then girls. This happens a lot, here.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 2:56 pm
LeRaven WELL MAYBE OUT HERE IN SLUTTY CANADA. Out here the guys cheat 10 to 1 more times then the girls. Plus they'll be all WE NEED A BREAK -******** five girls- AW BABY I MISS YOU LETS GET BACK TOGETHER. Same principals c'monnn.
As far as I can tell it's the same over here.
But I think that's kind of irrelevant to my situation, since I don't plan on sleeping around. I honestly just want to be alone for a little while, mostly.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:40 pm
LeRaven WELL MAYBE OUT HERE IN SLUTTY CANADA. Out here the guys cheat 10 to 1 more times then the girls. Plus they'll be all WE NEED A BREAK -******** five girls- AW BABY I MISS YOU LETS GET BACK TOGETHER. Same principals c'monnn. Canada sounds like a sweet land of milk and honey.
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 10:06 am
Felin Greenleaf LeRaven That's so reversed though, boys do that more then girls. I'm not sure on that. I know plenty of dudes, and I know plenty of chicks. Chicks pull that s**t and crush the dudes. Dudes either just don't get in a relationship and go manwhore, break up with the chick and go manwhore, or sometimes cheat and go manwhore, but the last one not as much as one would think because that s**t takes more effort than just breaking up with someone. Breaking up sucks. But it's better than lying. And, yeah pretty much girls do it more often from what I've seen too. It's pretty ******** up. Hopefully things work out for you Yoko. I don't expect what Ind quoted out of you, but hey... LSGers have done wrong before. Not my business though. Maybe I'm just jaded cause you kinda sound like one of my exes in your post.
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 10:29 am
FELIN HAS NEVER MET GARY, OBV.
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