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 Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 8:19 pm
ok my x did a very horrible thing to me and obviously we broke up. i want "revenge" of a sort. i want to make him want me again and then when he tells me he wants me back i want to be able to refuse him. i've tried many things but othing seems to be working. so what i guess i'm asking is for advise on how to drive him crazy without me looking too obvious about it and also not looking like a slut at the same time. i just don't know what to do. any advise you guys have to give would be great. and of course you can tell me i'm way outta line and should back off..........i'm starting to wonder am i really crazy for wanting this??? sweatdrop
oh P.S. mouse, dark, sierra, i understand if you have to delete this post
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Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 8:35 pm
Well, I'd say to just find some healthy way to express your emotions, like through art, dance, writing or music (or really any art/creative form).
And anyway, even your thinking about you wanting him to want you is you paying him attention. The more energy you put into thinking about him, the more he feels it and deosn't need your energy. I think when a situation like this happens, the only way he would long for you is if he no longer had ANY access to your energy (granted that he felt a connection with you in the first place). But the only way for him to have no access to your energy, is for you to stop GIVING it to him. Your thoughts project energy, too.
So, I'd say the healthy thing to do is express your emotions, try to get over him completey (for youself) and Karma will find it's way back to him (when it's time, and granted that what he did made Karmic unbalance).
I hope I've helped a bit.
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Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 9:43 pm
KappaKaeru Well, I'd say to just find some healthy way to express your emotions, like through art, dance, writing or music (or really any art/creative form). And anyway, even your thinking about you wanting him to want you is you paying him attention. The more energy you put into thinking about him, the more he feels it and deosn't need your energy. I think when a situation like this happens, the only way he would long for you is if he no longer had ANY access to your energy (granted that he felt a connection with you in the first place). But the only way for him to have no access to your energy, is for you to stop GIVING it to him. Your thoughts project energy, too. So, I'd say the healthy thing to do is express your emotions, try to get over him completey (for youself) and Karma will find it's way back to him (when it's time, and granted that what he did made Karmic unbalance). I hope I've helped a bit. thanks KappaKaeru. that was really insightful. i mean that. and i do believe in energy, but i've learn to keep a barrier around my own. i felt someone trying to steal it from me one day (i'm not kidding) and i've been careful ever since. and i am over him it's just what he did to me was not something i can ever forgive. my karma might come around and get me in three fold but i'm willing to take that chance......thank you for trying to help though
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 8:45 am
Ive never seen revenge as the way to go, but if you have to you have to. I dont really know how you could get him to want you back though. And dony worry about this thread.
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 9:07 am
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 12:17 pm
Fairy_Lily_Princess KappaKaeru Well, I'd say to just find some healthy way to express your emotions, like through art, dance, writing or music (or really any art/creative form). And anyway, even your thinking about you wanting him to want you is you paying him attention. The more energy you put into thinking about him, the more he feels it and deosn't need your energy. I think when a situation like this happens, the only way he would long for you is if he no longer had ANY access to your energy (granted that he felt a connection with you in the first place). But the only way for him to have no access to your energy, is for you to stop GIVING it to him. Your thoughts project energy, too. So, I'd say the healthy thing to do is express your emotions, try to get over him completey (for youself) and Karma will find it's way back to him (when it's time, and granted that what he did made Karmic unbalance). I hope I've helped a bit. thanks KappaKaeru. that was really insightful. i mean that. and i do believe in energy, but i've learn to keep a barrier around my own. i felt someone trying to steal it from me one day (i'm not kidding) and i've been careful ever since. and i am over him it's just what he did to me was not something i can ever forgive. my karma might come around and get me in three fold but i'm willing to take that chance......thank you for trying to help though Still, revenge is not really the way to go. I don't see "taking a chance" with Karma. If you do something that's gonna come back around, it's gonna come back around. Know wha I mean?
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 12:40 pm
throw a huge party, invite EVERYONE in the state but him, and watch him suffer.
of course, normally when im not wasted i would say to be nice to him and leave him alone.
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 2:17 pm
Durango Fairy_Lily_Princess KappaKaeru Well, I'd say to just find some healthy way to express your emotions, like through art, dance, writing or music (or really any art/creative form). And anyway, even your thinking about you wanting him to want you is you paying him attention. The more energy you put into thinking about him, the more he feels it and deosn't need your energy. I think when a situation like this happens, the only way he would long for you is if he no longer had ANY access to your energy (granted that he felt a connection with you in the first place). But the only way for him to have no access to your energy, is for you to stop GIVING it to him. Your thoughts project energy, too. So, I'd say the healthy thing to do is express your emotions, try to get over him completey (for youself) and Karma will find it's way back to him (when it's time, and granted that what he did made Karmic unbalance). I hope I've helped a bit. thanks KappaKaeru. that was really insightful. i mean that. and i do believe in energy, but i've learn to keep a barrier around my own. i felt someone trying to steal it from me one day (i'm not kidding) and i've been careful ever since. and i am over him it's just what he did to me was not something i can ever forgive. my karma might come around and get me in three fold but i'm willing to take that chance......thank you for trying to help though Still, revenge is not really the way to go. I don't see "taking a chance" with Karma. If you do something that's gonna come back around, it's gonna come back around. Know wha I mean? yes but there have been times where i did something i shouldn't have and my karma left me alone. i'm praying it does this time.......
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 10:00 pm
Forgive and forget. It'll make you happier then getting revenge. Hating him will hurt you more then him. Just get over it and get on with your life and be happy. Hating isn't the hippy way. It's not worth it wasting time obsessing about revenge.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 5:41 am
Adain-chan Forgive and forget. It'll make you happier then getting revenge. Hating him will hurt you more then him. Just get over it and get on with your life and be happy. Hating isn't the hippy way. It's not worth it wasting time obsessing about revenge. you're probably right.......i should drop it but it's kinda hard this guy was.......i don't even know how to describe what he did.......
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 2:43 pm
A good hippie doesn't take revenge. Vengance is hatefull. surprised
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 9:48 pm
Fairy_Lily_Princess Durango Still, revenge is not really the way to go. I don't see "taking a chance" with Karma. If you do something that's gonna come back around, it's gonna come back around. Know wha I mean? yes but there have been times where i did something i shouldn't have and my karma left me alone. i'm praying it does this time....... K, cool, that's up to you. The first time that I really fell in love, the girl I wanted would't even give me the time of day. I asked her out twice and she rejected me both. It was even more painfull because we shared a class every week. I guess what hurt the most about the whole thing is that it seemed that I wasn't even there to her. Ever since I've realized that at least if she hated me, I would hold a place in her heart. A place of hate, but a place none the less. That would have been less painfull than knowing she never even thought of me, much less have any kind of feelings for me.
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 12:20 pm
KappaKaeru Well, I'd say to just find some healthy way to express your emotions, like through art, dance, writing or music (or really any art/creative form). And anyway, even your thinking about you wanting him to want you is you paying him attention. The more energy you put into thinking about him, the more he feels it and deosn't need your energy. I think when a situation like this happens, the only way he would long for you is if he no longer had ANY access to your energy (granted that he felt a connection with you in the first place). But the only way for him to have no access to your energy, is for you to stop GIVING it to him. Your thoughts project energy, too. So, I'd say the healthy thing to do is express your emotions, try to get over him completey (for youself) and Karma will find it's way back to him (when it's time, and granted that what he did made Karmic unbalance). I hope I've helped a bit.
I'm sending positive vibes to you now... I sincerely hope you will be able to slowly release this jerk from your thoughts.
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Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 5:49 pm
Did something really bad, eh? I'd just bite him really hard on the arm or something, but you're probably not like me.
So, unless you want to do that, I have nothing else to say for ya.
Then again...you could just not care.
I mean, I take it you don't like this person, right?
So, why bother?
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Lord Thatlatu of the Tofu
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