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Ever been persecuted for harmlessly showing off your love for Zutara?
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Teh_Sheba

PostPosted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 7:42 am


Hey guys. So I bring you a bit of lulz, sort of. More sad and pathetic than anything, though.

So you know my sig, it currently has a LOVELY Zutara manip and an epic banner, and the saying "Sometimes you just need to say, who needs canon," At the time I am about to refer back to, it was the two pics and the Twilight icon, minus the saying.

So, not too long ago, I was BANNED from my Anti-Twilight guild, for reason of trolling. Though I had no prior warning, and I was not given an example.

Seeing as how I'm fairly level-headed on forums, and don't randomly troll, let alone in my own guilds, this of course confused me.

I then went to the guild's founder and explained my situation and confusion, and she got me back in. I barely make one post before the girl who banned me responds with this:
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Admittedly, I kind of did want to show off, but that got old almost instantly and I just got back to having a Zutara sig for the sake of Zutara. Not to mention, I was growing tired of having Twilight crap in my sig anyhow. But I'm not harassing, I'm not interupting the workings of the guild. I just have a sig with Zutara in it.

So, what the heck. I guess she thinks I'm trolling her by sporting my Zutara pride. I hadn't had Zutara stuff in my siggy for a while, because of my phase with Anti-Twilight propganda, lol, but you guys could totally vouch for me, having a sig that is packed with Zutara goodness and smart-assery is NOT new for me. I just took a break from it, and then came back to it with new, prettier icons/banners.

If she's trying to get me banned AGAIN for this, I'm going to be pissed. I was already growing impatient with this girl for how she behaves in the guild. There was a huge thread going on about how they should TOTALLY ban some girl just because she had a TEAM JACOB Icon in her profile. And she "seemed like a spy.", and this girl was the one who had even started the thread and suggested she ban the girl. Which, that kind of pissed me off, and I fought it vehemently. Shortly thereafter I got banned, and I thought it was for voicing my opinion about this alleged "spy." Well, no, turns out, it's just voicing my opinion about a pairing I like in my own sig. (cause it can't be the Anti-Twilight icon.)

This girl...really just rubs me the wrong way. And it had nothing to do with her pairing preference. It's how she acts in the guild. Everything is so Draconian with her, I found that out in the whole mess with the poor girl they were all plotting to get rid of(and did, I think.) It kind of made me want to actually leave the guild.

Now I'm sticking around to defend myself, because I don't appreciate being banned wrongly and treated unfairly. And I don't appreciate this chick telling me to change something that I have completely FREE right to customize as long as it's not horribly inappropriate.

Makes me really grateful for this guild, my only other guild I actually go to anymore, where everyone respects each other and we wouldn't plot to get rid of someone if they said that they liked Maiko or Kataang even a tiny bit much less in a THREAD in the main forum where EVERYONE can see it and get a laugh...or feel horrible, if you're the person being plotted against. *huggles the guild* As well as mods who don't ban you over stupid s**t.

So, the Anti-Twilight guild is kind of falling out with me...But I'm fighting this battle. It's not like I made any really close friends over there anyway, I was usually pretty much in the background, though I'm currently discussing the whole ordeal with a curious bystander of the conversation between myself and the girl accusing me.

I could be banned again by the end of the day, or the guild master might come in and swing the banhammer on the accusor instead. Anything could happen. But, since it pretains to Zutara and being persecuted for it, I'll keep you guys posted.

In the meantime, Discuss:
Being persecuted for sporting Zutara pride
people who generally annoy you
Why we can never seem to meet any nice Kataangers
anything else similar this story brings to your mind.
PostPosted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 10:17 am


That's... completely ridiculous. o.O I mean, yeah, if you had Zutara porn or something else vulgar in your sig, I'd understand - that's against site rules. But just have Zutara in it? Isn't expressing your opinion kinda of, you know, the purpose of a signature.

*headdesk* These people. I will never understand them.

Thankfully, I've yet to encounter such a person (that I remember of, at least). If I do though... Yeah, you can bet there will be some angry words.

Good luck with you fight! =D I hope that girl gets some sense knocked into her and realizes how ridiculous she's being.

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fievel goes west

PostPosted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 7:33 pm


Good luck on your fight. heart I've never met this girl but she seems so facepalm worthy just by what you've said.

I'm sure the whole guild here supports you.

The closest I've gotten to someone like that was this 13 year old who would accuse people of being a Zutarian if they managed to start a fight, even if they weren't; and talk down on those who did ship it.
He managed to round up a bunch of followers to do the exact same thing, which just forced me to just leave the forum because it just annoyed the frick outta me.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 9:55 am


I hate Twilight and Twilighters. But what I don't understand is how zutara is offending to anti twilighters? Maybe I read this wrong? 'Cause I'm anti twilight and a zutara supporter. confused

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Teh_Sheba

PostPosted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 1:17 pm


Progress report: Not banned yet! Haven't heard from the girl either.

Thanks for the support, guys. ^^ I can't believe people can be so petty either. And it IS stuff like this hateful attitudethat drives me away from joining some forums or even sticking around in others. We Zutarians are a lucky bunch. ^^

I don't think it had much to do with her hating Twilight or not, she's apparently just a Kataanger and otherwise canon shipper. We just joined the same guild and we're apparently now clashing since it became apparent that I'm a hard-core Zutara shipper.

And actually, I'm beginning to get tired of the Anti-Twilighters as well, because there's just a lot of negativity in that guild, like I said with the one girl being plotted against, just for having an icon in her profile. Anti's can be just as bratty and vicious as the psycho Twilight fans.

By the way, if anyone DOES like Twilight in here, I'm not meaning to offend you; just Twilight is not my thing, and some of the fans ARE insane.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 2:21 pm


Yeah I love this guild partly because everyone in it is so nice. Guilds like these are great because people can share their love for something without being shot down. Anyway I hope you don't get banned!

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 2:55 pm


if you do get banned again, you need to take that up with the guild founder and have that girl stripped of her mod abilities. she shouldn't be banning people just for having a sig for an unrelated fandom that rubs them the wrong way.

but i'll be honest, i HAVE contemplated banning people from capstara for expressing interest in kataang or maiko, or speaking poorly of zutara (in a non-humorous way). it really bothers me that there are people in the comm going "yaey zutara!" and "yaey kataang!" at the same time. what? no, i don't want to hear that s**t, GTFO.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 6:45 pm


I'm surprise that the other mods are even letting that girl get away with the harassment of other members. That is not cool that she is being mean to you or others for liking a particular thing. It's not like you had a sig that said "Love Zutara because all other pairing suck!!!" or something like that. That girl seems just like a jerk who is going overboard with her power. She gives mods a bad name.

anitasakura
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 4:18 am


As many have said before, it sounds like she's abusing her powers, and not thinking in an adult and rational way. Like Diet, I kind of frown at people who don't support Zutara, but if they don't actually DO anything against the rules, then my hands as a mod are bound.


To the topics you want us to discuss:

I don't know exactly why, but most Kataangers argue that Aang DESERVES Katara, and that's why we are MEAN and petty, and generally stupid and hateful, because we're Zutarians. though I do admit that I have had the urge to punch Aang everytime he's being childish and bitchy :I
PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 7:37 am


I agree all the way with you. That has to be one of the most ridiculous reasons to get threatened to get banned or to actually get banned. People are so stupid sometimes. There's nothing wrong with having any shipping in a signature. Hell, there's nothing really wrong with having shipping bashing either as long as it doesn't have anything against the rules. It's your opinion and no one can tell you otherwise.

I hope you can get some sense into that girl. People like that is why I don't go to the forums anymore. At one point a Kataang shipper reported me for having our guild's banner in my profile "about me" section. Seriosuly, what the hell?

That girl is abusing her powers and you're probably not the first person to get "harressed" by her. I hope things go well. I'm supporting you all the way! :3

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Teh_Sheba

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:31 am


I agree with all you guys, I mean, it's stupid and a waste and abuse of power to have someone who's willing to ban you at the tip of a hat if your sig displeases them. If I get any more trouble or warning from her, I will take it to the guild leader myself.

However, as since the first incident when I got back, I haven't really seen her or gotten told off by her. Maybe she already got a talking to, I mean, her comment to me WAS right out in the open of the guild.

And actually, Daydreamer, I may not have anything that says "Zutara is the best, everything else sucks," BUT, this girl was actually the one with a sig that said, in so many words, "Zutara Sucks- Not canon? then it didn't happen."
And go figure, I'm the one that's trolling.
rolleyes

Honestly I get a little antsy when I hear people geek about Kataang, it's kind of an Oh, crap kind of feeling, like, I really can't relate to them, but I do respect them, sometimes as friends...I mean, it makes me glad that all my IRL friends ship Zutara, otherwise things would be a wee bit uncomfortable. But banning someone just because they like it? Until they actually harass someone, I wouldn't ban them. We Zutarians got enough s**t in the Avatar fandom to know how unfair that judgment is, I think.

And it is possible to be a pan-shipper. I'm usually a pan-shipper, but when it came to Avatar, I just couldn't do it. At least not for a certain 2 pairings.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 4:36 pm


in situations where someone's just talking about kataang/maiko, it's like offering me brussel sprouts - i crinkle my nose in disgust, but i don't get angry. but when someone says "kataang is cooler than zutara" in a ZUTARA comm? i get ready to kick a** and take names. you're in MY territory now and i have no patience for any canon faggotry in my zutara sanctuary. evil

am i the only one who looks at someone not liking the ship anymore as sort of a betrayal? :<

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 4:38 am


diet otaku
in situations where someone's just talking about kataang/maiko, it's like offering me brussel sprouts - i crinkle my nose in disgust, but i don't get angry. but when someone says "kataang is cooler than zutara" in a ZUTARA comm? i get ready to kick a** and take names. you're in MY territory now and i have no patience for any canon faggotry in my zutara sanctuary. evil

am i the only one who looks at someone not liking the ship anymore as sort of a betrayal? :<


Hahaha!! I like your comparision alot! XD It's annoying when people go into a Zutara thread or forum and bash the pairing. That's like if I went into a Kataang forum and just started bashing the pairing. Even though it's our opinion, we should all respect other's feelings. So I agree with you there. ;3

I feel that it's a form of betrayal in a sense. Alot of shippers have given up because the show is over, but just because the show is over doesn't mean we still can't love Zutara. Hell, Digimon season 1 still has fans writing fanfictions pairing couples, and that ended about 8 or 9 years ago. I hope that in 9 years, the loyal Zutarians, like the people in the guild, will still be writing Zutara fanfictions(throw in a lemon here and there XD) and making AMVs. :3
PostPosted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 7:24 pm


diet otaku
in situations where someone's just talking about kataang/maiko, it's like offering me brussel sprouts - i crinkle my nose in disgust, but i don't get angry. but when someone says "kataang is cooler than zutara" in a ZUTARA comm? i get ready to kick a** and take names. you're in MY territory now and i have no patience for any canon faggotry in my zutara sanctuary. evil

am i the only one who looks at someone not liking the ship anymore as sort of a betrayal? :<

I understand completely! xD
Every time I look at someone's artwork on DA and notice in some form or another that they like Avatar, my very first instinct is to spend as long as it take sifting through their Favorites and Deviations until I find some proof of a sided ship (Which is stupid, but I can't help it) and if it's Kataang or Maiko I can't help but find myself not respecting that artist quite as much.
>x<;

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Teh_Sheba

PostPosted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 7:03 pm


Dementia DarkMoon
diet otaku
in situations where someone's just talking about kataang/maiko, it's like offering me brussel sprouts - i crinkle my nose in disgust, but i don't get angry. but when someone says "kataang is cooler than zutara" in a ZUTARA comm? i get ready to kick a** and take names. you're in MY territory now and i have no patience for any canon faggotry in my zutara sanctuary. evil

am i the only one who looks at someone not liking the ship anymore as sort of a betrayal? :<

I understand completely! xD
Every time I look at someone's artwork on DA and notice in some form or another that they like Avatar, my very first instinct is to spend as long as it take sifting through their Favorites and Deviations until I find some proof of a sided ship (Which is stupid, but I can't help it) and if it's Kataang or Maiko I can't help but find myself not respecting that artist quite as much.
>x<;

*Raises hand*

I too am guilty of doing this.
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