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 Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 7:14 am
Does it ever disturb you or affect you that the people around you are sexual? Or does it disturb them that you are asexual?
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 7:18 am
I don't care so much if my friends are sexuals... I just don't want them to tell details about their sexlifes.
But there is this one thing... I would be irritade if my closest friend/s (those that are closer than broters, sisters and parents) had sex. It's like we wouldn't be that close anymore if they did. I fear the day when they loose their virginity. They'll still be my friends I suppose but it won't be the same. It's stupid, I know, but... sometimes it's like we are one person... but with sex this gap would suddenly appear. That's what I belive but I can't see the future, can I?
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 11:54 am
Actually no, it's not disturbing to me. I've gotten used to the fact that everyone else was sexual.
I can see where you are going with that, Mikusagi. We can't stop people from having it, so I guess we have to live on.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 12:45 pm
Illuminescence I can see where you are going with that, Mikusagi. We can't stop people from having it, so I guess we have to live on.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 1:40 pm
I don't have too many friends - just a few close ones. One of which is quite sexual - though she hasn't lost her virginity, yet. It hasn't caused too much of a barrier. I think it's a little bit of a phase, anyway. My other really good friend, however, looks at sex pretty much the same way I do so that's nice.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 1:42 pm
It's actually kinda interesting - because of the way I act and think I've found friends that act and think kinda the same way. And they all consider themselves asexuals. I wouldn't call them all asexuals but it's entertaining enough that they'd get to the point of calling themselves asexual. It's also kind of annoying, though, if they call themselves asexual but are clearly not.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 3:22 pm
Mikusagi Does it ever disturb you or affect you that the people around you are sexual? Or does it disturb them that you are asexual? I'm more worried about my asexuality than anyone else is - hardly anyone out of the few people I've told believe me anyway. Sexual people don't bother me too much - as long as they don't try to get me into a relationship all the time I don't mind at all. The problem is that the few people who have believed me about my asexuality think that I look down on them and sex, and are now avoiding mentioning relationships for fear of offending me, which is sad because their assumptions aren't true. sad
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 5:43 pm
It depends on the indaviduals....
Boyscouts (My co-workers from camp)
They normally look at me funny and say one of two things
1)Ok that is cool... never really thought that people could do that
2)Yeah right.... one day you will start doing it.
My dad's side of the family
They often say something like this
"What you don't want to have sex? Ummm... ok... so you going to the bar with us? I hear there are a lot of cute boys at this bar"
Aparently too my dad Asexuality = Closet Homosexual
Random Aquatiances
"Umm... interesting"
"Well good for you. Honestly I don't understand how that is possible" (Bio-Majors)
"What? Whatever man you just can't get laid"
That is what sexual people often times say to me.
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TheBrideInBlack Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 2:38 pm
Luckily I don't have much of a social life, so people don't worry over meh, or my relationships.
I can't see any problems except for making friends some day and find out how much their lives revolve around sex. And the fact that they might always talk about it.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 1:26 am
Nironia the Lonely Spirit Luckily I don't have much of a social life, so people don't worry over meh, or my relationships. I can't see any problems except for making friends some day and find out how much their lives revolve around sex. And the fact that they might always talk about it. Meh you get used to it.... I just ignore those in my life whose lives revolve around sex.
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Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 8:55 am
Mikusagi Does it ever disturb you or affect you that the people around you are sexual? Or does it disturb them that you are asexual?
Speaking of condoms, a teacher tried to give his students lots of them but me and one of my friends refused and then he tried to gives us even more x.x
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Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 11:00 pm
Your teacher gives you guys condoms?
I wonder what school you go to.
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 12:23 am
Illuminescence Your teacher gives you guys condoms?
I wonder what school you go to.
But... it was sex week >>;;
You mean you don't get condoms in American schools? surprised
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 6:40 am
I don't really feel anything about sexual people; they just are. Only my closest family members know that I am asexual, and oddly enough, only mom seems to have trouble with it. I think that she can't help but feel that I might be missing out on something. I know that she doesn't want me to make a mistake, even though I've assured her that I've always felt this way; I didn't wake up one morning and decide, 'hey! I'm going to be asexual!'...
My grandmother would pitch a fit if she knew... she's already ranting at me on 'how disappointed she is that I haven't made anything of myself yet. She thought that by now I would have a boyfriend and be pregnant'. rolleyes
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 9:23 am
Mikusagi Illuminescence Your teacher gives you guys condoms?
I wonder what school you go to.
But... it was sex week >>;;
You mean you don't get condoms in American schools? surprised
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