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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2005 4:02 pm
This misconception that all Christians believe that homosexuals are horrible people ane going to hell is started to get under my skin. Also, I am not bashing homosexuals in ANYWAY. I am simply trying to start a discussion about beliefs.
First of all, it is my belief that the bible does not condone (sp?) homosexuality it's self as a sin, but simply homosexual sex between men. Loving another man is a great thing, infact there are many times in the New Testament where Jesus shows a deep love for his disciples.
Homosexual sex, though, could be considered a sin. This is because back when the bible was written, people didn't use sex to show their love towards each other. Sex was only used for procration. So, sex between two men was nothing more than an act of lust, as is masturbation. True, this could be agrued now-a-days that one would show their love for another through sexual pleasure, but there are many more gratifying ways to show your love.
With this belief, any act of sodomy would be an act of lust. By sodomy, I use the strict definition of "any non-coiterous (sp?) act". That includes oral sex, masturbation, and different sexual positions.
To sum up my points, I am not against love, I'm against lust. If you truely love that man or woman you're with, there is a better way to show them than taking them to bed.
I'm open to hear your view points, but please keep it mature and PG-13. wink
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2005 11:59 pm
Actually, sex was used to show love for another person, however, they didn't do that until they were married. I don't think that those people back in biblical times were thinking "Yay! I'm procreating!" in bed. They were probably expressing their love just as much as couples do today. Besides if it were just a matter of procreating with no other feelings, people wouldn't be doing it all the time.
I don't see any forms of sodomy wrong, because if its used to express love it can be a very beautiful thing. Yes, there are other ways to show it, but sex can be one of the most beautiful ways to express love for one another, be it between a man and a woman or a man and a man.
As for different sex positions..well, I see nothing wrong with them at all. Sex is a big part of marriage, and what better way to keep the passion burning than to try new and exciting things with your partner? Besides, babies are still concieved through other sex positions besides just the missionary position.
Now, if people are going out and having sex just for the heck of it, just to have a joy ride for a night..that's not something I agree with, but I don't think that those people should be stopped from doing it, and I don't think that that will be held against them either.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 9:36 am
Actually I believe there are passages in the bible which explicitly state Homosexuality is wrong. It has also been called a sin by other christians, if it is a sin, then a homosexual person will go to hell if they do not ask for forgiveness. However, I don't agree with them, then again I am not christian either. I myself, am a theist/ecclectic pagan. My view on homosexuality is that its not really a choice at all. Its not like I wake up somedays saying "Hey, I think I want to be bisexual today!" I know that I am bisexual, and there is nothing I can do about that. If homosexual activity is not a choice than how can that be a sin? It's like god saying that anyone who has down syndrome will be damned, it makes no sense to me.
I'll look for passages in the bible were homosexuality is explicitly said to be immoral.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 10:18 am
Here is what I found from another guild I belong to Let The Fire Fall: A Christian Guild. SqueakyEb 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. Unfortunately, I do not know which version of the bible this came from, though, I'm pretty sure it's in the NT. Anyway, in this passage we see that those who commit homosexual acts will not get into the kingdom of god, unless of course, they ask for forgiveness. This does not mean that a person who is homosexual, but does not commit acts of homosexuality, will not get into heaven, quite the contrary, they will, again, assuming there soul is clean from other sins. This passage refers only to those who commit acts of homosexuality, and other sins. Here are some more that_fairy Lev. 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination." Lev. 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them" 1 Cor. 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God." Rom. 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper." Now, I know the first two quotes are from the OT, and thus, they may not apply as well as others from the NT. Again, the 1 Cronithians, are the same, though, the wording appears slightly different, but the meaning is still the same. The Romans, I think is trying to say that women commited indecent acts with other women, and men commited indecent acts with other men. Now, it is up to us to interpret what indecent means. Indecent could mean rape, or sexual harrasment of a kind, or even the act of sex outside of marriage, it could also mean homosexual acts, but it's not clear. If it means sex outside of marriage, that would cause the belief that if two homosexual people married, and committed homosexual acts, than it could be that homosexuality is fine. Though, here is one thought on the Romans passage, is that it may be implying that homosexuality is wrong, here's why, there are other parts in the bible that condemn sodomy (which includes a**l sex), and talk about how spilling your seed is bad. This means the only sex acceptable according to the bible that is not indecent is that which is vaginal, all others are basically bad according to the bible, thus homosexual sex is bad, also, the bible also states that two people have to be married to have sex. Now again, since Romans doesn't clarify what indecent acts mean, we cannot be sure if it means homosexual acts. So, it is my understanding according to the 1 Cronithians and Leviticus passages that homosexual acts are sins. However, again, I am not sure how much the Leviticus passages apply, since jesus did come, and abolished much, if not all of the OT rules. Now, according to the Romans passage, I am not sure, it doesn't quite say that Homosexual acts are bad, though it may imply that homosexual acts are bad.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 12:02 pm
Chaotic, I'd have to say that after reading that, you've proven what I was saying in my first post. There is no where in the bible that states homosexuality, as in loving one of the same sex, is wrong. It only refers to homosexual sex.
Which version of the bible is that from? I tend to read and quote from the New American, because the King James version has too many translation errors.
Darktigress, yes, today that may be true, and sadly I don't think the bible was made like the American Constitution to be flexable with the times. But back then, sex was not used as a way of expressing love. It was veiwed as lust if two people, even married people, found pleasure in sex. These were Jewish people, so many times certian "pleasureable activies" such as sex, drinking, and partying, were veiwed as idoltry (sp?).
Sex was used most specifically for procreation. There are example of prostitution in those times, but it was the same as it is now, an act of lust.
Today, we do think differently, and sex is a way of showing emotion and caring. This is where my own thinking deviates from the bible. I don't think sex should be saved solely for procreation. But then again, that is why I'm not allowed to recieve the Eucharist.
Dark, your views fit very well with today's thinking, but that's not how it was 2000-some years ago.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 4:24 pm
Mirima Chaotic, I'd have to say that after reading that, you've proven what I was saying in my first post. There is no where in the bible that states homosexuality, as in loving one of the same sex, is wrong. It only refers to homosexual sex.
Which version of the bible is that from? I tend to read and quote from the New American, because the King James version has too many translation errors. I do not know which version of the bible they came from, they are similar to the one I read, NLT though not exactly the same.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 10:58 pm
Mirima Darktigress, yes, today that may be true, and sadly I don't think the bible was made like the American Constitution to be flexable with the times. But back then, sex was not used as a way of expressing love. It was veiwed as lust if two people, even married people, found pleasure in sex. These were Jewish people, so many times certian "pleasureable activies" such as sex, drinking, and partying, were veiwed as idoltry (sp?).
Sex was used most specifically for procreation. There are example of prostitution in those times, but it was the same as it is now, an act of lust.
Today, we do think differently, and sex is a way of showing emotion and caring. This is where my own thinking deviates from the bible. I don't think sex should be saved solely for procreation. But then again, that is why I'm not allowed to recieve the Eucharist.
Dark, your views fit very well with today's thinking, but that's not how it was 2000-some years ago. Ah, but see...you wouldn't enjoy sex nearly as much if you weren't in love with that person, and therefore, people wouldn't do it as often as they did. Even if they felt a bit of attraction towards that person, they still loved him, especially if they were both raising that child together.
If sex and drinking were really considered idolitry, they wouldn't do it at all. The jews were very big partiers, jewish weddings lasted nearly 3 days or until the wine ran out. During those three days, they would serve all sorts of wine to get drunk and celebrate it. The first day they served the best wine, because by the third day, they were still drunk and wouldn't remember or really care what the wine tasted like. But like at the wedding of Caena, they ran out a bit early. So Jesus turned the water into wine so they could continue the party.
So..with that in mind, I don't think the jews were against having some fun, even if they did view sex as just that. The bible never clearly defines what they mean by sodomy. The church has just interpretted it to mean any thing other than normal sex. For all we know it could just be the common definition of guy on guy. The church interprets many things without supporting evidence, like that Mary Magdelin was a prostitute. It never says that in the bible, but the church made it so..
Not only that, but the bible was written as laws to fit the times. According to the bible slaves should honor and obey their masters, and well, look how wrong slavery is viewed today. The bible has proven to outdate the times it is in now, and the priests merely skew the teachings for how they want to see them.
Heh..I'll stop here or I'll write pages upon pages of this stuff. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 2:03 am
My best friend's boyfriend is Catholic. I'm going to be moving into an apartment with them this summer. I'm a little bit worried. He's devout, and I'm a devout Pagan. But from what my friend has told me, he's just as worried about getting along with me as I am with him. But anyway, back on topic... As far as I know, what he does is follow all the teachings of the church except for the ones that inconvinience him. That happens to be a perfect example of how most Americans treat Catholocism, and similar religions. He still accepts the eucharist. As far as I know, he CAN be excommunicated for this, however, most people are unwilling to enforce this. That's one reason American Catholics are often frowned upon by non-American Catholics.
To go slightly off topic, I myself have taken the eucharist, directly from a minister who KNEW I wasn't even Christian. What is my point with this? I'm not even sure. From one perspective this very fact points out minor hypocrasies amongst followers of a very strict faith. (no offense. Just sharing some facts) But from an opposing viewpoint, It also goes to show that religious tolerance is beginning to take root in places where tolerance was previously frowned upon. If you ask me, even though this is a direct violation of the Catholic faith, it's a good thing in the grand scheme of things.
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A Murder of Angels Captain
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A Murder of Angels Captain
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Posted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 2:17 am
I found a couple of interesting things relating to Christianity and sex. It doesn't involve homosexuality directly, but based on the conversation in this thread so far, it is on topic. Yesterday (the 19th) there was an article at CNN.com about the Church allowing the use of condoms to help prevent the spread of AIDS. http://edition.cnn.com/2005/WORLD/europe/01/19/spain.condoms.ap/CNN.com MADRID, Spain (AP) -- In a substantial shift from traditional policy, the Catholic Church in Spain has said it supports the use of condoms to prevent the spread of AIDS. "Condoms have a place in the global prevention of AIDS," Juan Antonio Martinez Camino, spokesman for the Spanish Bishops Conference, told reporters after a meeting Tuesday with Health Minister Elena Salgado to discuss ways of fighting the disease. Later that same day Yahoo! News reported that the Catholic Church reversed its descision. http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&cid=1856&ncid=732&e=9&u=/cpress/20050120/ca_pr_on_wo/spain_catholics_condomsYahoo! MADRID, Spain (AP) - The Catholic Church in Spain backtracked late Wednesday from a leading bishop's groundbreaking statement in support of condom use to fight the spread of AIDS, saying instead the church still believes artificial contraception is immoral. A ruling Socialist politician involved in health-care issues said she was mystified by the church's about-face in the space of 24 hours. Gay groups said they regretted the church's return to old policy after its "attack of lucidity." A liberal theologian said the church had quickly backpedalled after the Vatican reaffirmed its opposition to condoms. The Vatican states that condoms, being a form of artificial birth control, cannot be used to help prevent the spread of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Close, but no tamale... neutral
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Posted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 7:52 am
Dark, I'd have to say you've proven me wrong in my thinking. I'll look into that more.
Murder, about your friend that accepts the Eucharist but shouldn't, because of the way we are today, that is sort of a personal desicion of his. If he wishes to recieve the body of Christ, and not atone for his sins, than that is between him and God.
Your last post seems to me like people are confusing religion and science again. The use of condoms, in the churches eyes, is a moral things, relating to my veiw on sex and pleasure. Medical science, though, has proven that using them is benificial. It all depends on which a person is more devoted to.
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2005 11:28 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2005 12:31 am
chaoticpuppet My view on homosexuality is that its not really a choice at all. Its not like I wake up somedays saying "Hey, I think I want to be bisexual today!" I know that I am bisexual, and there is nothing I can do about that. If homosexual activity is not a choice than how can that be a sin? It's like god saying that anyone who has down syndrome will be damned, it makes no sense to me. Thank you! There's a huge gay community at my school, and my friends and I have been trying to make people understand that for years, and no one gets it!
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 11:06 am
our local presbytery (PCUSA administrative body, like a diocese) voted to accept practicing homosexuals as members, and as a result they have been receiving threats of firebombings from anonymous "true" christians.
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Posted: Fri Feb 11, 2005 2:31 am
Here's something interesting. The bible does state homosexuality is wrong, I've read it. Howver it depends on whihc bible you're reading. Yes I have two bibles and one says somehting different to the other in the same part. This is a reason I do not find it very reliable. if I could rememebr where it was I'd tell you but osmehwere it has a list of some sins or bad deeds or what ever and it does have homosexuality as one of them in one version. So I don't see how you can use your bible to argue against it.
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Posted: Fri Feb 11, 2005 12:31 pm
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