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 Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 5:38 pm
Yup. My girlfriend and I. I'm 15, and she's 14. We've been dating for 9 months.
We're not sexual or anything. But, she like to wear low cut tops, and I can't help myself from looking. She caught me looking at her cleavage one day, but she found it kinky and I guess it turned her on. She said "sometimes I wish you would do that with your hands and not your eyes".
At the time, I didn't know what she ment, so I called her later that day and asked her about what she ment. She went on and on about how she's never felt a man embrace her curves before. (And I never got to feel a womans curves, either!)
So, she asked what I would do if she took my hands sometime when were alone and placed them on her breasts.
I for one, dunno how to take a comment like that, nor do I know what to do.
Coming from someone you love, and since you've never done it before, you dunno how to react. She is trying to set up a date for us now when something like that can happen.
What would you do? I'm in a tizzy. ;s
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Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 8:12 pm
It's normal for people to want to touch and be touched. If you feel ready to explore some touching, go for it. There's no right or wrong way to do it. And you're not obligated to do anything in particular, just feel free to touch and explore. But if you don't feel ready, be honest and tell her you want to wait a bit longer.
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Posted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 1:02 pm
If anyone finds out though, I feel like I could get in a lot of trouble. Even though we both are fine and cool about it. I don't wanna do anything that could get us in trouble. :[
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Posted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 2:58 pm
If you two are nice and alone, I doubt anyone will know. I was the same age when I did the "Touching" with my date(We only were dating for a month). I say start with a slow kiss, then speed it up and then you'll know what to do from there. smile
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Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 4:29 pm
I just don't want her to think I'm all about sexual things or whatnot. I mean, we hear about kids doing this, and I just never thought as myself to be one of them. sweatdrop heart
But the more I think about it, the more I want it. gonk heart
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Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 12:08 am
Your avatar is female, but your first post leads me to think you are male...?
If you are both female I was going to suggest that (provided nobody knows you two are attracted to other girls) you guys just play it off as though you are just two friends going out for some platonic fun. Then it would be easy to find a place to be alone.
Anyway, if you both feel ready and want to try getting a little more intimate, there is nothing wrong with that. And if you are worried that your girlfriend will think that you are just about sex, just talk to her and let her know that you care about her and this is how you want to show it. Chances are, she won't worry at all about you just being sexual.
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Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:41 am
I'm male and she is female. Though, I have other issues and wish I was female.
Anywho, so you think she'll understand if I talk to her about it? That makes me feel way better. sweatdrop heart
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Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:14 am
I can't imagine why she wouldn't understand. After all, she has urges too, and she's the one who brought up the subject of getting more physical, right? xp
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Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 4:39 pm
^Exactly.
Just talk to her. You'll probably find that she is just as eager as you, if not more.
And if not, just give her time.
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Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 1:20 pm
Good points, good points. But I really hope she wasn't just messing with me or just edging me on. gonk
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Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:44 pm
Well, I did it. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 2:52 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 9:11 pm
It was awkward at first. But then she started all this heavy breathing and stuff and it just felt very naturally and right. ♥
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 11:35 pm
So, we had an encounter again. And everytime, it seems we touch and feel more.
Today, she was stroknig my c**k, though through my pants of course. We were both crazy.
I want so badly to more of her now. I want to get closer, but I know I probbly can't yet.
I dunno what to do the next time my temptations come c**. gonk
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 11:44 pm
Sometime when you're thinking logically and aren't too in the mood, talk to her about how far she wants to go. It's ok to explore a little bit more each time as long as you're both ready for it and comfortable with it.
Make sure you do lots of research before attempting intercourse though. Make sure you both know a bit about your bodies, lubrication, what you like, etc. Make sure you have at least one form of birth control that you guys know how to use. And make sure she knows she'd have to start seeing an ob-gyn.
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