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PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 12:27 pm


I never thought he would be gone, well, of course I had thought about it, but I never even considered that the nightmare would come to fruition. My cat is still gone and as I walk through my house memories of him and his meow linger in every corner, and I don't know how I can go on. He was everything to me, when I was depressed he was always there to purr and rub against my legs and arms in an attempt to cheer me up. I would spend countless hours outside with him, laying on the floor and cuddling with him, forgetting about the dirt because it was just me and him. My house is full of memories, and the horrible thought keeps coming back he's gone. He's really, truly, gone. And for the rest of my life, he will be gone. I've never cried so much... and even now, I can't help it. I miss you so much, I wish you were here with me.

I knew each day was going to be a struggle after he was gone, I just never thought it would be an uphill one...

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 1:20 pm


What was his name? You should post a picture of him, so we can meet him. =)

And maybe it'd help to think of it like this: He's in a better place, I think. Whereas human's go to heaven or hell (if they exist), animals just go to heaven, because they're pure souls. I'm sure he appreciates the mourning, but maybe he wants you to be happy for him, too. You'd be sad if something was wrong with him, and i'm sure it makes him sad to know that you're sad. You can miss someone and be happy, too.

And i'm not saying that ANYONE could replace him, but maybe you could get another kitten and start again. Make more memories, and have someone else to comfort you. And when you really miss your old friend, and you feel really lonely, you'd have your new friend to cuddle with you and purr until you feel better.

I'm not trying to patronize you or seem insensitive. Just trying to help a bit. 3nodding

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 3:39 pm


I am sorry for your lose.
PostPosted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 10:58 am


Teh poor Kitty. crying
My fishy died about a week or so ago.
I miss my Kyo. *hugs you* It shall be okay.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 9:12 pm


my cat was pregnant and she had a miscarriage...there is nothing u can do about that
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