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 Posted: Tue May 26, 2009 4:11 pm
OK,
Im not haveing sex, im not even masterbating. But why do I have all these feeling to masterbate and have sex???
I know this is weird but is it just puberty???
Because what if my hormones get the best of me one day and i do do something ill regret? Then ill be guilty.
And if there just hormons how can i control them?
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Posted: Tue May 26, 2009 4:36 pm
It's perfectly normal to have a sex drive. That's how mammals, humans included, reproduce. Yes, the urge does get strong during puberty because of all those hormones. It can be really difficult to control yourself sometimes because your body is saying, "Reproduce!!!1!" and your mind is saying, "Whoa, I'm not ready for a baby!"
There's not necessarily any secret way to guarantee that you won't do something you'll regret. So you'll have to try to control yourself, keep yourself busy, stay logical, and try to distract yourself with other things when you get tempted to have sex before you're actually ready. And luckily masturbation is very safe and healthy! It can help reduce urges, reduce period cramps for girls, help you sleep, help you learn about your body, reduce the risk of prostate cancer for guys, and more! So there's no reason to avoid it or be afraid of it. If you want to know more about it, there's also a masturbation subforum here.
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