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 Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:44 pm
She's 100% clean doesn't drink or smoke. But she relates to me. I'm actually happy when around her, I feel so good inside.
We talk a lot and s**t but friendly-wise. I don't know how to tell a girl like her that I wanna start something. Thing is, she doesn't know of my past... she wants to know... but it's so hard to say because I think if I do she will be either so scared of me or change her mind.
She doesn't judge though. She's a nice person and me and her can relate to things a lot... please help me haha I'm trying to set my mind RIGHT and she is what is making me FEEL right... Thing is she knows I smoke and wants me to quit, that's too hard 'cause I've been smoking since age 9...
anyway, how can I approach this... I aint wanna ******** her only... Ill admit shes fine as hell too xd but I wouldn't care if ******** her was never involved I just wanna be with her and maybe make a living... I can't really say that though 'cause we don't know each other to the fullest.
Anyway... most of you know me and who I am and how I roll... how can I get a girl like HER?
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 4:03 pm
Ok Dante, I love you dude, so I'm gonna be 100% real with you.
If you truly want a life with this chick, then stop making sorry excuses. She wants you to get clean? GET CLEAN. Period point blank. No being like "But I've been doing it since I was 9!" You can choose to stop. I know it'll be hard, but if you really want to be with her, you need to get clean.
As for your past, if she is truly your friend, she will respect you and be there for you no matter what, regardless of what went down. And if she doesn't judge, like you said, then I don't think she'll judge you on this. If she does happen to be ran off when you tell her though, well it only proves that she wasn't really that down with you as you thought.
But if she's still there after you're done with your story, then she's a keeper. So if it all turns out well, tell her the truth. Tell her about your feelings. ANd hopefully she feels the same way. And if not, then at least you got as far as telling your story without her runnin away right? I'm sure if she said she didn't like you like that it would sting, but I think it's worth a shot.
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 4:03 pm
That's nice, I'm happy for you. I don't know if this is the best thing to do but.. Maybe get to know her more before dropping the bad past bomb on her? It takes time for some people to digest things and you'll have a higher chance if she knows you better and you're closer to her, the real you of course, if she's still with you despite everything, then you've got yourself a nice and fine gal, but it isn't bad to quit smoking and other things.. xD
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 4:19 pm
well homie what is more worth it, this jyna, or smoking, quit with the bull s**t ese
but straight up about the stuff with the past, just tell her, if she wants to know, just open up to her foo, the past is the past and if she's gonna stop liking you just because of your past than she isnt good for you
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 4:53 pm
haha I'm taking all this in I know all my shits an exscuse xd the "cant teach an old dog new tricks" dont trick people no more hmm rofl
Thing is how do I approach it? Like how will s**t go out of nowhere I'm a dumbass ***** #1 rule is to tell a girl your intentions from the start know what I mean... but once you hit that friendship bullshit you pretty much go nowhere. xd
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 5:06 pm
Big Limit haha I'm taking all this in I know all my shits an exscuse xd the "cant teach an old dog new tricks" dont trick people no more hmm rofl Thing is how do I approach it? Like how will s**t go out of nowhere I'm a dumbass ***** #1 rule is to tell a girl your intentions from the start know what I mean... but once you hit that friendship bullshit you pretty much go nowhere. xd
Well than make it go somewhere. Stop avoiding how you feel and just tell her.
And stop ignoring your PMs! Makin me feel like I'm trying to PM a brick wall. s**t.
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 5:10 pm
show her the verga haha. naw g try the slow and steady thing, maybe movies? i dunno homie i'm far from ******** romantic but i been wit my girl over 4 years so i must be doin somethin right.
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 5:12 pm
Mr. Puppet show her the verga haha. naw g try the slow and steady thing, maybe movies? i dunno homie i'm far from ******** romantic but i been wit my girl over 4 years so i must be doin somethin right. lol xd
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 5:16 pm
lil puppet x3 Mr. Puppet show her the verga haha. naw g try the slow and steady thing, maybe movies? i dunno homie i'm far from ******** romantic but i been wit my girl over 4 years so i must be doin somethin right. lol xd simon homie that s**t works! dont believe homie try it! haha. aint talked to you in a minute homeboy
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 5:41 pm
haha yeah ill give that a shot hahahaha xd
ahh my bad pheonix just mornings im too tired
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 6:04 pm
Big Limit haha yeah ill give that a shot hahahaha xd ahh my bad pheonix just mornings im too tired if she don't go for it try slappin her with it homie that works too. do it hard enough to leave a mushroom stamp
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 6:05 pm
Mr. Puppet Big Limit haha yeah ill give that a shot hahahaha xd ahh my bad pheonix just mornings im too tired if she don't go for it try slappin her with it homie that works too. do it hard enough to leave a mushroom stamp I propose she kicks you where it hurts.
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 6:08 pm
Femmunition Mr. Puppet Big Limit haha yeah ill give that a shot hahahaha xd ahh my bad pheonix just mornings im too tired if she don't go for it try slappin her with it homie that works too. do it hard enough to leave a mushroom stamp I propose she kicks you where it hurts. well, you gotta be ready for anything. but i suppose one would be if he had his verga hangin out and tryin to slap someone with it haha
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 7:15 pm
 Jinxy is good with females.
Jinxy will give you a very important piece of advice;
When you go to tell her you like her,
make sure she knows your not kidding.
Jinxy's friend had asked a girl out for valentines day, and she had laughed in his face because she thought he was kidding.
So make sure you get serious with her before doing so, but be casual.
Try to get closer to her, like, make friendship stronger, try to be nice to her. Ya know we females do enjoy to be treated nicely. Always a plus. ^.^
I don't know where you guys got the idea that we like to be treated badly and that treating us like your b***h will some how make us like you. I mean, some girls *cough*likeme*cough* enjoy being treated like that, but we're already mates/going steady, and we only do it for play.
Srsly dude, we're not that complicated. Be nice to female and female will like you.
I don't know who you are or what kinda guy you are, but these things are just simple behavior additions if your not doing them already.
To sum up;
Ask her about herself/day in a casual mannor
to learn more about each other, go to mall with friends
treat nicely
take it slowly, don't tell her about any...unpleasantness, unless she asks.
If she does, go lightly about it, do not get into to much detail. Try to summarize it in the pleasantest kind of way possible.
Get fookin clean.
{try doing other things that are really addicting. Like, WoW, or, I swear to god this is amazing, jasmine tea with rose petals and honey. It sounds girly, but god it is so good....<3 it also helps depression. Take it slowly and watch out for withdrawl symptoms.}
Yup.
Dat's it.
razz
BTW
Telling her you like her straight off the bat
when you don't even know her to well?
DO NOT DO.
Seriously.
I dislike it when people come up to me and say "Hi -censor name-!" when I don't even know who the ******** they are. I am disturbed when I get, "Hey! Your hot and I really like you wanna go out?" from someone who I barely know. I don't know this chick but I think any girl would get freaked out by this, and would kill your chances of getting her. 
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 3:58 am
x-l J i n x l-x Jinxy is good with females.
Jinxy will give you a very important piece of advice;
When you go to tell her you like her,
make sure she knows your not kidding.
Jinxy's friend had asked a girl out for valentines day, and she had laughed in his face because she thought he was kidding.
So make sure you get serious with her before doing so, but be casual.
Try to get closer to her, like, make friendship stronger, try to be nice to her. Ya know we females do enjoy to be treated nicely. Always a plus. ^.^
I don't know where you guys got the idea that we like to be treated badly and that treating us like your b***h will some how make us like you. I mean, some girls *cough*likeme*cough* enjoy being treated like that, but we're already mates/going steady, and we only do it for play.
Srsly dude, we're not that complicated. Be nice to female and female will like you.
I don't know who you are or what kinda guy you are, but these things are just simple behavior additions if your not doing them already.
To sum up;
Ask her about herself/day in a casual mannor
to learn more about each other, go to mall with friends
treat nicely
take it slowly, don't tell her about any...unpleasantness, unless she asks.
If she does, go lightly about it, do not get into to much detail. Try to summarize it in the pleasantest kind of way possible.
Get fookin clean.
{try doing other things that are really addicting. Like, WoW, or, I swear to god this is amazing, jasmine tea with rose petals and honey. It sounds girly, but god it is so good....<3 it also helps depression. Take it slowly and watch out for withdrawl symptoms.}
Yup.
Dat's it.
razz
BTW
Telling her you like her straight off the bat
when you don't even know her to well?
DO NOT DO.
Seriously.
I dislike it when people come up to me and say "Hi -censor name-!" when I don't even know who the ******** they are. I am disturbed when I get, "Hey! Your hot and I really like you wanna go out?" from someone who I barely know. I don't know this chick but I think any girl would get freaked out by this, and would kill your chances of getting her. hahaha ill take all in mind cept for that "go with her friends to the mall" thing ******** her friends xd ones nice but the next 1 is one of those idiot a** spoiled hoodrats... well not really but you know that feeling where you just hate someone for no reason rofl it's humane though.
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