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 Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 8:18 pm
For a while now I have been trying miserably to get a girlfriend and every time its been hit in miss-lets just say I can name 10 excuses for why a girl can't go out with me off the top of my head. So, help?
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 1:21 pm
It's really a personal preference thing. Different people look for different things in a partner.
Myself, I look for a sense of humor, kindness, modesty, and feature-wise I look for nice eyes and a friendly smile.
Another thing that might be the case is if someone can tell you're desperate to find someone to date, they can sense that and might keep away. Confidence is sexier than desperation. I've also heard people say that they find the "right one" for them when they're not really looking at all.
You just haven't met the right person yet, so if you want to, keep looking. smile
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Posted: Sun May 31, 2009 11:33 am
Niko is right...
just have fun and flirt until you see that a girl is really interested. Don't seem desperate at all, but don't be afraid to be yourself and open up. =]
Sense of humor is always a good thing, but saying sweet things can be just as good.
Gifts are great, but compliments can be better (:
Looks matter somewhat, but dressing nice can make up for where you lack...
many other things...just be yourself, and don't be afraid to show who you really are! ≈ᴷᴱᴺᴰᴿᴬ≈ A Summer With The Smith's (family roleplay)
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Posted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 2:04 pm
I was desperate for a year and a half and missed many chances because I was so intent on searching. When I let down and stopped searching one came, I doubted my appeal for her because wasn't my typical type but after talking I started falling in love.
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Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 12:52 pm
I agree with the others. No one is flawless anyway. You just have to find someone you mesh well with when it comes to the good and the bad.
What people look for in a partner depends on the person and what stage of life they're in. What I look for now isn't the same thing that I looked for ten years ago.
Now I look for guys who don't have a temper, are calm, stay home a lot, work, and can pay the bills.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 11:21 pm
Dude, flirting is one of the best ways you can get a girl to like you (that is at my school). I flirt all the time with girls, but most of the time I get into trouble with different girls cause they're all jealous, literally! So yeah, just be nice to them and appeal to them as best as you can. Oh, and try not to think that you're flirting with them either.
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Posted: Thu Sep 10, 2009 5:41 am
No, you don't need to be manly. A little scruff or hair is good - I personally like that. It varies for every girl, though I'm pretty sure you knew that. A guy DOES need to be able to put up with her immature s**t - but he also needs to help her understand that the immature s**t isn't worth it, and help her get over it. It's not easy, oh god my poor boyfriend. I tend to flirt with a guy that I like in really, really clicheed ways - while walking, rub my hand against his hand 'accidentally' then say 'sorry' right after, poke the guy or tickle him and giggle. >.>; I'm a very, very generic cute kind of girl.
I like a guy who can self-deprecate himself. As in, he has a self-deprecating humor. At least, at first it's nice. Too much of it is now a turn off. (I dated two people like that unfortunately. XP)
HONESTY IS AWESOME!
But yeah, the bottom line is that each girl has their own preferences.
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Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 6:29 pm
what I look for in a guy is somebody who isn't talking to me through his c**k, that I can act insane in front of, and hates the world in the same way I do.
you just need to find the girl who fits your niche.
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Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 11:28 pm
It really depends on the girl.
However, I do think that all girls like the idea of having a guy they can go to when in distress, no matter what the situation is, and be cheered up. Whether the method of cheering up is romance, humor, etc is up to you.
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 4:13 pm
Well, umm..I'mma try to invision myself in..
yer feet..okay..be yourself..
be funny, flirt, ask her out on dates..
if she doesn't like you then..she's playing hard to get..or...
she really doesn't like you o.0 leave her alone...
and she'll be all," why isn't he paying attention to me"
You really don't have to be attracktive..(thats a bonus)
umm if you ask her on a second date tell her how ya feel
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 4:14 pm
narutorocks96 Dude, flirting is one of the best ways you can get a girl to like you (that is at my school). I flirt all the time with girls, but most of the time I get into trouble with different girls cause they're all jealous, literally! So yeah, just be nice to them and appeal to them as best as you can. Oh, and try not to think that you're flirting with them either. OMG I LOVE THAT SONG YOU QUOTED!! I AM GOIN TO SEE THEM!!!
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 5:40 pm
I look for someone who is happy and smiles a lot. Someone who is honest and open, that I can trust. Someone that I know will take care of me in my time of need. heart
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 5:32 pm
I don't go searching for them, I let them search for me biggrin . Although, with my last relationship ended(still talk to that one) I've been sort of interested in two different people I've seen around for some time..
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Posted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 5:14 pm
diamond60 For a while now I have been trying miserably to get a girlfriend and every time its been hit in miss-lets just say I can name 10 excuses for why a girl can't go out with me off the top of my head. So, help? Its diffrent for everyone but for me... 1) I HAVE to be attracted to him- when I see him something needs to click in my head that "I want him", otherwise the relationship is bad (i know this from experience) and for me a major turnoff is being disgusting (fake farts, overly sexual comments, ect) 2) He has to be an intresting person, I can really like how he looks but if we have nothing to talk about... whats the point? 3) He has to like me too, not just want me because "im easy" (which im really not) but genuenly like me
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Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:12 am
I agree with every thing that's been said before. Just try and not look so much. Don't give off a desperate vibe. That helps.
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