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Quinton is my world

PostPosted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 7:41 pm


Hey...i have a bf on gaia, and I really love him, but I like two other guys on gaia. One of them is one of my ex bfs on gaia, we love each other a lot, and the other person is his friend in real life...I want to be with my bf, but i also want to be with one of the guys, but I dont want anyone to get hurt...wat should i do?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 1:28 am


sorry to sound harsh hun, bur you can't say you love someone if you have emotions for more than one person.
2nd, sure we are young, and are open to feel so much, but don't spread your wings to far, I mean, is your current bf giving you any reasons not to like him?
3rd, I need to know more in detail, because I can only say so much, and yet I don't understand the whole situation. lol

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 4:00 pm


lol...ok well see my current bf hasnt given me any reason to not like him anymore...and well the one of the other guys is my ex bf...i didnt realize til after i got a new bf and he got a new gf that he still liked me...and i felt the same way...we keep pming each other...and the other person is just someone who became one of my closer friends....and after a while we started liking each other....and now im stuck between liking three really great guys but idk who i like the most....and if i do find out who i like the most, i dont want anyone to get hurt....
PostPosted: Sat May 02, 2009 1:00 am


if your bf hasn't give you any reason to not like him anymore, then don't hurt him, he doesn't deserve that. whee
as for your ex, well, it sounds more like lust, than like, or love. whee no offense. sweatdrop
and the third guy, well, sounds more like not satisfied. well, when I put all this together, it sounds more like you you want to keep your options open, and in the end, the only one who will be hurt the most out of this, is you. whee
all I can say is, go for the one that shows loyalty, and I mean that, in terms of their actions, and what they do, this is not that hard to figure out. 3nodding

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PostPosted: Sat May 02, 2009 8:05 am


Thanks, I no which one is the most loyal....I mean I told my ex that I have a bf....and he broke up with his gf....he told me that hes in love with me, and that he wants nothing more than to be with me and only me, my bf is almost never on, so i just talk to my ex, and I mean hes never pressured me into doing things that i didnt want to do, as for the third person, he doesnt come on much anymore....so I think hes not in this in more, but now its the fact of who i like more....
PostPosted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 1:05 am


Thunderboltx
if your bf hasn't give you any reason to not like him anymore, then don't hurt him, he doesn't deserve that. whee
as for your ex, well, it sounds more like lust, than like, or love. whee no offense. sweatdrop
and the third guy, well, sounds more like not satisfied. well, when I put all this together, it sounds more like you you want to keep your options open, and in the end, the only one who will be hurt the most out of this, is you. whee
all I can say is, go for the one that shows loyalty, and I mean that, in terms of their actions, and what they do, this is not that hard to figure out. 3nodding


He's right. And you're ex became your ex for a reason right? Exes are exes and stay exes. Usually an easier way to work with feelings.

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