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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 12:54 am
All right, my boyfriend and I had sex, without a condom. I'm on the Pill, but I'm bad about remembering to take it every single day at the same time, but for the last six days I was taking it pretty regularly. He withdrew before ejaculation, but I don't know how good my chances are of not getting pregnant.
I need advice, and help. sad
Also, would anyone happen to know how much the morning after pill costs, and if i should take it? He's taking me to Planned Parenthood on Monday.
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 12:59 am
From now on, start using condoms. You should've been using them in the first place if you didn't want to get pregnant, but it's never too late to start using them. 2 methods of birth control won't keep you from getting pregnant, since no birth control is 100% effective against pregnancy, but 2 methods is better than 1. Especially since the Pill can fail, etc.
And yes you can still get pregnant from pre-c**, especially if he's not wearing a condom.
Have you missed any pills this month's package of pills? If you've missed one or two, you're supposed to double-up the next day, and you should be ok. If you've missed more than 2 pills, then I think most people (well, doctors) recommend just starting a new pack of pills at the end of the month. I'm not sure of the details, so talk to your doctor/gyno/healh provider as soon as you can about it.
I've never taken the morning-after pill, so I'm not sure how much it costs, sorry. In some places it's now available without a prescription, but I'm not sure how it works where you live (too lazy to check your profile, sorry whee ).
Basically go talk to your doctor/gyno/health care provider, and ask them. If necessary, they'll get you to take a pregnancy test on the day you'd normally get your period. And if you're bad at remembering to take your pill each day, you might want to consider switching to another method of birth control, like Depo, or the patch, etc. Something that won't require you to take a pill every day. (I was on the Pill for a little over a year, and I had a hard time remembering to take the pill at the same time each day sometimes)
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 12:17 pm
Like Nikolita said, there is a chance you may get pregnant. None of us can tell you if you are or not so you should go and get tested once you can.
I believe the morning after pill is only effective in about 72 hours so since you posted this Saturday it's hard to say if you could still take it Monday or not.
And yes you really should be more careful. The only way to protect against pregancy 100% is abstinence so if you can't remember your pill and don't want to use condoms that might be another plan.
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 5:20 pm
It doesn't matter if you've been taking your pill for the last six days. The way it works is by accumulating certain hormones into your system. Six days isn't enough to do that. So if you've been missing it a lot, there's a good chance you may be pregnant.
If you've missed one pill in the last two months and doubled up, you are probably fine. If you've missed any more than that, you really should be using a condom.
Remember, it's just as much your responsibility as it is his. Buy a pack of condoms and keep them around, or insist that he have one before sex.
Withdrawl method is so ineffective, you might as well not bother.
How long ago did you have sex? If it was more than 72 hours (I believe), the morning after pill won't do anything. It's less and less effective the longer you wait after having had sex.
Unfortunatly, we can't tell you how to buy them or how much they cost without knowing the specifics of where you live and what insurance you have. Some insurance companies will cover it, some won't. Some states tax it heavily, others don't. Some states will let you buy it without a prescription, others don't. Your best bet is to just go to the pharmacy (or to your doctor if you can get an appointment quickly) and ask.
And remember, if you've missed any more than one pill in the last two months, double up with a condom. It's the only way to be safe.
PS: Just because not everyone knows this -- Mind what medications you are taking while on the pill. Some, like antibiotics, will make the pill not work. That means that if you are taking antibiotics, you will need to double up with the pill for at least the next full month (if not until this and the next packet are finished).
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 5:22 pm
Nikolita And if you're bad at remembering to take your pill each day, you might want to consider switching to another method of birth control, like Depo, or the patch, etc. Something that won't require you to take a pill every day. Just a little note about that -- Some alternative birth control methods can harm you. Make sure you do a lot of research before you try. I forget which ones exactly (sorry!), but some of them will significantly reduce your fertility for the rest of your life. That means that when you do want to have kids, you might not be able to (or it will at least be very difficult for you).
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 12:35 am
Kukushka Nikolita And if you're bad at remembering to take your pill each day, you might want to consider switching to another method of birth control, like Depo, or the patch, etc. Something that won't require you to take a pill every day. Just a little note about that -- Some alternative birth control methods can harm you. Make sure you do a lot of research before you try. I forget which ones exactly (sorry!), but some of them will significantly reduce your fertility for the rest of your life. That means that when you do want to have kids, you might not be able to (or it will at least be very difficult for you). Depo is what I think you're referring to - I've read some women who've been on it for a year or two, or more, have trouble getting pregnant after they go off of it until the hormone is completely out of their system. It's something I'm aware of, since I've been on it for almost a year, but thank you anyways. And of course, I meant she should see a doctor before switching to another method of birth control. That's just common sense. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 1:49 pm
There is a possibility you could be pregnant. Six days isn't enough birth control. MOst birth control pills tell you that if you've missed more than one pill to use another contraceptive for a week until you're back on schedule. So yeah, you could be pregnant. As for the morning after pill, I've had no experience with it, but I believe it only works for up to 72 hours afterward. Don't quote me on that number though. If you have trouble remembering your pills, you should see your gyno and discuss different birth control methods. You should always use a condom if you've missed pills, just to be safe.
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 11:18 pm
All right-y, I went to Planned Parenthood on Monday (well within the 72-hours after intercourse) and got Plan B. So in about a week and a half, I'll be able to take a pregnancy test and find out if i am or am not pregnant. Next time, condoms and the pill (i've been taking it the same time every day since i started my latest package.) The problems I have with Depo Provera is that I'm deathly afraid of needles. It's just... horrible.
When I was at PP, they told me that the figures had changed to 120 hours after intercourse for taking emergency contraception, but sooner is always better. My boyfriend was there the whole time with me, and plans to pay for the pills and for the pregnancy test. He's told me quite clearly that he'll support me and help me pay for an abortion, should I be pregnant, or support the baby if I choose to keep it. He's even started looking for work, he's so freaked out.
I'm hoping, and praying that I'm not. I want to have a baby one day, but I want to be able to support it. I'm going to be so much more careful from now on.
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Posted: Wed Nov 02, 2005 12:23 am
Very good to hear, and I hope things work out for you and your boyfriend. heart
Yeah, the hours for emergency contraception varies. I've usually heard up to 72 hours, but some people say it's ok to take after 4 days. However the key factor still remains - the longer you wait to take it after having unprotected sex/broken condom (etc), no matter how many days, the less effective it will be in preventing pregnancy. So even if it's ok to take it after 120 hours, by that point, it probably wouldn't be too effective anymore anyways.
I really hate needles too, but I'm on Depo because it's the most effective birth control there is so far (99.7%). However I'm worried what it's doing to my body, so I'm going to go see my doctor before getting my next prescription.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 11:30 pm
I suppose I should post the outcome of what happened...
I'm not pregnant!
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:18 am
Niphil I suppose I should post the outcome of what happened... I'm not pregnant! You know, when you start on birth control pills, I would highly suggest taking at least a month or two of them before you actually have sex. I remember that I was really scared the first few times I had sex, but it got less scary after that. Just remember, you don't want to be taking tons of extra pills if you don't need to (especially like Plan B, etc). I would highly reccommend talking to a doctor about your situation before you actually do anything. Just a suggestion, though.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 12:53 am
If you can't remember taking the pill ( i had that problem ) try a different method such as the patch or the nuvaring.
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