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K, my and my B/f had been together for 8 months. We were (and still are) very close. Too close in some ways. Nothing bad ever happend, but if we kept going like we were, it was probably inevitable. I started to feel like i was doing something wrong, i felt guilty for having a b/f. Im still quite young, not old enough to have that kind of a relationship even though i want one so bad. I talked to him about it, and he agreed w/ me. so we broke it off. I know its the right thing to do, i feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders, but now i also know the true definition of heartake. I may only be 16, but i love him, and its hard to let him go. He is still my friend, my best friend, but im really going to miss all that romantic stuff.
Dose anyone have advice on how to deal with this? I know ill eventualy get over it, but everytime i talk or think about what im giving up and what all miss out on now, i start crying. i could just really use some advice.
Thanx for helping 3nodding

What I am going to tell you may seem overused and cliche, but it works every time.

you should pray to have the perspective that will get you through this. Pray that your understanding of why the breakup is for the best will comfort you, and that the spirit will also comfort you. Things like that.

And just remember that attitude is everything. When you learn to get the right perspective on this whole thing instead of, understandably at this point, being confused and hurt, you will feel so much better. Just think about your future and how it will be better because of the choice you have made. That should make things a little easier for you.

Bonne chance!

I am the aforementioned Best (Boy) Friend, and so it's on everyone's record, this hasn't been easy for me either. I love Seikia with all of my heart, and me and her have discussed the possibility of us getting married some day. I know it's not likely, but it's still a possibility. As of right now, me and Seikia are planning on staying friends through High School, and then seeing how things go once we are both 18, and then later seeing if we still love each other like this after my mission.

Try to focus on school, work, volunteer or other activities. And don't watch chick-flicks! Those will make it even worse. (I need to remember that for when Paladin goes on his mission... razz )