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Yokolita

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 6:50 pm


My boyfreind and my best freind hate eachother, and I feel caught in the middle. Any Advise? Or comments.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 6:57 pm


*sigh* Please help.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 8:14 pm


i would like to help you but a bit more info would be nice, hmmm i guess the best thing i can say at this point is to try and keep em apart and keep the subject of either of them from coming up when you talk to either of the 2 people. but like i said a bit more info would be nice to make a better piece of advice
PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 5:59 am


It has always been my opinion that boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go but friendships will last a lifetime if allowed to live that long.

I'm not telling you to choose between the two. I am saying that you need to sit down and evaluate what it is that you want from both relationships, the benefits, and their futures.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:34 pm


WiccanJoe
It has always been my opinion that boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go but friendships will last a lifetime if allowed to live that long.

I'm not telling you to choose between the two. I am saying that you need to sit down and evaluate what it is that you want from both relationships, the benefits, and their futures.

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tHANX!
PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:44 pm


FireFoxDevil666
WiccanJoe
It has always been my opinion that boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go but friendships will last a lifetime if allowed to live that long.

I'm not telling you to choose between the two. I am saying that you need to sit down and evaluate what it is that you want from both relationships, the benefits, and their futures.

4laugh


tHANX!


Glad to be of service. domokun

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:55 pm


you shouldnt have to pick between them. just dont have them be in the same area together. if she has a problem with you going with him, thats too bad. if he doesnt like that shes your friend, tahts too batt as well. you should do what you think is right. listen to your heart and youll make the right decision.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 1:44 pm


TheGrim17
you shouldnt have to pick between them. just dont have them be in the same area together. if she has a problem with you going with him, thats too bad. if he doesnt like that shes your friend, tahts too batt as well. you should do what you think is right. listen to your heart and youll make the right decision.


It's enevitable that they will see eachother. they both sit with me at lunch. She especially hates that me and Chris share slushies (it's been six times)

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 1:55 pm


FireFoxDevil666
TheGrim17
you shouldnt have to pick between them. just dont have them be in the same area together. if she has a problem with you going with him, thats too bad. if he doesnt like that shes your friend, tahts too batt as well. you should do what you think is right. listen to your heart and youll make the right decision.


It's enevitable that they will see eachother. they both sit with me at lunch. She especially hates that me and Chris share slushies (it's been six times)


if she has a problem with yall sharing something, then she isnt really a good friend after all. she should respect yall, even tho she doesnt like him. if she continues to act like that. then break it with her.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 2:01 pm


TheGrim17
FireFoxDevil666
TheGrim17
you shouldnt have to pick between them. just dont have them be in the same area together. if she has a problem with you going with him, thats too bad. if he doesnt like that shes your friend, tahts too batt as well. you should do what you think is right. listen to your heart and youll make the right decision.


It's enevitable that they will see eachother. they both sit with me at lunch. She especially hates that me and Chris share slushies (it's been six times)


if she has a problem with yall sharing something, then she isnt really a good friend after all. she should respect yall, even tho she doesnt like him. if she continues to act like that. then break it with her.


but the her whole grope (the magority of my other frinds) will never speek to me again. then i'll get depressed, and start cutting again...*sigh*

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 2:24 pm


FireFoxDevil666
TheGrim17
FireFoxDevil666
TheGrim17
you shouldnt have to pick between them. just dont have them be in the same area together. if she has a problem with you going with him, thats too bad. if he doesnt like that shes your friend, tahts too batt as well. you should do what you think is right. listen to your heart and youll make the right decision.


It's enevitable that they will see eachother. they both sit with me at lunch. She especially hates that me and Chris share slushies (it's been six times)


if she has a problem with yall sharing something, then she isnt really a good friend after all. she should respect yall, even tho she doesnt like him. if she continues to act like that. then break it with her.


but the her whole grope (the magority of my other frinds) will never speek to me again. then i'll get depressed, and start cutting again...*sigh*


if they would do that to you, they arent really your friends. the friends that stay with you and support you are your real friends. analyze that.
PostPosted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 6:54 am


WiccanJoe
It has always been my opinion that boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go but friendships will last a lifetime if allowed to live that long.

I'm not telling you to choose between the two. I am saying that you need to sit down and evaluate what it is that you want from both relationships, the benefits, and their futures.

4laugh

Oh yes, I would have to agree
...
It's so difficult, a situation like this
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 12:47 pm


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WiccanJoe
It has always been my opinion that boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go but friendships will last a lifetime if allowed to live that long.

I'm not telling you to choose between the two. I am saying that you need to sit down and evaluate what it is that you want from both relationships, the benefits, and their futures.

4laugh

Oh yes, I would have to agree
...
It's so difficult, a situation like this
<3


*bangs head on desk*
PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 12:59 pm


FireFoxDevil666
Dark Eagle Babe
WiccanJoe
It has always been my opinion that boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go but friendships will last a lifetime if allowed to live that long.

I'm not telling you to choose between the two. I am saying that you need to sit down and evaluate what it is that you want from both relationships, the benefits, and their futures.

4laugh

Oh yes, I would have to agree
...
It's so difficult, a situation like this
<3


*bangs head on desk*


Awww, sweetie. I'm sorry if it seems like hopeless sometimes. In the end, you have to make the decision in regards to your own life. Do you want your best friend around or do you want your partner around? You have to look at future plans, benefits, rewards, and the like in order to determine what it is you want from each person... and then go from there. The situation is a hard one, but I know that you'll make the correct decision.

For what its worth, I totally support your decision. xd

WiccanJoe


bbm552

PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 9:50 am


Your friend is probably jealous. But asking them why they don't like eachother may help.
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