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ChiRubian
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:08 pm


Now that I have everyone's attention, I'd like to make a simple plea to all you good people.
I understand that talking about sex isn't a problem for a majority of the people here. In fact, I'm sure a great many of you enjoy it. However the way in which you discuss it both sickens and disgusts me. You disgust me. I joined this guild and have stayed because I feel safe, but now I'm beginning to question whether or not I should continue to stay. I'm sorry for raining on your picnic, but it's a very real problem for me. So I'm begging you to tone it down a bit. Even if I'm the only one with the balls to admit that I don't like it.
PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:15 pm


- N y z z -
Now that I have everyone's attention, I'd like to make a simple plea to all you good people.
I understand that talking about sex isn't a problem for a majority of the people here. In fact, I'm sure a great many of you enjoy it. However the way in which you discuss it both sickens and disgusts me. You disgust me. I joined this guild and have stayed because I feel safe, but now I'm beginning to question whether or not I should continue to stay. I'm sorry for raining on your picnic, but it's a very real problem for me. So I'm begging you to tone it down a bit. Even if I'm the only one with the balls to admit that I don't like it.
i don't enjoy sex, but a guild is formed to make commonalities among people who have them. There's no real wrong in talking about it, but if it bothers you, i might say don't look?

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ChiRubian
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:44 pm


That's a difficult thing to do when it's practically everywhere.
PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:56 pm


Nyzz dear, sex is a big part of culture, American culture especially. Living in America it's something you have to deal with, people are going to talk about it no matter where you are in this country. They are going to talk about it however they want despite your feelings, so if you let it bother you every time you are going to be one unhappy person.

I guess what I'm saying in short is...Deal with it.

and I mean no disrespect by that.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 6:11 pm


Did this have something to do with the comment from 'Because I love you all so much' thread?
I recall a post where you seem to have freaked out.
But as for me I shall tone it down.
I'm sure I've probably went a little too overboard a few times.
PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 6:37 pm


It is no secret you heavily dislike that kind of threads and posts, and I agree that we have gone too far a couple times, what we can actually try to work out here is a commitment by both parties, we the offenders can keep clean any topic, and you can simply delete when we run out of line on a "clean" topic, but when a thread exists solely for a sex topic, you should definitevely stay away.

In short, white is white and black is black, I think we can all try to keep clean topics clean, but we cant totally banish every sex thread on the forum, as long as we keep it in a respectuful manner.

I have to admit that I admire how hard it must be to be civil about a topic you despise so much, but on the other side, I was expecting a little more of an alternative from you, given you had handled this kind of issues a lot better in the past, at least with me, being a moderator is all about staying cool and objective, and keeping moderated the forums, the fact that you would even consider leaving this guild just because of the tone of the topics saddens me, you heavily dislike me, but I held you on a respect position, and thought you would try something (anything) before going that road.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:40 pm


Personally, I think I'm going to stay out of this one because I haven't discussed much anything of a sexual nature until recently because of events in my life.

So yea. I'm not here.
PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 9:36 pm


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Ah, I shall shut up now. I didn't know you detested it that much, my dear.<3

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ChiRubian
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 3:45 am


Thanks guys. I appreciate your concern, I really do.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 12:09 pm


I don't think I've ever talked about it in this guild, but I apologize if I have.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 2:08 pm


If I have ever made Nyz uncomfortable I apologize. I must wonder if Nyzka is asexual. It's quite fine if you are.  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:10 am


Nyz, I'm sorry if anything that has occurred here has upset you. I also apologise for anything I have said. So please everyone. If you want to talk about sex, that's fine. It's part of being human. But please keep it in specified threads and don't drag it in everywhere else.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:25 am


OMGOMGOMGGGGG Nyzz, has an amazazing voice :O like HELLA. it reminds me of my friend Emily's voice, and at the same time a little bit of that crazy chick who keeps calling Ham-bone on the radio..but all the same i like ittt allotttt biggrin
PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 5:24 am


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