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I know this is kinda long, but if you would please take the time to read and comment I would really appreciate it...I really need help. crying


My best friend is a guy, and he's been dating this girl for about 4 months. At first I was really happy for him, he always talked about her as nice, sweet, awesome, and fun. Knowing him, this girl sounded like his dream girl. However, recently I've noticed a lot of things about this girl that really concern me.
One day he came up to me complaining about my number, so I checked it out and my number was wrong, which is odd because I KNOW i put it in right because in the past he has called me without a problem. I'm pretty sure she changed it because he calls me a lot and I call him.
Then he missed my birthday! I invited some friends over and he was totally psyched cause we didnt hang out in a while..then last minute he said he cant go!
Then he and I get invited to another party and he cant go because he's hanging out with his girl.
I love this guy and I give this chick all the respect I can muster

But I miss my bestfriend... cry

I would confront him but...in school (which is the only time I see him) he totally ignores my existance, because that little girl is always around him.
And plus one of my friends tried to but she went about it in all the wrong ways.
So if I confront him he'll think I'm just being emotional or whatever...

I reallly appreciate it if you read through the whole thing,
If anyone has some advice I would love to hear it.
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I would talk to my friends but...they're the kind of people that like to talk with their fists...>.<

I've tried that, I mean, I wasnt just sitting there for a few months not doing anything. I've backed off a lot. I dont call him and I told him not to call me anymore and in school I ignore him even when she's not around. I deleted him from my facebook and my myspace and I changed my aim sn. I've avoided him entirely for a long time. But, I miss him, he was one of my best friends after all >.<
And I understand that she might be jealous, but she acts TOTALLY different around my other friends, and some of them are just as close as we are. I dont understand what is going on here at all >.<

i totally agree with Juni dont back off too much or he mite think ur jealous and dont be to close all the time so pretty much balance

haha xD thanks for the advice biggrin