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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 12:37 am
ok well first im not sure if im suppost to post here (but im gonna ne ways..sry if this is the wrong place) Well I have this step dad at home and he gets drunk ALOT then comes home and ill be the only one home while my mom would be at work or the store then hed take hes angree or w/e on me..(rape, abusse, you name) and im not sure how to stop it.. i mean yes I KNOW tell a teacher, council, adult, police...that means NOTHING to me when you say that.. ive TRIED all those things... i just get scred then back away and not tell them. . I mean i accullt GOT the guts to tell my mom once about all of thise abuse/rape stuff but she didnt belive me. im not sure what else to say..
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 12:44 am
This should be in the rape and abuse sticky. Consider this a reminder. smile You might want to re-read the rules before you make another thread.
You can call Child Services and/or call the police if your mother doesn't believe you. There is no reason for you to continue to be in that environment if you are being abused.
If you want your situation to change, you have to get up the courage to talk to someone. Even the police. Take someone with you if you go to talk to the police, like a trusted adult or a close friend.
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 12:47 am
sry....... sad i probley wont make another topic..so yyyaaaaaaa.......... crying ne ways im gonna leave buh bye sad oh and btw people im 14 sad
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 12:52 am
remukoo sry....... sad i probley wont make another topic..so yyyaaaaaaa.......... crying ne ways im gonna leave buh bye sad oh and btw people im 14 sad It's ok, now you know. 3nodding It's not a big deal as long as you don't do it again. Not the end of the world. Stick around and you'll probably get more advice when people starting posting in the morning. Be sure to check back on your thread, maybe people will give you better advice.
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 6:39 am
You need to talk to someone. Think about who you trust the most (that's older). Normally the hardest part people find in talking to someone is knowing where to start, so I suggest you do the same as what you did here. Talking to your school would be good because you can do it in confidence there and then they can get your mum up to talk to her about, that way she'll believe what is going on. You don't need to stand for his abuse, you don't deserve it, that's why you must tell someone.
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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 12:19 am
[CherryBlossom] You need to talk to someone. Think about who you trust the most (that's older). Normally the hardest part people find in talking to someone is knowing where to start, so I suggest you do the same as what you did here. Talking to your school would be good because you can do it in confidence there and then they can get your mum up to talk to her about, that way she'll believe what is going on. You don't need to stand for his abuse, you don't deserve it, that's why you must tell someone. Yes, go to someone in school. Maybe there's a counsellor at your school who you can tell your story to. I know it's horrible that your mum won't believe you, but that's the way mum's work. They're afraid that it's true, but on the other side, they can't believe the guy they love would do such a thing. This is why you need to go to someone else than your mum, and make sure this stops.
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 5:31 pm
Ok, here's what i have to say about it:
This kinda stuff used to happen when i was like 8. i told my mom, of course she didnt believe me, so i just hid in a corner and cried. i really had no frickin clue on what i should do. so conviently, one school day, we were in class and a dude came in to talk about abuse. "remember, mr. butch says to tell an adult right away or call the police, ok???" you should listen to mr butch. he's a genius. ^_^
but seriouslt, best of luck with this, i know how you feel.
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 11:06 pm
remukoo ok well first im not sure if im suppost to post here (but im gonna ne ways..sry if this is the wrong place) Well I have this step dad at home and he gets drunk ALOT then comes home and ill be the only one home while my mom would be at work or the store then hed take hes angree or w/e on me..(rape, abusse, you name) and im not sure how to stop it.. i mean yes I KNOW tell a teacher, council, adult, police...that means NOTHING to me when you say that.. ive TRIED all those things... i just get scred then back away and not tell them. . I mean i accullt GOT the guts to tell my mom once about all of thise abuse/rape stuff but she didnt belive me. im not sure what else to say.. you can call an operator, they'll be able to help you out just dial 0. I suggest putting a hidden camera somewhere so that can be proof. after that you show it to your mom.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 10:29 pm
when you read this do the following
1) call CPS 2) pack up all of your bellongings 3) don't take a shower. why? because CPS will probably do a rape kit on you which involves you getting either a culture test or papsmear ((please don't be a grammar nazi on this one)) 4) wait for somebody to come over to your house, that is from CPS or the police
do all of these things please
in order to get help from people, help yourself
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 11:14 pm
CynicalZepplin when you read this do the following 1) call CPS 2) pack up all of your bellongings 3) don't take a shower. why? because CPS will probably do a rape kit on you which involves you getting either a culture test or papsmear ((please don't be a grammar nazi on this one)) 4) wait for somebody to come over to your house, that is from CPS or the police do all of these things please in order to get help from people, help yourself You might want to note that this was originally posted almost a month ago.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 11:37 am
Straight to the cops, if all else fails.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 12:36 pm
well if you are too scared to tell an adult...then tell one of your close friends. Friends are a good place to go for advice. But I do suggest you gather your courage and tell an adult
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Posted: Wed Dec 21, 2005 1:53 pm
remukoo ok well first im not sure if im suppost to post here (but im gonna ne ways..sry if this is the wrong place) Well I have this step dad at home and he gets drunk ALOT then comes home and ill be the only one home while my mom would be at work or the store then hed take hes angree or w/e on me..(rape, abusse, you name) and im not sure how to stop it.. i mean yes I KNOW tell a teacher, council, adult, police...that means NOTHING to me when you say that.. ive TRIED all those things... i just get scred then back away and not tell them. . I mean i accullt GOT the guts to tell my mom once about all of thise abuse/rape stuff but she didnt belive me. im not sure what else to say.. Hun I know its scarry but you have to tell someone. If you don't it will all just continue. The best place to go is to your school counselor. If you are afraid they wont believe you find a way to get proof; Video fotage, a tape recording, pictures, or anything else. But no matter what they will help you. A school counselor is where I had to go to get my grandfather to stop abusing me. I know its hard and scarry but you have to tell someone if you don't it will never stop. Just pray and get up the courage to do it. You will be happy once its stopped.
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Posted: Sat Jun 03, 2006 10:27 pm
i'm really sorry that happened to you
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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 2:35 pm
If your own mother doesn't believe you then you need to go to social services, and talk with someone there, tell them how your mom doesn't believe you and everything he did to you.. Good luck
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