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`Roguey
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 6:15 pm


Half of the girls i have dated, i have met online. I did meet them before i dated them, for the most part. I also did the generic "hang out in public so nothing goes wrong" rar rar rar, since i've heard of a few bad experiences for some people. I personally don't think there's anything wrong with it. I have had one bad experience, where the girl i met was clingy as hell, and told me "she loved me" since the moment we first met, urgh. I met her whilst with my current girlfriend, so that added to the discomfort of both of us.

You're opinions?
Experiences?
Etc?


NB: IRL = In Real Life
PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:33 am


I don't really see anything wrong with meeting someone via interwebz XD
But then again I don't see anything wrong with slaping a kid in the mouth when they curse >.<"
Both are kinda looked down upon but still razz
I never met someone IRL because of searching the interwebs.

KuroiTehLycan


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 1:27 pm


KuroiTehLycan
I don't really see anything wrong with meeting someone via interwebz XD
But then again I don't see anything wrong with slaping a kid in the mouth when they curse >.<"
Both are kinda looked down upon but still razz
I never met someone IRL because of searching the interwebs.



pshhh me ... sorta =p hehe <33333
PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 4:15 pm


KuroiTehLycan
I don't really see anything wrong with meeting someone via interwebz XD
But then again I don't see anything wrong with slaping a kid in the mouth when they curse >.<"
Both are kinda looked down upon but still razz
I never met someone IRL because of searching the interwebs.
I thought you were just supposed to use a water gun on them, or was that cats? ninja

It's looked down because the people judging such things are OLD. It was the same before for dating outside the 'race' crap, and dating outside the religion, and outside the family ( ninja ). Just because it is a new idea, doesn't mean it is wrong (aside from adult/child).

Guru Drak

Omnipresent Elder


little_zeta

PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 4:05 pm


I met my current gf, my lovily Hannah <3, here online, and though we haven't met irl yet we are planning to as soon as I graduate and can get to her.
PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 10:36 pm


bloody_vampiress 666
I met my current gf, my lovily Hannah <3, here online, and though we haven't met irl yet we are planning to as soon as I graduate and can get to her.


Naww, that's sweet. :]

`Roguey
Crew


Nikki the Juggalette

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 6:49 pm


bloody_vampiress 666
I met my current gf, my lovily Hannah <3, here online, and though we haven't met irl yet we are planning to as soon as I graduate and can get to her.
Actually I met my girlfriend online too we've been together for 5 months as of Novenber 2nd. smile
PostPosted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 8:59 pm


Well, Jennie is about 4 hours away and as soon as she can afford it, she'll be visiting. And shortly after that, I might be moving in with her.

Otherwise, I haven't met anyone irl from online.

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Now, to be the devil's advocate and the one who'll crush hopes from now on (the reality check), I would say give up hopes of meeting your love online and seeing them irl.

Seriously, it doesn't happen to often. It's a delicate situation, right up to the very day, I guarantee that.

Delpheus
Crew


`Roguey
Crew

PostPosted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:49 am


Hmm well i've done it quite a few times, and most of them have been reasonably successful. Though i suppose they were only 3 hours away, i wouldn't persue if the person lived overseas or across the country, unless they were planning to move sometime soon.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:48 pm


I suppose that would be where my problem lies. Most of the people I've met online were either in the UK, in Canadia, West Coast, or more than 1 state away (and 18 further compounding things.)

Ikalos
Crew


izzybelYUME17

PostPosted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 2:22 pm


Ikalos
I suppose that would be where my problem lies. Most of the people I've met online were either in the UK, in Canadia, West Coast, or more than 1 state away (and 18 further compounding things.)

ditto my gf is in canada right now crying
but we've been together for two years now with no flaws so *shrugs* we're not in a rush to get together anyway- not a very physically demanding relationship both of us are perfectly fine with talking versus making out
PostPosted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 11:29 pm


Ikalos
I suppose that would be where my problem lies. Most of the people I've met online were either in the UK, in Canadia, West Coast, or more than 1 state away (and 18 further compounding things.)



heehee Canadia x] i luff Canada tho!!! <3

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hellraiser5269

PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 11:44 pm


ive met my ex online but it can be hard though cause if ur like me that enjoy chat rooms and u become friends with someone and come close u just wanna be with them and always want to meet. but then u also have the ones what if thats not there real pic to
PostPosted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:22 am


Well I've tecnically met 4 people from online in real life.

1 female, we had a few dates but just ended up as good friends (there was a bit of drama that ment we didn't get together that I only founf out about ages after)

1 of the guys I met and dated for a few months but it was long distance and didn't work out.
Another one of the guys I met I just used as an ego boost as I had just become single and he really liked me but I wernt interested (meen I know)

And the other one I randomly ran in to on a night out, we couldn't think why we recognised each other.

I have no problem meeting people online as these days it can be rather hard to meet interesting people, plus the bar sceen does get old fast!

Bang Bang Kitty Lincon


hellraiser5269

PostPosted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 9:55 am


ive met four as well first my ex other three were not really hookups just me pretty much doing all the work and getting nothing in return
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