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Nixstress
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Posted: Tue Oct 14, 2008 1:36 pm

So right, I'm not one for believing in stuff like, "The One true love" Malarkey.
However, I think I dumped mine. /=
But I think I know why.. Please help me work out if I did the right thing?
He's only really been with me and one other person properly, is it right for me to want him to go with someone else so that he's sure I'm the "one"?

I mean I know he's my "One"

I wish he wasn't at times, but he is.
We fit together perfectly, both physically and mentally.

And yet, I'm probably going to go out with someone else to get him to get over me. Because I want him to see me as his one.. I feel insane.
O_O
I am insane, I haven't slept properly in ages, I can't eat.
I can't even talk properly right now, my words come out a mess.

Is this right?

Posted: Tue Oct 14, 2008 5:38 pm

There's no way to really make him realize you are his "one".
It's always a gamble.
Most likely if you are to go out with someone it won't make him realize anything but maybe you just wanted to be untied to see that one person.
However, he may just become oblivious.
Depends on how much he really wants to be with you.
But if you really think he's the "one" for you...maybe you should discuss it with him.
It wouldn't hurt to talk to him and maybe get his input instead of guessing if he feels the same way.
You are young though so you never know, you may end of finding someone else or he may do the same but that's how life is.
I've been in love three times in my life and only one worked out.
What you have to do is look at the situation and see if things work easily or if there are waaay too many high walls and road blocks that don't become unblocked with time.
Things happen for a reason and we don't always end up with the one we thought we would be with.
Love comes at you from out of nowhere but you have to put A LOT of hard work into keeping it going.
Giving up and playing games isn't the way to keep your relationship a float in this very distraught world of ours.
So hold on and communicate, the worst that could happen is he could be too immature at the time.
So growth is a normal thing.
Hell even I'm still immature in some areas.
I'm going to be a mom soon and still feel like I'm WAAAY too immature for that and I'm 23. LOL

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Nixstress
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Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 1:30 pm

Meh, I wrote him an email.
I don't want him to read it ever though.
I just wish I wasn't so self destructive.

Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 2:45 pm

Oh gosh I am actually insane.
O_o
My logic is so backwards I can't think straight.
>.<
All I know is I'm too young for this.
I'm too young to want to be with someone for the rest of my life..
Too young to be having Brain scans and talk of weird procedures.
Too young to care like this.

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Posted: Thu Oct 16, 2008 4:58 pm

Yes, I could have told you that, but life can come at you fast.
And sometimes people find people faster than others and sometimes people even younger than you have to deal with things scarier and even more daunting.
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But you still have the people around you to support you and that is all that matters.
Live life and have fun!
Just cause you are young doesn't mean you don't have the privilege to do insanely adult things that seem like rough life deals that only 30 year olds can handle.
>.< which is quite a farce.
We are put through so many more things adult-like more than anyone else in all the generations past had to.

Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:35 am

1. DONT PANIC
2. I'll talk to you on msn when i get a chance.
3. Its a bit weird, yes, but it makes sense

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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 1:16 pm

Yeah.
/=
Well I'm single ish.. Now.. I like being single and I don't.
I miss Sam like hell, I still see him but it's not the Same.
I've been to see Joe's Family... and well I am now a part of his family. O=
They actually seem to generally like me, I don't know what feels most weird to me.
That they're fine with their son dating a freak... or that they'd gladly open their arms to said freak.

But yeah.

Went on a date with Joe.. =]
It was nice.
I had fun, gonna' go out with Daniel on Thursday. Should be fun.
But I know I'll probably go with Joe for a bit he's really sweet.
=]
It's weird, since I've broke up with Sam, it's become apparent so many people like me. I don't really like it.
>.<
Ginko's got oddly possessive O=
I went to rest on Daniel's shoulder and he got up and stud between us. O_O
Not good.
I've been asked out by........ too many people.
O_+
Non of which I like in that way o=

But yeah, I'm happy. I'm happy seeing Joe. =]
Seeing Sam right now's painful because.. well he's... well trying to be friends, and it's weird. >.<

But oh well, I can skip home from the bus, so it's all good

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