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great over lord

PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 9:44 pm


my boyfriend is an a**. but i cant break up with him. i dont know what it is i just cant do it. its been 6months and when he makes me mad/sad i get extremly mad/sad and he doesnt understand what he did wrong. were constintly fighting over dumb stuff that shouldnt even happen in a "relationship" im 18 and hes 17. i got a job and i got to school full time. he graduated early and sits on his a** ande plays COD4 and s**t. i love him when were together and not fighting and hes close to me.but that barley happens like once a week cuz of school and work. i dont want to lose him but im just so unhappy 83% of the time. i dont know what to do and breaking up is NOT an option. he does have a gaia hes tayven hirentl or how ever you spell it. hes such a ho. please help im just so confused.
<3 BRITTNEY
PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 7:49 pm


Unfortunately, I think you're stuck in the standard girl-boy relationship. Boys don't really mature until they're about 27, so given that, you have a long way to go putting up with his selfish actions. If it bothers you, you should tell him and then actually hold him accountable. Ask him to get a job. Ask him to help around the house. He should be holding up his end of the deal too. Of course this is going to start new fights, but it's all how you present and respond to it. Boys are very simple creatures, and once you learn the tricks, he can be tamed.

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the_defective_one

PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 9:50 pm


sounds kinda normal i was in that before but iffrent ages but same basic theme its hell u need to find a way to break up with him i did a email and text that way i could cry my eyes out and he wouldn't know
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