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Due to my roommates moving out to get their own appartment and have lower rent/more privacy to partake in the many activities of marriage (which they were doing anyways razz ) I couldn't keep up the rent on my own and had nowhere to move into except for my grandparent's house. At first things were going... annoyingly.... Neither of them function all that well on their own, but they usually manage to get by. My grandma's nice and generally somewhat open to new ideas and able to be reasonably flexible with her plans, very much unlike my grandpa who, even though I'm twenty years old and VERY much able to take care of myself in a good number of situations, still seems to insists on treating me like a child who just happens to be an entire foot taller than him and could probably break most of his bones with his bare hands without too much effort (he's incredibly frail because of the medications he takes). The jack a** even insists on giving me a ******** BED TIME!!! Almost every day when I go to the kitchen, grandma compulsively runs of a list of EVERY single piece of food available (including left-overs from the previous night) and even does this if I just went to the store with them to help them with the shopping and placed the food into the cabinets myself. Sometimes I'll grab a drink from the fridge (while grandma rambles off the list of everything else) and will be about to grab a cup, from the same cabinet they've been in for the last 20-ish years, and grandpa will inform me that there are indeed cups in that cabinet.

I know that those things are just ways for them to be polite and hospitable, etc. BUT EVERY SINGLE ******** DAY?! I have been living in this piece of ******** s**t sandwich c**t wrapped taco stain on the wall house for almost a year now, visited very frequently when we were kids, and was living perfectly fine on my own (mostly (Hey! I didn't starve myself or anything and did my own laundry every week-ish)) for a little bit more than a year! I don't think it's completely irrational for me to have strong feelings of despise for a couple of half-zombies that should have been thrown into a home (or florida or something) about twelve years ago and are trying to downsize me so much.

And don't think I haven't already gone through other options of resolution for this one either! I've asked them nicely to stop trying to parent me. I've tried to just simply ignore their senseless inane blather in hopes that they'd catch on and desist with their incessant rantings (that one worked well on grandma). There are a few other methods too,

I really like to burn things. Watching a fire usually helps me be a lot calmer. mrgreen

If things suck so badly then you should work on finding a place and moving out. after all you have been living with your grandma for a year.

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Spyke114 you will just have to suck it up until you have the resources to leave or you find someone more tolerant to move in with. Look at www.craigslist.org for listings from people searching for roommates if you have to.

And don't ever call gramma and grandad half zombies! That's just wrong dude! scream One day you'll end up just like them unless you get hit by a bus or a falling meteor.

I could never yell at a grandparent.

You know what? Grow up. I've got no problem with telling you how I feel. And I will.

You're grandparents are letting you live with them! Do you have to pay rent? Probably not. Stop whining and b****ing over every little thing. Oh my god they want you to go to bed at a certain time. Big freaking whoop-di-do! If you don't like it, move out! Its their house. Not yours.

And oohhh how DARE your grandmother tell you what there is to eat. What a horrible person she is! You should take her out back and beat her! Evil grandma!

Be a big boy. Stop whining and complaining, get a job, and move out if you hate it so much. Oh and learn some respect, because you seriously need it. Saying you can beat up and break your frail old grandfather's bones doesn't make you look tough, it makes you look like a moron.

When I look in the mirror...

Uh... No comment. >____>

I see nobody.

My thoughts exactly! Your Grandparents probably love your stupid a** and want to take care of you because that's what family does, they arn't trying to baby you they are trying to love you, but you are so full of semi adult crap that you don't see it. Dude, it's their house, show them some respect.

I got some things to say...

1. Show your grandparents some respect.

2. Your grandparents gave you a bed time. Who cares?! They love you is why they did that.

3. Don't ever yell at your grandparents. You're pretty fortunate that they let you stay there. Plus you don't even have to do much.

4. Don't ever tell your grandparents to stop parenting you. >.<" THEY LOVE YOU! THAT'S WHY THEY ARE DOING THAT!!!

Take this as advice.