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1. Sex does not equal pregnancy. There are many methods of birth control out there, and you can even use two methods at once. That can make your chances of getting pregnant 1% or less. It's always good to have a "what if?" plan, but if you're careful you don't have to worry too much about pregnancy.

2. If you are comfortable enough with him to sleep with him, you should be comfortable enough to talk to him. So if this is something you really want, talk to him about it. Just make sure you are very clear about what you want. Make sure you specify whether you want a committed relationship, an open relationship, friends with benefits, a one time thing, etc. You don't have to ask him face to face, an email or instant message would work just fine.

3. If you're having sex, make sure you're also getting paps!

if you love him does it matter if he is but ugly no it does not