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 Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 3:30 pm
Ok... this is a major issues in the schools in the country I live in... so lets discuss whats going on....
If you are getting bullied... the first thing i need to tell you, is that telling on someone is not narking!!! OK.. Dont let people push you around you are worth more then that.... You are who you are and dont you let anybody say any different. Bullies tend to have issues of there own and generally feel hated and unloved... so they bully to get attention.... And get smart about how you deal with this... ok.. if they are that bad TALK... to someone who can do something about it. Dont put yourself in their way... if you can help it ... at least until someone does something to sort them out. Block all emails... and messages from them ... thats nasty s**t so dont let it corrupt u. And last but not least.... Who loves you baby!!!! Talk and be with people who do! They will make you feel better and more protected.....
PM Fire if you dont want to post but want to discuss
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 6:50 pm
I totally agree with Fire on this one. I went through it all with my kids and that is what I had to tell each one of them. It is worth it in the long run to just handle it and get it over with. Letting someone push you around and me mean to you is just not right. Take control and stop them the right way.
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 6:08 am
i was bullied alot, but when my cousin transferred to my school, it stopped i don't know what he did but i fell for his best friend ^^ who is now my boyfriend ^^.
I told teachers but they didn't listen, i told my parents they were just telling me to live with it.
i don't know what he did exactly, but im glad it did ^^
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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2008 5:14 am
I think parents and teachers should help stopping the bullies, instead of letting them like that. People who are being bullied should get all the support they can. I've learned that bullies get power from reaction, so the less you react, the less power they have. Just act all cool even though you might feel like crying inside. Give them a cold look, or death glare. They would learn that you are not someone to be trifled with. And yes, bullies are usually people who aren't happy with their own lives, and so they pick on people they're jealous of. Stay strong - there's always someone out there who can help you. Hope my advice helps. ^^
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Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:58 pm
well, most of this advise didnt work for me D=...........the 1 that worked the most was where u dont react to them...but they would just follow me around all day and wouldnt stop, and now i prty much have a clan of ppl following me at school that r bullying me and making fun of me.... crying
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Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 10:43 pm
Don't go alone then, make friends and walk together, teaches them not to mess with you (Coz you're kinda building your own force xD) If that happened in here, most schools would just start a massive fight and bring sticks, bottles, anything they can bring. ninja Violence and anarchy.. Happens often here.
Anyway. You might think you're the loser because you're being bullied, but you never know if one of the people watching thinks you're sort of cool just because you can stand up to the bullies. cool
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 2:41 pm
Luneatha Don't go alone then, make friends and walk together, teaches them not to mess with you (Coz you're kinda building your own force xD) If that happened in here, most schools would just start a massive fight and bring sticks, bottles, anything they can bring. ninja Violence and anarchy.. Happens often here.
Anyway. You might think you're the loser because you're being bullied, but you never know if one of the people watching thinks you're sort of cool just because you can stand up to the bullies. cool i already do have a good ammount of friends, but they get bullied as well...
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Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 1:04 pm
one man: There's strength in numbers. If just ignoring them doesn't work then face them. Let them say what they have to say then AGREE with them. That'll throw them off. While they're busy trying to figure out what happened you start turning the tables.
Like say they say something like "you look stupid in those glasses". Reply with something like. "I might, but I'm just grateful that my parents can afford glasses for me. There are some people that can't even afford to go to the doctor." Make them feel like s**t and they'll shut the hell up.
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Jamais Changeant Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Dec 17, 2008 4:55 pm
Jamais Changeant one man: There's strength in numbers. If just ignoring them doesn't work then face them. Let them say what they have to say then AGREE with them. That'll throw them off. While they're busy trying to figure out what happened you start turning the tables.
Like say they say something like "you look stupid in those glasses". Reply with something like. "I might, but I'm just grateful that my parents can afford glasses for me. There are some people that can't even afford to go to the doctor." Make them feel like s**t and they'll shut the hell up. that doesnt work...if i try to make them feel bad about themselves, or ppl they know, the just resort to violence and attack me and my friends....and we r not strong enough 2 defeat them..i have like the whole football team and like half the wrestling team bullying me 0.0 ......
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Posted: Wed Dec 17, 2008 10:11 pm
The closest thing to bullying I have ever been through is being harassed by the whole school over a lie that my sister told. 5th grade, and teachers did nothing! D<
My solution was ignore them, and read. [ I scared them with my smarts; no I'm serious I think when I read that huge chapter book many of those kids left me alone ] But I doubt that would work for anyone else. Hm, since I do my best no to socialize with anyone who could ever bully me, they sorta leave me alone. Now the closest thing to bullying at the moment is them taking my stuff, but returning them the moment I continue staring at them.
In my school however, there is a game where they take your backpack. First they scatter your stuff across the room, then turn your backpack inside out. The only solution to this problem is to show that you are not playing around, and they leave you alone.
There is also strength in numbers though which someone pointed out. So simply hanging out with your friends [ in an area where the bullies can't get you ] then you might be safe.
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 4:46 pm
Haruko The Penguin
In my school however, there is a game where they take your backpack. First they scatter your stuff across the room, then turn your backpack inside out. The only solution to this problem is to show that you are not playing around, and they leave you alone.omg...the kids did that 2 me at my school =P....... well, most of the kids stopped bullying me, cuz i said if they didnt bully i will do their homework...but in the long run that will be bad 4 them...cuz they wont know the stuff and they will fail the tests and they will fail the class =P....and when i see them repeating the class i will just laugh at them...lol =P
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:43 pm
one man army of canadia Haruko The Penguin
In my school however, there is a game where they take your backpack. First they scatter your stuff across the room, then turn your backpack inside out. The only solution to this problem is to show that you are not playing around, and they leave you alone.omg...the kids did that 2 me at my school =P....... well, most of the kids stopped bullying me, cuz i said if they didnt bully i will do their homework...but in the long run that will be bad 4 them...cuz they wont know the stuff and they will fail the tests and they will fail the class =P....and when i see them repeating the class i will just laugh at them...lol =P
I get annoyed cause I still need to do my own work. But at least I'm lucky so far since no actual bullies really made me do their homework
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Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 4:03 am
The only soultion that has work for me is fight back
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Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 1:06 pm
First, tell them to stop.
If that doesn't work, tell a teacher. They will probably tell you to do step one again. Just annoy the crap out of them with it.
Finally, stab them with a pencil. Finished my problems, you can do whatever you please. But as Gabriel said, fighting back is the only sure way to get rid of them.
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Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2009 10:40 am
Never told a teacher just told them to stop and if they didnt stop then i would make them stop
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