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 Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 7:46 pm
Well here it is,----My mother used to be a big drunk drug user, and she hit me discouraged me, the whole package,...Well, after she quite she told me I could confront here about it any time...Well I did, and now she denied all those times, called me a bad persom, a liar, and hated me for weeks...I live with my grandmother, because of the past...so I don't live with her, I act like myself around her, because I felt I did'nt do wrong, now in front of me she's all nice, then I turn around and she tells my little brother how horrible I am and says how I do drugs and all this crap but I don't leave my house. Then she told my friends parents that I'm just the worst kid ever, so now I don't have friends, thats why I'm in my house....Well I don't know what to do or say...It hurts I cry I have high inxiety, I thought telling her my problems would help, but it hurts worse, and also I want to leave my family and move back to my best friends, they're like family, I'm 17, but my grandmother makes all the excuses to not let me go, and my friends were I want to move, well, they take away all the pain...I don't know, I havee a way to get a load of cash then takeoff but is that realy the way to go just for happiness,...It's been two years sense I could feel that warmth I once did there...
Well, what do you guys think???
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:29 pm
First off, I'm glad you came here, it shows trust, and it's something else...
Thats harsh, I don't see what your mother can be mad at, she probably denies it because she dident like it, and it is possible to forget something if a person tries, but it's never a good route...
Also, I think your grandmother is just scared to be alone does'nt want to let you grow up, does your little brother live with you???
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:23 pm
well yeah she did'nt like it. sure at the time she did, but she dusnt have to denie it. No, he lives with my mother, I guess that makes sense.
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:49 pm
ok, i understand that sometimes you just want to get everything off your shoulders and just talk to someone, and i can really see where you're coming from, but is this really the place to do it?
P.S the reason i haven't been posting is because i am going through some hard times and my electric was shut off so.....yeah, i'll probably be back on regularly sometime next week
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 7:56 pm
Heartbrake, I'm sure your mother has gathered hate from another place, and is putting it on you, as for your grandmother, when a person gets old, they get lonley, I'm sure having you in her life for the past years have made her happy and now she just does'nt want to let go of it, sort of like your quest for happiness...Don't be so eager to grow up, you're only a kid once... biggrin
Ryuk-It's ok if he wants to consult to us, we don't realy have a conversation sub-forum, so it's okay. I see what your saying though...
P.S.-I understand, if you still want the crew position, PM me after the 21st...
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:46 am
I use to say to people when it came to problems, that it will be okay! That life will get better you just have to look for it. You went through some harsh times and now you open up to a bunch of strangers. That shows that you are a strong person and that to me shows that since you can be open with anyone that is a great quality towards making friends. Your mother is being evil, but your grandmother doesn't see that in you. So let you grandmother be your rock tell her your feeling and your stand on this whole thing. And no one knows you better then your friends and no matter what your mom tells their mom, your friends are going to see that your not any of those things your mom tells them. And if they believe that crap then they weren't good friends to begin with!
My advice to you my good man! Smile! Your life is going to get better and I believe that!
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:56 am
Running away never solves anything. It might seem like the brighter path, but that light would the bridges you are burner by doing things the "fast and easy way." From the sounds of it, I think you family has thier own problems, and you seem to be stuck in the middle of those problems. I wonder though, is this story completly one-sided, or do you play a part in the drama as well. You may want to evaluate your place in this before you make harsh decisions.
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Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 10:46 am
im sorry your family is that way. my mother never hit me and was never that mean. but her amd ny brother used to do drugs. i hated it becuse i was always afraid our house was going to get raided in the middle of the night. or that they would screw some one over and they would break into the house and kill us in the middle of the night. and i dont like when people yell at me any more becuse im afraid there going to get violent like they did when i lived there.
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 5:26 am
Well, even though I don't know you that well *hugs tightly* I'm sorry that happened. I know exactly what you're going through...I just wish you had the option that I had. I moved in with my friend. I wish you could just go wherever you want. A nice guy like you deserves that right.
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