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My sister dragged me to college briefing (its basically a summer camp, but during the school year, for college students which was cool because there was a lot more freedom than usual church camps). I was dreading it, but it turned out to be pretty cool. Except this one annoying guy named Trevor went as well. This is the guy who tried to stake me and called me a witch when I first met him. I put up with him as I usually do with annoying people and when he''s not having boundary issues, he''s actually pretty interesting. Except one day, when my sister, another girl, and I were trying to study in the girls cabin, a bunch of people came by, including Trevor. He tried to crack my toes- which my little sister has tried to do to me before and not only does the noise drive me insane, it also hurts me- so I shouted at him to stop while I dug my nails into his wrist as hard as I could to pry his hand off my foot. After a while more of trying to do my homework and goofing off with the others, another started bugging my sister (he can look like a possessed clown when he wants to so he can scare my sister and some others really easily). So I came to my sister''s rescue as usual and he and I had a sort of arm wrestling match. Being weaker, he forced me down and I ended up sitting on the bed, but from that position I managed to knock him over. Thats when Trevor decided to get involved, but I knocked him over too. So he got back up and grabbed my ankles. The other guy said that Trevor was now going to crack my toes so I started screaming and kicking, but Trevor had my ankles tight. After about a minute of my shrieking, the other guy got annoyed and told Trevor to let me go. My ankles were bright red and hurting. The more I thought about the whole situation, the more angry with myself I got because I had been trapped by Trevor and if everyone hadn''t been in the cabin, he could have done anything he wanted to me. The next morning I was laughing at my sister during breakfast because she was making a funny face when Trevor came up behind me, put his hands on my face, and yanked my head up to tell me that it wasn''t that funny. I jerked my head away and ended up with a stinging ear. This time I told him firmly that he was not allowed to touch my face again. So he slapped me on the cheek. Breakfast was over so I just walked away at this point, but the more I think about it, the angrier I became. Its like he''s using his superior strength to dominate me by jerking my body around. But by the time this happened, the weekend was mostly over and I managed to avoid him pretty well for the rest of it. I still felt angry and almost violated (though that could be caused by my conservatism, not wanting to be in compromising positions with guys, or my feminism, thinking that a guy should not take be allowed to take advantage of women so), but I didn''t feel like stomping over and yelling at him randomly and he''d probably just bother me more. I thought about telling our leader, but, since I''m back at school, I''m not going to see Trevor for a while and I don''t want to bother our leader unnecessarily. So right now I''m still upset, but I really don''t know what to do. Should I email Trevor and tell him to stop? Should I email our leader and ask him to intervene? Should I just let it go as myself being too uptight and hope I don''t see Trevor for a long time?