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 Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 8:27 am
So, as some of the more veteran members here recall I was in a relationship for 6 or so months.
Then I broke up with my boyfriend of the time.
I still love him, which is more a symptom of being broken up bia your spouse, but I broke up with HIM, not he to I.
He wont reply to messages.
I am constantly in pain about this, what the ******** do I do ? I've tried to hate him, I b***h about him when people bring him up.
God, I just want to have him fade away from my mind, or for me to be with him again.
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 2:08 pm
Break-ups are like that.
I can only answer things if I relate it to myself because I'm egocentric like that... Anyway! My girlfriend thought she was in love with her previous boyfriends. Her first one she was hurt and really upset after breaking up with him. They tried dating again after a few weeks because they were both hurt, but it failed again. Then they tried being friends with benefits, but exes can't ever go back to just being friends with a little action.
The part of break-ups that people miss are the emotional attachment and knowing that someone is there for them. Don't regret your decision. I do not know your age, but it is possible you are not actually in love. With age, comes more understanding about life and how to live it to its fullest.
Love never fails, it is easy to forgive ones mistakes. Love's explosiveness rises and falls like the tide. It does not always make someone crazy giddy. Love cannot be taken back as a fleeting crush can.
Surround yourself with friends. Ask them to speak good words into your head.. and actually try to believe them as truth. Pain does not have to last forever and at such great magnitude either.
Also, what is the reason you broke up with him?
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 6:15 pm
Och, I'm sorry. D: I have no real advice.
All I can say is find some hobbies to keep yourself busy?
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 8:26 pm
x_26 Break-ups are like that. I can only answer things if I relate it to myself because I'm egocentric like that... Anyway! My girlfriend thought she was in love with her previous boyfriends. Her first one she was hurt and really upset after breaking up with him. They tried dating again after a few weeks because they were both hurt, but it failed again. Then they tried being friends with benefits, but exes can't ever go back to just being friends with a little action. The part of break-ups that people miss are the emotional attachment and knowing that someone is there for them. Don't regret your decision. I do not know your age, but it is possible you are not actually in love. With age, comes more understanding about life and how to live it to its fullest. Love never fails, it is easy to forgive ones mistakes. Love's explosiveness rises and falls like the tide. It does not always make someone crazy giddy. Love cannot be taken back as a fleeting crush can. Surround yourself with friends. Ask them to speak good words into your head.. and actually try to believe them as truth. Pain does not have to last forever and at such great magnitude either. Also, what is the reason you broke up with him? 16, and trust me. It was love, right down to the core. I cried for two weeks BEFORE I broke up with him because of the pain it would have caused him.
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