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 Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 9:37 pm
I'll try to explain this as simply as I can.
I have this friend, we'll call her Red. I've known Red since the 6th grade (I am almost 20 now).
When we were in the 7th grade, I fell head-over-heels for this boy we'll call Blue.
I pursued Blue for about three years, because I was infatuated.
And through all the s**t I went through over that, Red was there, Red knew everything about how much pain I went through over Blue.
Fast-forward to now.
I am engaged to a wonderful man who I love more than anything.
Red and Blue have been friends for a while.
Red said over and over she'd never be with Blue.
And today, I found out Red ******** Blue (today, in fact).
She told me this after I saw a hickey on Blue's neck.
And it hurts me.
Is it wrong that it hurts so much?
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:34 am
No, the feelings you have is not wrong at all. Your friend knew that you liked Blue, she should've said something to you before having sex with him [even though she said she'd never be with Blue]
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Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 9:08 am
I'm probably going to just tell her I can't be friends with someone who can lie so easily to me. u.u'
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 6:05 am
i wouldn't end a friendship that lasted so long over a ********, but i can completely understand. that would hurt me a lot, as well. i'd give her a good talking to. that's what i'd do. u___u
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:11 pm
THE HIV i wouldn't end a friendship that lasted so long over a ********, but i can completely understand. that would hurt me a lot, as well. i'd give her a good talking to. that's what i'd do. u___u It used to be a good friendship.
Over the years, she pretty much ditched me and another friend for other, "cooler" friends.
We've grown apart, and now that this has occurred, I believe she just isn't worth hanging on to.
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