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 Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 8:02 pm
Yeah, I haven't been around for a few months, school's been nuts and that's part of the reason I'm here again.
-sigh-
Yeah, boy troubles. Love sucks. Big time.
So, there's this guy at my school and he's one of my closest guy friends, and I happen to have a crush on him. Problem. So I didn't want to ruin our friendship or anything so I've kept quiet about it for the last three months. D=
But just today, he told me he liked this other girl, who happened to be a friend of mine, and he asked me to find out if she liked him back. And... now I'm having internal struggles. -sigh-
I mean, I'm not gonna go, "If I can't have him, nobody can, rawr" kinda thing because he's my friend, right? And I do want him to be happy... So I AM going to ask my friend for him.
I'm just really, really, really confused right now. Not to mention a little torn up. I feel so pathetic that I'm feeling like this because of a guy... emo
So, PPS, got any good tips on how to get over a guy?
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Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 9:11 am
Well, I'm not much of an advice giver, but I think that you're doing a good thing. Telling him that you like him right now when he likes someone else might be a bad idea, and lead to further complications.
Just remember that this will make him very happy. Even if it hurts you inside, he'll still be your friend in the end, and that's what matters. It may take some time to get over him, and the person that he might end up with is also someone you know, but just remember that he'll be very grateful to you. As long as your friendship remains, that's the important part.
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Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 12:45 pm
Well, I asked her for him very subtly, no names, yeah, and she said that she wasn't ready for a relationship yet and that there weren't any guys she currently liked. I felt so bad after telling him that because he just looked so heartbroken...
But what's really making me confused is all these signs he's giving off. I mean, he says he still likes her but then he goes and gives all this flirting crap towards me and I dunno if it's just because he considers me a very good friend before me being a girl (so he just considers it joking around), or what but it's really confusing me. A lot.
I mean, I've always come off as a, um, slightly violent tomboy-ish person, y'know? So some guys've always treat me differently than some of the more... girly... girls. And I just can't stop obsessing over this because he says one thing and then goes and does something that's the complete opposite of it!
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 8:43 am
Then you need to talk to him about it.
Of course it will be awkward talking to him about it, but you need to find out if he flirts with intention and if he realises he is flirting.
You need to find out his feelings of you and if you feel appropriate, then you can tel him yours.
Even if he does not like you in such a way in return, it may be an idea to tell him, see if he does like you, and never knows, he may never tell you and you may miss out.
You'd have to let him know though that you do not want it to affect your friendship with him, no matter what.
And even if he does not like you in return, then you still need to show that it does not affect your friendship in a bad way, even if it means that you have to ask other girls out for him.
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