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Umm....I thought of this because I turned gay exactly one year ago!

Just tell what made you realize or become Gay or Bi. (or Curious)

ummm.....i have bunch of friends whor gay.

for me....Well some childhood crap I dont feel like talking about >.<

well....when I met this EXTREMELY hot girl at the skating rink I had always thought she was cute....so me and my friends were just hangin out one night and she brings up the subject that her and my other friend Samantha were Gf and Gf at one point in time... So it just made her even hotter...well my friend who is Bi comes up and says he was Bi and we had been telling everyone that I was his girlfriend to keep everyone away from him cause my other friend was going out with him.... well all of a sudden I say I'm Bi and I have no clue why....cause like I had never really thought of it before.... so that's kinda how it happened.... whee

pansexual--that name ish teh kawaii...

uhh...this topic is actually slightly insulting...people dont "become" gay. becoming gay is not a concious choice one makes like "ooh i think i'll like men today!". liking people of the same sex means that you have always had some attraction to them. like, i never noticed it until about a year ago (when i was 14)- i realized that other guys werent capable of judging other men (either that or theyre really a bunch of liars), and i was. then i thought back and realized that i had always shown attraction to males- that isnt to say that i wasnt attracted to females. so that's how i kinda know that i'm bisexual..actually i think calling it bisexual is pointless anyway because it's more of a mindset that you love people regardless of their gender- however, pansexual might be too encompassing (i'd be kinda freaked out by trannies and transvestites or combinations thereof).

I never really put a label on 'what I am'. I don't say I'm bi or straight, or gay. Personally I don't believe in those labels. I believe you don't get to choose who you fall in love with. By labelling yourself you limit the possibilities. That's just me though. ^_^;; I'm a romantic. I first realized I was interested in same-sex relationships when I was about 14. I was doing what 14 year olds tend to do... download porn. XD I came accross lesbian porn and was aroused, and ta-da! Here I am. whee

I WOULD wtahc porn ya know......but this is a family somputer xp

Nothing made me a lesbian. stare It's not like I got up one morning and decided that I wasn't going to be attracted to guys and like girls instead. That's not the way it goes...at least not for a lot of people, including me. Now when I realized I was gay...I can answer that question.

I've never really liked guys in THAT way. I don't know why, I just didn't. A couple of times when I was in elementary school I had crushes...on other girls. At first I thought it was no big deal, until I realized that, according to a lot of people, girls should not like girls. So I made it stop and burried it, making myself forget all about it for quite a long time.

It was when I was fifteen in summer of 2002. I was in my driver's training class and I couldn't keep my eyes off of the most gorgeous girl I had ever seen. Long brown hair, dark, dark brown eyes and a beautiful face. It was then that I finally admitted to myself that I liked girls and was attracted to them. And well, the rest is just history.