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 Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:19 am
I am having A problem.
Some of you seem to make sence of these sort of issues was wondering if you could give me any ideas or any help feeling better?
Vampyes mum is being a right "Thing" at the moment and is really getting on my nerves because no one should treat there daughter like that.
Vampyes mum is being so nasty to her lately its unblieveable that someone could be so nasty to there own daughter and i'm getting extremely annoyed and wanna tell her thats she messing things up and every time vampye seems to go home she comes back up set and i have to clean up the mess thats left.. (thats not a bad thing but it gets to me i'm only human)
Her mum can't be talked to because yuor always wrong no matter what you say.
I have no one else really to talk to and i have no guild and if i did the people there would possably not say anything.
I kept the swearing out just incase you got offended would love a response thank you..
And if any measure is taken out take it out on me and not vampye i needed to get it out.
I NEVER CUT OK I WAS GOING TO BUT I STOPPED MYSELF!
EDIT: Vampy here now. I noticed a couple of you mentioning about the other day when I said about Nathan not letting me around his house when I was upset. I'd like you to know that he is not a bad boyfriend, as a couple of you have seemed to observe him as. I have put other threads in here before, talking about him, and I would rather if you remembered them more than the one time he upset me. Thank you.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:22 am
Ello Vampy's Boyfriend~
Sagey here, the local Muffin Queen o3o
I say she needs to get a restraining order on her mom gonk AND the rest of her family. That's really it.
My great-grandma Nana thinks she's always right even if they're 20 people to say she's wrong. She will say you're wrong anyways. Some people are just so mean and stubborn that they won't try to see eye to eye, but instead will just believe they're right because they have big egos.
Seriously... Restraining Order! Repeat after me xO
Or, you could video tape one of the instances she comes around to harass you guys, catch them unknowingly, and then send it to the police in hopes they'll arrest them. :3
That's about all the advice I can give D:
Just please be there for her.
AND STOP CUTTING YOURSELF D<
Or I will personally go down to wherever you live and smack you myself heart
And always keep Vampy at your side D< Don't refuse her to come to your house! That isn't cool either D:<
She is your girlfriend, so treat her as such! scream
And remember, the PPS -will- find out if you treat her wrong in even the slightest :3
We have connections ninja
Anywho, hope the advice helps <3
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:28 am
Ok the cutting i never cut in the end i was going to but i worked out till i couldn't anymore..
if you must know
and i treat stacey like a girlfriend ok..
and yeah i know i was alittle out of order saying not to come over but i had college the next day and it was 12pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:32 am
Pure Vampyre Ok the cutting i never cut in the end i was going to but i worked out till i couldn't anymore.. if you must know and i treat stacey like a girlfriend ok.. and yeah i know i was alittle out of order saying not to come over but i had college the next day and it was 12pm
I hope you treat her like a girlfriend! evil
I'd be very pissed off if you didn't.
I've had ex-boyfriends (well, boyfriends at the time) pick me up when they lived 40 minutes from my house so I could sleep over at their house because I was upset ;-;
I mean, don't go to that extremity...
But if she needs you, then you must be there for her! crying
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:20 pm
Hello, Vampyre's boyfriend. I'm Chibi, resident advice-giver of the PPS.
First of all, I really must chime in with Asa-chan on this one. :/ It's okay, perfectly natural even, if you were having a bad, stressful day to want some time alone. It is not okay to brush off your girlfriend when she needs you. It's one thing to treat her like a girlfriend, and another to be there for her when she needs you. I'm not saying that you don't treat her right, so please don't misunderstand me. I'm saying that the next time, you might consider being with her no matter what kind of mood you are in. You'd probably be good for each other, you know?
I second the restraining order motion, because at least then her family won't be able to come within a reasonable distance. Also the thought that Vampyre should not be living in that house. Is there any possible way she can move out? Even if she has to live with you at your house, anything that gets her away from that shrew of a parent is way better. Better still would be the two of you moving further away from it all, but I understand if that's not possible.
Offhandedly, the only other thing I can suggest is for Vampyre to not speak to her mother any longer. No matter what that woman says, just don't say anything. But that can be difficult.
I wish both of you luck.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:57 pm
Asashina Ello Vampy's Boyfriend~
Sagey here, the local Muffin Queen o3o
I say she needs to get a restraining order on her mom gonk AND the rest of her family. That's really it.
My great-grandma Nana thinks she's always right even if they're 20 people to say she's wrong. She will say you're wrong anyways. Some people are just so mean and stubborn that they won't try to see eye to eye, but instead will just believe they're right because they have big egos.
Seriously... Restraining Order! Repeat after me xO
Or, you could video tape one of the instances she comes around to harass you guys, catch them unknowingly, and then send it to the police in hopes they'll arrest them. :3
That's about all the advice I can give D:
Just please be there for her.
AND STOP CUTTING YOURSELF D<
Or I will personally go down to wherever you live and smack you myself heart
And always keep Vampy at your side D< Don't refuse her to come to your house! That isn't cool either D:<
She is your girlfriend, so treat her as such! scream
And remember, the PPS -will- find out if you treat her wrong in even the slightest :3
We have connections ninja
Anywho, hope the advice helps <3
xD
I love you. <3
We DO have connections, though. ninja
And 'ello Vampy's boyfriennn.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 1:29 pm
Oh, Vampy D:
I didn't say he was a bad boyfriend x-x; I just meant that it wasn't fair to you to be pushed away like that ._.; And how uncool it was X_x;
I know he's good to you. I've seen the other threads...
But cutting yourself isn't cool no matter who you are Dx And it upsets, like, everyone around you >.<;
Sorry if I upset you, but I'm trying to be as honest as I can D:
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 2:32 pm
Hi! ~
Anyway, I really don't know what to say on this, so I'd like to agree with Chibi and Sagey.
Yeah, especially, no cutting!! D<
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 3:07 pm
And I'm WinerBean the local... uh... Taco.
+D
And I have to agree with everyone else here,
NO CUTTING!
RESTRAINING ORDER!
BE A GOOD TO MEH VAMPEH OR I'LL FIND YOU AND RIP OUT YOUR EYEBALLS AND USE THEM AS JAM ON MY TOAST.
-growls-
I is being protective of my ladies here.
=D
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 6:48 pm
hi, i'm shin, the
local psycho
^.^
i must say, i
agree with all
the above.
Do. Not. Cut.
Ever.
if you feel the
urge to, talk it
out, rather than
bleed it out.
and get a restraining
order, or call the damn
police on vampie's mom.
there's no reason you
or vampie should be
forced to put up with
any of that.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:40 pm
Okay, now that I finally realize where Vampyre's words are coming from [seriously, I was all confused and must have examined the thread twenty times. Finally, I concluded she PMed Asa-chan before realizing that it was in the first post. *facepalm*]. I didn't mean to come across as saying that your boyfriend is a bad guy. I'm sure he's really awesome - it certainly sounds like it, considering the way he has been supporting you. You were just so upset about it, and we wanted to make sure you were, you know, be treated right when you needed it. Asa-chan and I, nor anyone else, didn't mean any harm by it, and we're sorry if that's how it came across.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:14 pm
I'm sorry to hear that, Vampy's boyfriend. My mom is the same way and my fiance has to keep from blowing-up on her, but he just remembers that if he does talk to her about it, it'll make my life even more of a living Hell.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:24 pm
Hello Vampy's lovey hubby. *smacks his head with a roll of newspaper* I am ArtemisII, the local witch
Vampy. You should save that razor or whatever sharp item you used to cut yourself and save it for other people (*thinks bloody thoughts*)
If your boyfriend won't comfort you, ram down his door. OR ditch him and move on.
Restraining order. Use razor on family. (Destroy your moral compass).
Threat: Be good to vampy or I will disemboweled you, castrate you with a jagged, tip-bented dagger and hang you with hook under your backskin to the ceiling. whee ninja
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 2:06 am
Hi and welcommeee. (:
Did I miss something? What's this about cutting and evil mothers?
Seriously. I'm out of the loop.
But, you two should buy a house in the country and live together with horses and sheep.
Okay, maybe not.
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:04 am
ArtemisII Hello Vampy's lovey hubby. *smacks his head with a roll of newspaper* I am ArtemisII, the local witch Vampy. You should save that razor or whatever sharp item you used to cut yourself and save it for other people (*thinks bloody thoughts*) If your boyfriend won't comfort you, ram down his door. OR ditch him and move on. Restraining order. Use razor on family. (Destroy your moral compass). Threat: Be good to vampy or I will disemboweled you, castrate you with a jagged, tip-bented dagger and hang you with hook under your backskin to the ceiling. whee ninja Oww thats a tad harsh...
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