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 Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:25 am
♥
" you guys, i need help. right now im like really sad...
okey heres the problem,
okey so i just want to visit my
best friend (tiffany) profile right. and i
just figured out that shes bisexual,
and so i asked her if she's actually
is and shes like yeah, dont tell any
one. and i swear to god that i wont
tell anyone. and then on monday me
and my friend (abby) were talking and
both of us accidently told both of Tiffany's
2 secret " and my other friend (holly) acc
idently heard, so technically i told 2 ppl
already about her secret. then i immediatly
told tiffany and shes said that "its okey,
everyones goign to figure it out somehow"
and i aske her if she was mad at me and she
said "no its okey smile " on gaia.
now that was like a lonnngg time ago.
then a few days ago she sent me this
pm
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Tiffany: so whats the deal with you telling more than abby about me?
your oviously not a good friend for telling someone something you promised not to tell anyone.
but what did you tell someone ELSE. after you said you WOULDNT. tell anybody else. i dont get that. but correct me if im wrong would ya.
Me: i accidently told her. i asked if she knew about something about you, and shes said
"yeah, she cuts herself" and i said " bisexual" at the same time she said that....i told
holly too. and thats it. i didnt tell anyone else...
im sorry. cry
Tiffany: i really still dont care. cause now probubly the whole school knows. but i dont care anymore i guess. if i could put it on gaia i shouldnt be worried about it going around the school. and you went up to abby about this. why cant you just handle it wwith me. i guess i just dont get why you arent a good friend?
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you guys, i dont know what to do.
i dont want to lose a best friend
over my stupidest mistake ever!
D: can you gusy help me. i really
hate myself!!
-D a n i i e D e e
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 10:40 am
Well, hun, it seems to me that she may think that nobody wants to know but she's probably upset and taking it out on you. It seems like she's bringing up old things to try and make you sad for one reason or another. If this happened a long time ago, then it should be water under the bridge, right?
And anything that she puts on the internet is -going- to be found out, whether it's Myspace of Gaia or even Facebook :/ It just takes time.
That's her fault for putting it up on her profile(s?). If she wanted something to NOT be found out, she shouldn't have put it up to begin with. Friends from my school have found me on Gaia (not like I care), and if you've seen her profile, then others will find her profile. You just sped up the process by sheer accident.
So don't worry about it, hun. She's just taking her frustrations out on you =o= You should remind her of what she previously said (about how she said it was fine), and say that you don't appreciate her bringing up things that were resolved (according to her). Because really, if she had a super huge problem with it, she would've chewed you out as soon as she found out you accidentally spilled. But no, she said it was fine. She's just taking frustrations out on you now... So try not to be sad, okay? <3
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 10:57 am
He destroyed my life...
She needs to know that it is nothing to worry about.
There are LOADS of bi-sexuals, lesbians and gays these days. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
And hardly anything bad can come of it.
When I told my family, because I was tired of keeping it a secret, they kicked me out.
Now only my mum and sister talk to me.
I really doubt anything like that wll happen to her.
And it's not even that bad.
I find it a shame that she seems to be embarased or shamed by it, otherwise she wouldn't mind other people knowing.
You can't take back your words, but you can help her if she ever gets into any sort of trouble because of it.
Now I will destroy him.
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 11:19 am
Sagey and Vampyre are right.
If she is going to be putting it up on her profile on Gaia, then she should be expecting people in real life to find it.
And if she's so ashamed of being a bisexual, then she shouldn't be putting it up on Gaia.
I think she's just taking it out on you, hun.
I wouldn't fret over it so much.
*hug*
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:56 pm
Sagey, Vampyre, and Grinny are all right. Lol. I'm bisexual, and I was nervous when I told my friends, but then I realized how many other girls/guys are bisexual and I didn't worry about it. Just try talking to her about it; don't get angry with her, though. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 2:59 pm
everybody's right.
and...i don't know
what else to say.
neutral
-huggg-
just talk to her,
and try to work
it out.
make sure she
knows that you
said it accidentally
and that you don't
want to lose her
as a friend.
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 7:23 pm
Don't worry, people make mistakes all the time.
She'll realize that people are going to find out anyway.
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:09 pm
*forgot to add this to her post*
Tell us how it goes, okay? :]
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 6:40 am
♥
" thanks you guys, right now im just
thinking what to say to her...help me
out? "
-D a n i i e D e e
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 11:21 am
DaniieDee ♥
" thanks you guys, right now im just
thinking what to say to her...help me
out? "
-D a n i i e D e e
Not sure what to say.. Just say how you feel and how you don't appreciate the crap she's putting you through D:
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 11:31 am
Tell her that you know that you did wrong and were stupid. She trusted you and you didn't keep your promise but you'll never let her down again (You won't, right?). I'm a closet-bi and I know what it'd feel like if someone went blurting it out. (No one from my school is on Gaia, it's kind of an otaku thing here in Finland, and if people know I don't care as long as they don't start picking on me about it) She's afraid of people starting look at her differently after they get to know that she's bi. I think that's a common fear.
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 4:55 pm
♥
" -sighs- alrighty. ill give it a try.
D: wish me luck. "
-D a n i i e D e e
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 11:22 pm
DaniieDee ♥
" -sighs- alrighty. ill give it a try.
D: wish me luck. "
-D a n i i e D e e
Tell us how it goes, okay hun? ;-;
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 1:09 pm
♥
" okey, i sent out the letter but she hasnt
replied...but shes always on myspace..so i think
she wants to ignore me or something...i dont know..
it kinda got worse...i sorta talked to her on myspace.
Me: Im sorry :[
Tiffany: Whatever. now its around the whole damn school
Conversation ended.
then her friend Abby.
Abby: Okey, Why in the hell would tell people about tiffany all this is leading back to you.
me: what? :[ i didnt tell everyone!! i told you and holly remember?? it was an accident. i wouldnt do that tiffany...i cried last night because of it...
conversation ended i think..
okey so when i recieved that comment. i started thinking about everything and i cried about last night on my bed...i actually sobbed like i never did before...i actually thought suicidal that night..i actually think im losing more friends than i thought.....
-H e l l o - D a n i i e
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 5:19 pm
Hello-Daniie ♥
" okey you guys...i guess we arent friends anymore and
theres really nothing we can do...its kinda hard to get use
to it... "
-H e l l o - D a n i i e
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