I'm a 23 year old female and I believe I'm bi - predominately on the female end of it. I'm trying to "work out" what exactly my true preference is and generally get to know myself a little better.

I'm limited in my "quest of knowledge" however as I'm currently in a situation (non-abusive, just limiting) that it would be less than advantageous for me to publicly try to explore my sexuality.

I'm hurting for a little advice or a least thoughts to mull over to help me come to a real conclusion on this very important part of myself so that when I do get to a point where I can publicly be comfortable with myself, I'm already privately comfortable with it and have an idea of "what I want"; so any bits of wisdom or such would be greatly appreciated.

I also realize it might be difficult to take a "n00b" account serious, but I needed to make a new account so that the goal I'm working towards isn't linked to the life I can't show it in. sweatdrop It's a crap reason, but I'm at least trying for myself.