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 Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:21 pm
I know he likes me, but how much? So I've been perfectly fine without a bf and now that he's around and all that jazz... I'm just oh so anxious to be 'with him'. And when he's not with me, I get sad. When he says he has plans, I'm sad. But when I find out his plans were with his ex (cuz she always leaves a "thanks for going to the movies with me" or "oh darn, I left my sweater at your house again" in his myspace comments) it makes me mad. I shouldn't give a s**t cuz we're not dating. But I do. I very much do. So to counter that, to stop feeling so strongly for him, I'm going to go hang out with someone who wants to take me out.
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:40 pm
And I can't get my ex out of my head. WHY!? We had the discussion explaining we would never get together again, we got into a fight so that we probably won't ever be talking to one another anytime soon and I'm still mad for what he did, so what the ********? Why can't I say '******** him'?
There are so many things inside my head that are pissing me off.
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 3:44 pm
And my feeling of being a b***h comes to a peak...
he showed up to my work with my Christmas presents sad and asked me to a movie and what I wanted for dinner and said that he'd go pick up the headlight for my car so he could fix it for me.
So if he likes me enough to do these things, and take me to his families house for Christmas, then why am I making the fact of him hanging with his ex such a big deal? Maybe they are doing other stuff, maybe they're not. Why can't I just take the good feelingness of it all and keep it? Why do I have to do all these 'what if's?
I was thinking about it a while ago and was telling myself 'why do you want him to ask you out so bad?' Because really all that's going to happen is I'm going to say yes and become this annoying nagging, 'I always want to know where you are' type thing, or say no and possibly ruin the chance of him ever asking again. I need a sledgehammer.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 8:40 am
All I can say is maybe he really dose like you,and you should try to give him a chance to see for sure if your feelings for him are the same.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 8:42 am
bunny of wind All I can say is maybe he really dose like you,and you should try to give him a chance to see for sure if your feelings for him are the same.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 9:14 am
Dude, no offense, babe, you know I love you and all, but...
WTF?!?
I hate it when girlfriends get like that!
All my exes ('cept one) are my friends, and we hang out all the time...
Well, we did when I was there, but that's beside the point I'm trying to make...
I love the guys and it annoys me when girls who haven't known them for very long get jealous... Of course, I can only speak for myself, but there's a reason for the EX in front of the word.
I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you that it is much more fun to be a girlfriend when you just chill and let him do his thing. If you worry about it all the time, what's the point?
If you don't trust him, dump him
BUT
If you find him cheating, dump him too!
Keep it simple, no need for an aneurysm, right?
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 9:18 am
Like I said, I don't mind that they hang out, it just felt like he was being sneaky about it because he was like "yeah, I've got plans" and the one time my friend saw him at the movies with his ex, that night he texted me and said something like "I've realized that you're the one I want to be with and not her" and I never said a word about them hanging out so that made me think he was hiding it like he "got caught" and was fessing up before my friend told me. *shrugs*
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 4:43 pm
PukeFacedFreak Like I said, I don't mind that they hang out, it just felt like he was being sneaky about it because he was like "yeah, I've got plans" and the one time my friend saw him at the movies with his ex, that night he texted me and said something like "I've realized that you're the one I want to be with and not her" and I never said a word about them hanging out so that made me think he was hiding it like he "got caught" and was fessing up before my friend told me. *shrugs* LoL! Maybe he was ninja I don't know, I've got a Spidey-sense when it comes to people But only if I can see them... So, unfortunately, I can't help you there...
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 5:58 pm
chuckee PukeFacedFreak Like I said, I don't mind that they hang out, it just felt like he was being sneaky about it because he was like "yeah, I've got plans" and the one time my friend saw him at the movies with his ex, that night he texted me and said something like "I've realized that you're the one I want to be with and not her" and I never said a word about them hanging out so that made me think he was hiding it like he "got caught" and was fessing up before my friend told me. *shrugs* LoL! Maybe he was ninja I don't know, I've got a Spidey-sense when it comes to people But only if I can see them... So, unfortunately, I can't help you there...
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 1:17 am
PukeFacedFreak chuckee PukeFacedFreak Like I said, I don't mind that they hang out, it just felt like he was being sneaky about it because he was like "yeah, I've got plans" and the one time my friend saw him at the movies with his ex, that night he texted me and said something like "I've realized that you're the one I want to be with and not her" and I never said a word about them hanging out so that made me think he was hiding it like he "got caught" and was fessing up before my friend told me. *shrugs* LoL! Maybe he was ninja I don't know, I've got a Spidey-sense when it comes to people But only if I can see them... So, unfortunately, I can't help you there... Yeah, but I have to be able to see them in person... I have to be within a certain proximity to them... Sounds stupid, I know... *sigh*
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