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Renlau

PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 5:27 pm


Hello ^.^

My boyfriend told me on Tuesday that he kissed another girl. I talked to him about it and the story is that he was over her house playing Wii because they are good friends. I know she liked him because she always was saying how lucky I am and how wonderful he is. He knew this also but still tried to be friends but explained to her that nothing will ever happen between she and him and that he loves me very much.
Well she kisses him on the cheek , he said it was a " friendship" kiss
and he went to kiss her back (#@%& WTF!!) and she apparently turned her head and he kissed her on the mouth. After this he tells me he got mad at her and she said it was a accident.
He was yelled at by a friend to tell me and I know he still loves me ...
the girl I found out was posing as a random person who kept harassing me online and appologized for treating me so horribly and I know she only did it for him ...
He is so sad and when I talked to a friend of his she said that he said that he made the biggest mistake of his life and now hes ruined the best thing in his life...
What do you think I should do?!
I need help! Please help !
PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:18 pm


If I were in your shoes, I would give him a second chance..her..not so much. Let him know you forgive him, but there wont be any more chances after this. And he needs to regain your trust by only hanging out with the said girl when in groups or around you..at least until that trust is rebuilt. Any screwing up in that will count against his last chance.

She, I would definitely avoid when possible. I dont think it would be fair to forbid him from seeing her...but be very clear with him about how suspicious them hanging out would be after this. He may be trustworthy..but she clearly is not.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 1:59 am


You still trust him, right? And you still love him, right?
If you do, then I think he deserves a second chance, I mean, he didn't do it deliberatly.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:27 am




:[ wow...man anyway.
i would actually give
him a second chance
and the girl. just leave
her alone...you are already
making her mad by having
your man ;D

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:47 am


User ImageGrin Evilly says:


3nodding I agree with everyone above.
I think he deserves a second chance, but make sure he only hangs out with the girl when he's in a group or when you're around.
And if he screws up again, he's not worth it, hun.
:[


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