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 Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2005 6:56 pm
I think my bro might be into porn... and I dont know what to do... Should I tell my parents?? or should I talk to him myself?? or should I just ignore it?? Please comment!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2005 9:12 pm
well, don't ignore it. That's just not very smart. If you have a good relationship with your brother than talk to him. But if not, than you should talk to your parents. Unless he isn't very close to your parents. If it's just the "typical" relationship between parents/teenage son than you should probably talk to a trusted adult. Like a youth pastor or the such. But definately DO NOT IGNORE IT!
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 8:19 am
Thanx... I didnt really plan on ignoring it but idk there's really no one i can tell other then my parents... cuz my bro literally HATES my youth pastor so that wouldnt do much good... but Im kinda afread of what will happen if I tell my parents and Im pretty sure that my bro will just say that he's not... even tho I have proof... idk I guess I'll have to talk to my mom and hope everything will turn out...
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 9:18 pm
i hate it when that happens
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 1:45 am
Talking to your parents would be the best option. Another one would be to hunt down his porn if you know what it is and take it to your parents and tell them where you found it so that they can take care of it their way.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 2:17 pm
thing is... it's on the computer... im the only one who is nosey enough to look at my bro's downloads... i guess my nosey-ness might just pay off... idk lol
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 2:39 pm
Well think about it, how is your brother going to react is he going to listen to you? Is he more likely to listen to listen to your parents? You want to do what is likely to have the most impact, and not make things worse, so whoever you decide to talk to I'd work out what you are planning to say first that way it should work out with the least amount of fights and objection.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 4:44 pm
Don't talk to your brother yourself. Tell your parents. If they are Christians, they will do the right thing and take care of the problem with all wisdom and consideration. They love your brother, and would more than likely like to know if something is wrong.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 6:53 pm
I know that I should talk to my parents but Im more afread on the effect it will have on my mom... you see problums with my bro have been going on for like 3 years... he was into drugs then drinking now this... it's really killing my mom... her health isnt the greatest and idk it kinda scares me... my dad wont handle it right if I tell just him and I dont want to worry my grandparents... My bro and I have a pretty good relationship but I had to bust him ones on the drug stuff and it didnt end up the greatest... yeah he stopped for a bit... like he did every time but he went right back into it... Im afread that even if i do tell my mom he'll just go back into it... he gets better at hiding things everytime he's caught... plus I dont want to lose the relationship that I have with him... Idk it's confusing crying
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Posted: Tue Aug 16, 2005 5:48 pm
You know what you have to do. It might not be what I told you to do, but you know what you have to do.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2005 11:39 am
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Posted: Sat Aug 20, 2005 2:28 pm
Yu need to tell the person who will be able to have the most impact on your brother, and is a Christian. This may be you, or it may be someone else, you know the answer, not me. Start off my praying for him and asking God what to do. He answers prayer, He'll help you out. In the meantime I will pray for you and your bro and family and all those involved. Trust in God and everything will turn out alright!
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Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2005 1:36 pm
Thanx biggrin we need prayer that's for sure!!
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Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2005 3:18 pm
Be sure to give us a report as to how your brother is doing
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 9:39 am
I would not ignore it that is for sure but like DaNcErCuTeE4God said if you have good relationship with your brother then talk to him. But either way I would tell your parents because that is seriouse. I hope this helps. Good luke
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