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 Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:50 pm
I haven't been here, in ages. ftw. ;o;
How are you all?
Where has all the old wishing well whores been to? ;3;
I’m here with a problem. Help me? Or if not, scold me or comfort me. D:
I have a best friend, we were friends since we were 2 years old, but then we were separated for 13 years, because I had to move, but just this year I came back, and we were really close. But today at school, I went up to her to give her a hug, but she pushed me away and walked off. I was like. O-O
I thought she was just playing with me. But she ignored me the whole day, and she just walked past me, and went onto the bus we were suppose to be on together.
Yeah, I'm pissed.
I also found out that her boyfriend thinks she is mad at him as well. He broke up with her yesterday, and yesterday she told me that she didn't care about it.
Was she pissed at me for hanging out with him the whole day with him?
I'm guessing this is my fault. And I'll do anything just to talk to her again. But she holds grudges for along time. She once didn't talk to her dad for 3 months. She’s stubborn and has a bad temper.
I told my mom about her getting trouble with her parents because of her boyfriend and friends, at first I thought her parents knew about her boyfriend as well, so I told my mom about it. I didn't think my uncle would tell the parents. D:
But my aunt said my uncle didn't tell her parents.
My head hurts and I feel like crying in the corner. My friends comforted me, and told me since I'm one of her closest friends, I shouldn't be worry since she'll forgive me. Again I don’t know why she’s angry at me.
I would ask, but she is scary when she’s mad, and wouldn’t tell me when I asked what was wrong.
Apologizing to her would be hard since I don’t know what I’m apologizing for.
I'm an easy person to be with, I never made a friend really pissed like this. I’m one of those people who never have fights with their friends, only the kind of person who tries to stop it.
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:42 pm
Eh. She was probably just having a bad day and took it out on you. I'm sure she'll apologize. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:00 pm
Oh man, that's harsh.
I had a friend who didn't talk to me for a really long time even though we were super close throughout middle school and a small portion of high school. Now we don't talk at all.. but I don't mind since I have better peers.
I have a childhood friend.. we knew each other since we were infants.. We didn't really talk after I moved (just a few visits a year) but we started talking more thanks to AIM and now we're closer than ever.. since I drive and we actually make an effort to meet up. We did get in a lot of fights though and made up within a few days.. Except he's a guy. D:
But if you guys are really goood friends, she'll back off the anger grudge train in less than 3 months. No offense, but it's kinda petty to be pissed at a a friend for hanging out with her ex-boyfriend if she claimed that she didn't care. Not everyone can read everyone's minds nor can life go the way they want. If she has another reason as to why she's mad at you, you'll eventually find out.. communication is important.. as well as space.
On another note, long time no see, Jiinifer ;D <333
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Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 8:07 am
DD: I hope you guys will resolve this!
I had a friend and we were really close even though I didn't like many aspects of her personality, but we were still close.
but we're not friends anymore and I don't know exactly how I feel about it D:
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Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 4:55 pm
Toka! mrgreen domokun
I hope you guys will overcome this and be friends again sad . I've had a best friend that I was super close with all throughout elementary school and first year high school, but we've slowly drifted apart. We still really care for one another even though we don't see much of each other. We've had disagreements and a few fights, but we're still best friends.
I hope some pie will help remedy the situation biggrin
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:29 pm
long time no see toka!
sorry this is a bit late, and I hope you've already resolved the problem. *hugs*
nothing you can do but wait it out a bit. I'd hang back for a couple days and if she's still ignoring you, try talking to her again. write her a note or something if she won't talk to you. if she still cares about you, she'll at least take the time to read it. <3 good luck!
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somethingtrue Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:12 pm
Maybe she was just having on of those days and you just got the brunt of it. I'd love to be all understanding, but all I an really say (and hope it helps) is that some times people have their own problems and you just have to let them get on with it and sort it out in their own heads and accept that it's out of your hands.
I'm so terrible at advice
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