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 Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 8:53 pm
So, i was wondering if me and my female friend (both Christians) could have have sexual... practice. Such as oral sex, and ect. But would it be considered a sin, sense we are not married. it isn't "sex" but is it a sin?
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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 9:15 pm
Honestly, would God think that it's right?
Our bodies are a temple of God. I seriously doubt that he would want them exploited to the corruption of casual sex, but.........Just think about it. It's not my decision; I pray you find what you feel is right. I'll leave you with that.....
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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 10:14 pm
maplestoryjunky Honestly, would God think that it's right? Our bodies are a temple of God. I seriously doubt that he would want them exploited to the corruption of casual sex, but.........Just think about it. It's not my decision; I pray you find what you feel is right. I'll leave you with that..... yea i see... if it came down to it... just to be careful, i prolly wouldn't do it. thanks btw- your the one that answers all my questions... this is a mule
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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 10:54 pm
i personally say it is a sin...while no oral sex isn't something mentioned directly in the Bible, we are told to stay away from sexual immorality and to keep our bodies pure.
oral sex is still a form of sex...other wise for one thing it wouldn't still have the name sex in it. but think of it this way. what is the main purpose behind your doing the action? is it not selfish reasons so that you .... and her i presume....can feel a pleasure to fill a desire of your flesh? and in that case is not selfish behavior a sin in and of its self? Jesus also told us about lusting after the opposite sex...or same really....is still a form of adultery and the whole point of oral sex is to fill a lust that has invaded your mind and bodily desire. it's still a sexual action in the end and sex is specifically to be done between a man and wife. if it outside of that context then yes, by God's word, it is a sin.
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:21 am
Christ only condemned lust as being "adultery of the heart." It is impossible, by this definition, to commit sin through lust if you lust after someone when neither of you are married.
How does one classify marriage? If one and their love are in a place that can't provide for marriages, what can you do if you want to settle down with one another? Would you be married if you committed to each other?
Premarital sex shouldn't be considered a blanket sin, I think. I do believe that there definitely are situations where it would be sinful and vice versa. Consider the particulars of one's own case before you deny the fulfillment of what is a psychological need for most humans.
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:24 am
Vendition maplestoryjunky Honestly, would God think that it's right? Our bodies are a temple of God. I seriously doubt that he would want them exploited to the corruption of casual sex, but.........Just think about it. It's not my decision; I pray you find what you feel is right. I'll leave you with that..... yea i see... if it came down to it... just to be careful, i prolly wouldn't do it. thanks btw- your the one that answers all my questions... this is a mule Ehehe, gee, thanks. xd
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 6:49 pm
Vendition So, i was wondering if me and my female friend (both Christians) could have have sexual... practice. Such as oral sex, and ect. But would it be considered a sin, sense we are not married. it isn't "sex" but is it a sin? HELLO!!! Oral sex IS sex, that's why it has the word SEX in it......yes, I do think it's wrong and it's disgusting. Why the heck would you even want to put your mouth anywhere near the other person's private areas anyway??? NASTY!!! ewwww.....gross. You do not need to "practice" any kind of sex. You'll be perfectly fine when you get married. It's already programed into our DNA to know how to do it so there is no need to worry. Abstinence is the best way to go. Sex creates a bond with both souls whether you want it to or not, God made it that way, and when you do stuff like that it tears away at your soul and pretty soon you'll have nothing left to offer, then what's left of you? It's like a crappy hand-me-down, pretty soon no one will want it because it's so old, out of style and a bunch of ppl have already used it
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 7:05 pm
ask the lady at the well
stay safe and stay clean
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 11:18 pm
etchedspirit HELLO!!! Oral sex IS sex, that's why it has the word SEX in it......yes, I do think it's wrong and it's disgusting. Oral sex is oral sex. Vaginal sex is vaginal sex. Hay acciónes totalmente differente. Quote: Why the heck would you even want to put your mouth anywhere near the other person's private areas anyway??? Because it gives me pleasure to give her pleasure. Savvy? Quote: NASTY!!! ewwww.....gross. Only if you're doing it before they've showered or something. You are obviously inexperienced. Quote: You do not need to "practice" any kind of sex. Sex really seems to be a psychological need for many people, so I would disagree. Quote: You'll be perfectly fine when you get married. Yeah, if the other person waited for marriage too. If not, you're at risk. Quote: It's already programed into our DNA to know how to do it so there is no need to worry. Or need to wait. Quote: Abstinence is the best way to go. Psychologically, I think it depends on the person. Quote: Sex creates a bond with both souls whether you want it to or not, God made it that way, and when you do stuff like that it tears away at your soul and pretty soon you'll have nothing left to offer, then what's left of you? When does it tear away? When I'm kissing her passionately or putting the ring on her finger 6 months after our encounter or when our kid is giggling about his first toy? When? Quote: It's like a crappy hand-me-down, pretty soon no one will want it because it's so old, out of style and a bunch of ppl have already used it I would hardly think that non-virgins are like crappy hand-me-downs.
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 8:46 am
Aside from all that, it's still premarital sex.  Its against the law, theres the risk of getting STD's, or getting pregnant, and God wouldn't be happy with it. I'm not speaking for Him when I say that, but just think: wouldn't He be upset with the person who didn't make/keep a vow of marriage with that person? That's why he gave us the gift of intercourse; to share it with the love of our life.
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:18 am
Which law? Where? Quote: theres the risk of getting STD's Not if you're smart about it. Well, God isn't happy for new children? And if it would really be a problem, then abortion exists for us. Since "The life of a living body is in the blood" (Leviticus 17:11), God should not have a problem with abortion until 5-6 weeks of pregnancy has occurred, for that is when the child first has blood in its veins. The pill is certainly an option. Quote: God wouldn't be happy with it. I'm not speaking for Him This seems to be quite the contradictory set. Quote: wouldn't He be upset with the person who didn't make/keep a vow of marriage with that person? And if the vow is made before actual marriage occurs? Is the sex okay then? Quote: That's why he gave us the gift of intercourse; to share it with the love of our life. "Let the marriage bed be undefiled" (Hebrews 13:6), but this says nothing to those who are committed to one another before marriage.
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:29 am
maplestoryjunky Aside from all that, it's still premarital sex. Its against the law, theres the risk of getting STD's, or getting pregnant, and God wouldn't be happy with it. I'm not speaking for Him when I say that, but just think: wouldn't He be upset with the person who didn't make/keep a vow of marriage with that person? That's why he gave us the gift of intercourse; to share it with the love of our life. did you ever ask why such laws just kinda appear out of nowhere in history? think about it m8 back in the day people were collecting stuff (mostly to servive) we call that stuff property and what happens to the property of someone who is dead it passes to the next of kin (back in the day only from father to son usualy firt born) so the only reason verginity (the new deffinition not the old) carries any weight at all is because that was the only way to make sure it was your kid also note we can durrive FGC (perhaps with one slight exeption) from the same purpous (MGC is entirly heath related but we jews must have our fun so we make a big deal about it) thats it end of story side note: IcarusDream, well said my friend edit: somewere there is a part about not being alive untill God breaths life into said person some people use those words to diffine life begining after their first breath personaly I would say life starts around the 7th of 9 months its the time when the nurvus system is starting to develop to the point where the brain could register pain and thus has a real personal investment in life before then the child would be an investment of the rents
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:33 am
etchedspirit Vendition So, i was wondering if me and my female friend (both Christians) could have have sexual... practice. Such as oral sex, and ect. But would it be considered a sin, sense we are not married. it isn't "sex" but is it a sin? HELLO!!! Oral sex IS sex, that's why it has the word SEX in it......yes, I do think it's wrong and it's disgusting. Why the heck would you even want to put your mouth anywhere near the other person's private areas anyway??? NASTY!!! ewwww.....gross. You do not need to "practice" any kind of sex. You'll be perfectly fine when you get married. It's already programed into our DNA to know how to do it so there is no need to worry. Abstinence is the best way to go. Sex creates a bond with both souls whether you want it to or not, God made it that way, and when you do stuff like that it tears away at your soul and pretty soon you'll have nothing left to offer, then what's left of you? It's like a crappy hand-me-down, pretty soon no one will want it because it's so old, out of style and a bunch of ppl have already used it so if i call it a b*****b that makes it not a sin?
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:45 am
oral, a**l, and the other kind that i cant think of right now are all follow by the word "sex". which indicates that they are forms of sex. therefore making it a sin. which means, no you shouldnt do it until your marry. just pray to God to help you resist these temptations and ask Him for strength. im praying for you.
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 12:08 pm
sunshinehearttrob oral, a**l, and the other kind that i cant think of right now are all follow by the word "sex". which indicates that they are forms of sex. therefore making it a sin. Since when was sex a sin?. Prostitution was legal under the Mosaic Law, and that doesn't really seem to change anywhere in the New Testament. The Old Testament didn't look kindly on prostitutes, as you were not supposed to raise your daughter to be one, but as long as those non-virgins didn't marry, there was nothing wrong with it. Quote: which means, no you shouldnt do it until your marry. According to what verse or law?
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