| Do you think you will find that special someone and that ideal relationship? |
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 Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 6:44 pm
i have the great misfortune in only dating complete jerks.....i have been cheated on, lied to, and just thoroughly messed with. However I do know what a perfect relationship is to me.....Wat is your idea of a perfect relationship? heart
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 6:55 pm
my idea of a perfect relationship is to be with someone i love who loves me back...without anyone caring about it, that when were together were all that matters... kinky stuff would be obviously nice, but not totally necessary... whoever and i could see each other easily, not have to wait or travel a long time to see each other... we could enjoy romantic stuff together, talk, cuddle, watch anime, just lay down and listen to music... i wish i really did have a relationship so nice
EDIT!! ::: someone who isnt ashamed of me, maybe would take me to meet their parents(again not so necessary), that we could just enjoy alot of things together and let time fly by... just the two of us
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 7:00 pm
my perfect realationship...is with someone who loves me and wants me...like rip off your clothes throw you on the bed want...he would be someone i trust and get along with. someone i wouldn't be afraid to rely on. he would also be someone i could hang with all the time..
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 7:49 pm
Ozomatli my perfect realationship...is with someone who loves me and wants me...like rip off your clothes throw you on the bed want...he would be someone i trust and get along with. someone i wouldn't be afraid to rely on. he would also be someone i could hang with all the time.. I agrre with you. I want someone who loves me but who slightly loves my bod more. lol heart
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 9:01 pm
Yeah .... I don't think I'd want those things ... I wouldn't want a perfect relationship. I couldn't handle the stress of being perfect, nor could the relationship either. Plus I'd be ******** bored as hell.... I need a lil' excitement, a little stress. I my mind .... if I'm so comfortable with it then I don't have the fear of losing it ... then obviously I don't want it anymore....
I'm a pretty mean a** person and no perfect relationship could handle me. I'd want to be with someone as wonderfully flawed as I with enough self confidence to handle my insensitive humor. Plus they'd have to be attractive ... of equal attractiveness or slightly lower.... cause GOSH Darn it I have to be the PRETTY ONE!!
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 11:22 pm
Ozomatli my perfect realationship...is with someone who loves me and wants me...like rip off your clothes throw you on the bed want...he would be someone i trust and get along with. someone i wouldn't be afraid to rely on. he would also be someone i could hang with all the time.. i ******** agree. end of discussion.(damn dont fricking forget the looks, you gotta find som1 wit the looks!)
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Posted: Sat Dec 04, 2004 2:19 pm
My perfect relationship would be with someone who respects and loves me, and whom I love and respect. Someone I feel comfortable around, and who trusts me as much as I trust them. It would be someone who makes me smile every time I think of him or her.
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2004 2:06 pm
Let's be honest, who doesn't want love? So saying that as the pre-requisite. What else do I want?
I do not want to be respected. Then you get boyscout partners who don't want to ouch you because they "respect you too much".
I need to be touched to live, so anyone I end up with has got to be physically affectionate 24/7.
Repulsion of clothing is always good.
They have to be intelligent. I'm a 15 yr old senior in an advanced highschool. I can't deal with stupid people on a regular basis without someone losing blood.
So yeah: love, affection, intelligence, good sex. twisted Hell I could live without the other three if there's good sex....
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2004 6:08 pm
Silvander I do not want to be respected. Then you get boyscout partners who don't want to ouch you because they "respect you too much". I need to be touched to live, so anyone I end up with has got to be physically affectionate 24/7. I'm confused...you don't mind if whoever you end up being with starts hitting you? That's disrespect. Someone can respect and love another - they can still be intimate, but they will respect each others' wishes. A relationship without respect won't go very far.
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 10:36 am
It has to be love (butterflys in my tummy)
everything else doesn't matter
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 11:56 am
Black_Rain Yeah .... I don't think I'd want those things ... I wouldn't want a perfect relationship. I couldn't handle the stress of being perfect, nor could the relationship either. Plus I'd be ******** bored as hell.... I need a lil' excitement, a little stress. I my mind .... if I'm so comfortable with it then I don't have the fear of losing it ... then obviously I don't want it anymore.... I'm a pretty mean a** person and no perfect relationship could handle me. I'd want to be with someone as wonderfully flawed as I with enough self confidence to handle my insensitive humor. Plus they'd have to be attractive ... of equal attractiveness or slightly lower.... cause GOSH Darn it I have to be the PRETTY ONE!! I agree. I don't like perfectness, there has to be some flaw, I have to be able to argue and nag on him/her at times. Perfection means boredom in my eyes =/ If all's well all the time, I'll get bored and lose my interest in my honey and dump him/her. It has happened before! O_O I do have to feel comfertable in a relationship, just be myself.
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 9:56 am
obviously everyone wants something diff. even if its just a slight change.
i dont think there could ever be a perfect relationship, but something you would like, even if you dont get it all from that person, you would still love them for giving you most of what you want. but even how important a relationship is varies from person to person. some people might have week-long relationships just for the hell of it, no love involved or anything, pretty much just ********. others might consider a relationship to be extremly important (like me) and would like it to last as long as it can, if not forever... people who actually feel strongly for the other person at the least.
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 5:04 pm
My perfect relationship would be pretty close to what I have right now. SOmeone who tells me I look great, (even though I know I don't) And always makes me feel special. Someone who can make a joke about something that isnt normally jokes about.... SOmeone who does ghet depressed and need shelp every now and then (What..You thionk I want to date super human or something like that? pfft.) Also...I'd love to be with someone who has been through as much s**t as I have....ANd last they would live close... (My boyfriend lives in another country...I hate it gonk )
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 5:07 pm
renegade_emo ANd last they would live close... (My boyfriend lives in another country...I hate it gonk ) I can't do long distance relationships.... you're certainly a trooper. I'm not sure I trust anyone that much .... 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 5:11 pm
Black_Rain renegade_emo ANd last they would live close... (My boyfriend lives in another country...I hate it gonk ) I can't do long distance relationships.... you're certainly a trooper. I'm not sure I trust anyone that much .... 3nodding Well....I'm sortof afraid of guys when it comes to close up relaionships sweatdrop
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