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Boys are icky
yes indeed
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only most of the time
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AmmonSuperCombo
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 2:51 pm


Girls, post questions about guys and hopefully they will be kind enough to assist you by answering them. Other girls can also help you because they might be able to explain it better than we can...
PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 6:00 pm


What are some good qualities you guys look for in us girls?

ChibiWawa


panzer45
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 6:13 pm


me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile
PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 10:15 am


i agree with panzer, a girl who makes me laugh, but who knows when it is time to be serious. They also just have to be nice, to my family and friends, even if they dont like them!!!

Fejj


Lebia

Partying Rogue

PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 2:17 pm


panzer45
me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile

Can't any of your male friends do that too?
PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 6:49 pm


Lebia
panzer45
me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile

Can't any of your male friends do that too?

Yes, but they don't look as good in a skirt.

In answer to the original question (and I think I can speak for most guys when I say this), I like to feel needed but not have the girl be obsessive. Cliche, I know, but it's true.

I could probably list off a hundred other things all guys look for, and a hundred more specific to myself, but I actually think it's irrelevant. While I refuse to use the term "just be yourself," the basic principle behind the oft-uttered advice is sound. I suppose a more accurate bite of wisdom would be to say that trying to be something you're not will fail and make you look like a moron every time. Not because you're not being true to yourself, but because you have no practice. Trust me, you'll screw it up. And don't worry about changing certain things about yourself, unless they're gaping social flaws. There are a million things on every guy's list, but you only have to fill a few of them.

Oh, and don't go out with us only to be as frigid and asexual as possible. I think that if I ask you out and you say yes, I'm entitled to put my arm on your shoulder.

Nadils Head


jbs2763

PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 7:53 pm


what do i look for in a gurl....

nice, sweet, pretty(we all have our own opinion of that), honest, not evil, loving, not a pyschotic mental hospital escapee, etc etc etc


but if i could order one....5'2-5'5, blonde hair, big brown eyes, 110# and comes equipt with a pickup truck and CDL xd
PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 8:51 pm


Nadils Head
Lebia
panzer45
me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile

Can't any of your male friends do that too?

Yes, but they don't look as good in a skirt.


My point is, doesn't anybody value friendship anymore? You should be looking for a "significant other" To enrich your life not fill a void.

Lebia

Partying Rogue


ScarredImage

PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 9:07 pm


Ok so...this one has a lot to do with my personal life but I'm gonna condense this to a one sentence question and hope I don't have to explain every pain-staking detail hehe. So, question: My boyfriend has been very very very loving to me, always trying to make me feel like he loves me, and I just found out today (which happens to be our three month anniversary) that he's STILL being a player, aka has a crush on at least two of my friends and probably 5 other girls I don't know; what do I do?! (yes...i know that probably exceeds one sentence. sorry!)
He promised me he wouldn't be like this, he's out working for a few days now and my friend just came up to me and said, "I just want you to know, please don't be mad at me, that *** said he had a crush on me...he said he wouldn't leave you for me, but still....I don't really like the fact that he said that. And didn't you say he considered your best friend just a week ago? Be careful, ok?" I just can't believe this! *sigh* I want to break up with him, to just free myself of all this crap and go back to my ex (long story), I just want to feel safe and loved in a relationship again cry That so wrong?
So...advice?
PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 9:19 am


Nadils Head
Lebia
panzer45
me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile

Can't any of your male friends do that too?

Yes, but they don't look as good in a skirt.

xd so true... and i know a picture that is proof *grins evil like at panzer* twisted blaugh

Me:
good personality
likes to laugh and smile
makes me want to be a better person
likes me for who i am
cute=optional but a bonus

ChivalrysRevival
Captain


ChivalrysRevival
Captain

PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 9:21 am


ScarredImage
Ok so...this one has a lot to do with my personal life but I'm gonna condense this to a one sentence question and hope I don't have to explain every pain-staking detail hehe. So, question: My boyfriend has been very very very loving to me, always trying to make me feel like he loves me, and I just found out today (which happens to be our three month anniversary) that he's STILL being a player, aka has a crush on at least two of my friends and probably 5 other girls I don't know; what do I do?! (yes...i know that probably exceeds one sentence. sorry!)
He promised me he wouldn't be like this, he's out working for a few days now and my friend just came up to me and said, "I just want you to know, please don't be mad at me, that *** said he had a crush on me...he said he wouldn't leave you for me, but still....I don't really like the fact that he said that. And didn't you say he considered your best friend just a week ago? Be careful, ok?" I just can't believe this! *sigh* I want to break up with him, to just free myself of all this crap and go back to my ex (long story), I just want to feel safe and loved in a relationship again cry That so wrong?
So...advice?
kick him in the balls and be done with it. do it hard so his kids are midgets. thats the advice i give most people in your situation. you are better than that and you will find someone who will treat you how you should be treated.
PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:43 am


Hahahahha awwwww thank you. redface I've actually...never...been told I deserve better. That really made me smile for the first time since I found out. Thank you! xd

ScarredImage


panzer45
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:45 am


ChivalrysRevival
Nadils Head
Lebia
panzer45
me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile

Can't any of your male friends do that too?

Yes, but they don't look as good in a skirt.

xd so true... and i know a picture that is proof *grins evil like at panzer* twisted blaugh

Me:
good personality
likes to laugh and smile
makes me want to be a better person
likes me for who i am
cute=optional but a bonus

how can you say i didn't look good in that?
i think it was one of my best shots ever sweatdrop
and CR is right make him have midget kids, you deserve better heart
PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 11:18 am


panzer45
ChivalrysRevival
Nadils Head
Lebia
panzer45
me personally
i need a girl who can cheer me up when i'm down
and make me smile

Can't any of your male friends do that too?

Yes, but they don't look as good in a skirt.

xd so true... and i know a picture that is proof *grins evil like at panzer* twisted blaugh

Me:
good personality
likes to laugh and smile
makes me want to be a better person
likes me for who i am
cute=optional but a bonus

how can you say i didn't look good in that?
i think it was one of my best shots ever sweatdrop
and CR is right make him have midget kids, you deserve better heart
well the it was kinda flattering but i wouldnt call a picture of me in my sisters tutu my best...

i'm glad i culd make you smile! and its true. you shouldnt stand for it. next time something go off on him and see what happens. if he leaves, he wasnt worth the time of day anyway. if he stops, go you! if he apologizes but does it again, me and my "little bro" can take care of it from there twisted

... alright so he's 6'7" and built like a tank but he's still my little bro!

AmmonSuperCombo
Vice Captain


ScarredImage

PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 1:44 pm


hahahaha. Holy crap 6'7 is taaaaaaall. I thought my "bf" was tall (he's 5'11 1/2 I think). Dang...
Ner, I wish there were some good guys I could hang out with that weren't on a computer.
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