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 Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 5:37 am
At Angelic_Highlights's request. a new thread
o.k.
I'm 22 now.
She's 15 going to be 16 in a few weeks time.
We Live practicly on the opposite sides of the world
Me = UK
Her = US State of Washington.
We met here on Gaia shortly After i first joined. so it's bene about 2 years give or take a few weeks since we met in a fishing room randomly.
Our relationship grew and everything was fine until early May.
She said she'd talk to me on the following Monday That was Thursday Marth 8th. the last time i heard from her at all.
Then i waited that monday but she didn't log on.
over the next few months I sent her several E-Mails because she's been known to disappear off-line for a month or 2 at a time.
She finlly replied to one of my E-mails just 4 days before my 22nd birthday.
It turns out that she was going to come over to England. I knew that there was talk for a trip but she never really told me anything about it.
It was for her to visit to see some of her family during August.
But her E-Mail's (she sent me about 3 which didn't explain much) she said that she'd asked me if she could spend a couple of day's staying here at mine. (well my parents).
She also said that I brushed off her question when she asked me
But here's the thing. She never asked me. i checked my IM logs with her.
She also said on top of that, that she'd been crying and getting upset because she thought i'd ignored the question. i thought she would have known that i would not have brushed off something like that.
But since i was never asked i don't know what my reaction would have really been.
She offered to talk to me about it properly on IM's i think. But she hasn't yet talked to me to discuss it.
She also said that in the few months that she'd not talked to me she felt she had found someone else to hang with offline.
I know she's not 16 yet and i would never do anything wrong.
I can't get her out of my head because i'm still in love. I don't know when she will be back home so that she can log on again. I don't blame her for not asking me. i believe that ishould have seen it.
But when she disappeared like that i got worried. I also hope from a personal point of view that this new person she's hanging with is not that great.
If she has really dumped me. i would like to know. Because i've been left hanging since March the 8th. Back then everything was fine. I just don't know what to do any more.
I just wish she would come back or at least give me closure on what was a good relationship.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 8:36 am
if shes not answering your email shes probely dumped u,even if she has not dump her for leaving u hang u have been waiing ages and shes to young hope this helps byexx
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 8:44 am
Well right now she's not answering bececause she's not at home.
And it's not as simple as she dumped me hence why she's not talking to me.
i thought i had explaind that
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 8:48 am
he pulls on her wires; To be entirely honest, if she doesn't have the decency to stay in touch with you (or let you know she's going away,) then you're better off without her.
My advice is to try and stop emailing her as much; sit down and plan one email, in which you ask her what's going on and why she hasn't been around. Explain to her that she didn't ask you if she could come and stay with you, and also how much she means to you.
Tell her that you don't know where you stand; and if she doesn't tell you, or what she says compromises your worth (i.e. hang around until I figure out if this offline guy is better than you or not,) then leave her and do your best to move on.
Good luck! she jerks to attention.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 8:52 am
Somone else who didn't read what i said. just jumped in and asumed.
She's away and i can't talk to her when she's not there to talk to.
like i said. i knew she was going away. but then her actuly going she didn't tell me untill she replied to me.
That's how this whole thing started. She got upset because she thought she had asked me somthing.
I wish you would read what i said properly.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 8:56 am
he pulls on her wires; I did read it properly, thank you very much.
Though your way of explaining was pretty vague.. -__-;
I don't know what you're hoping to get from random Gaians, but you need to talk to her.
Exchanging phone numbers could be a good plan.
But really.. If she disappears without even telling you, she's not worth it.
(Even if she does, on other occasions, warn you a day beforehand.) she jerks to attention.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 9:09 am
I guess just try to talk to her about it, something does seem up though, but try to keep it going
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 9:42 am
As i keep pointing out it's hard to talk to someone who's not at home at the moment.
As for random gaians i'm not asking anything.
M U R D E R O T I C you really don't seem to know what your talking about!
She disappeared because she was upset. Can you possibly comprehend that?
when that happens someone doesn't need to tell you. You've obviously not had a broken relationship ever.
Bronze L yes i know to keep trying to talk to her. someone already said that. but i can't do that until she gets home.
oh and M U R D E R O T I C You don't know what she's worth! Because she's worth a lot more to me than you could understand.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:13 am
From my own opinion, I'd suggest you sit down and think about this relationship. Then, write a e-mail letter asking your girlfriend to talk to you on AIM (or whatever instant messaging system you use.) I do understand it is hard to talk to someone who's not home all the time. If you haven't already, send her your cell phone number if you are comfortable with that, as well as she.
If she keeps disappearing because she's upset, then she may need help. That may explain the need for the new person; a shoulder to lean on. You also have to keep this in mind; sometimes long distance relationships don't work.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:35 am
Lyss The One In The Back From my own opinion, I'd suggest you sit down and think about this relationship. Then, write a e-mail letter asking your girlfriend to talk to you on AIM (or whatever instant messaging system you use.) I do understand it is hard to talk to someone who's not home all the time. If you haven't already, send her your cell phone number if you are comfortable with that, as well as she.
If she keeps disappearing because she's upset, then she may need help. That may explain the need for the new person; a shoulder to lean on. You also have to keep this in mind; sometimes long distance relationships don't work. Thanks. But let me fill you in on a little more. She doesn't keep disappearing because she's upset. she disappeared for 4 months because she was upset. She's been known to disappear for a month or 2 before. but everyone gets busy from time to time. But your probably right about having a shoulder to lean on. i hadn't considered sending her my Mobile number. but it's never really occurred to me before. I was going to tell her before she disappeared that i don't mind her having a relationship with someone else over there. As long as she tells me that she is does actually let me know and that she still talks to me. I know it's a long way away. but right now she's visiting family over here. i have no idea where. or when she's going to go home. So all i can do is wait for any kind of indication that she's home.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:56 am
i think you have to wait until she gets home then.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:59 am
EggaxSponge i think you have to wait until she gets home then. That's what I've been saying but people aren't listening.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 11:03 am
syketheassai EggaxSponge i think you have to wait until she gets home then. That's what I've been saying but people aren't listening. *feels smart*
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