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PoppyDadswell
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:59 am


hello..
PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 6:22 pm


Hey there! So, I was wondering, where on earth did you get the idea for a 'HeadCovering' Guild?

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PoppyDadswell
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:03 am


x.X.Innocent Passion.X.x
Hey there! So, I was wondering, where on earth did you get the idea for a 'HeadCovering' Guild?


recently i discovered the concept of covering my hair for religious reasons but hit one snag-no one i know covers except amish friends so i tried to find like minded headcovers on gaia and met divash and our guild was born.ta-da!
PostPosted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 5:38 pm


For myself, I know a LOT of people who cover their heads or their hair. Some do it for religious reasons, some because they've had cancer and are bald thanks to chemotherapy, some because they just love the way hats or scarves look, and so on. I thought it would be fun to learn about different types of head coverings and the different reasons that people wear them.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 4:31 pm


It's strange that today our current society views headcovering as the exception. In an old paperfolding book I have, one of the folds is a paper hat, recommended for boys who leave the house without remembering to bring their caps. And the book was serious about it! That was great.

And, from what people remember of the 60's and decades prior to, scarves, hats and other head apparel was just normal.
Besides the Baby Boomer generation rejecting formal headgear and then headgear altogether, I believe the other significant factor was making the indoors so attractive. With technology providing food, entertainment and contact with friends, you basically never have to leave the house.
PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:34 pm


Most of the time I don't really see people who cover their heads/hair, but once in awhile I do. It's not that out of place here.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 12:35 am


A lot of women I know cover their hair for religious reasons (my family, some friends, and relatives are Muslim) and the men, when they go to pray, wear a topi on their heads or if there is a religious ceremony, we'll all have some kind of head covering.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 6:04 am


I'm the same way, Plixy. My religious community is practically defined by our headwear -- kippot for the men and boys, hats/scarves/snoods/caps/wigs for married women, naked hair for unmarried women. Even those who normally don't cover, will cover to go into synagogues, simply out of respect for the community standard. But outside the Jewish neighborhoods and Muslim neighborhoods, it's rare to see someone with covered heads/hair. The exception seems to be for funerals. Most people wear hats to those, even in the non-religious communities, I've observed.

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CAPTAIN Plixy[Stix]

PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 9:23 am


Divash
I'm the same way, Plixy. My religious community is practically defined by our headwear -- kippot for the men and boys, hats/scarves/snoods/caps/wigs for married women, naked hair for unmarried women. Even those who normally don't cover, will cover to go into synagogues, simply out of respect for the community standard. But outside the Jewish neighborhoods and Muslim neighborhoods, it's rare to see someone with covered heads/hair. The exception seems to be for funerals. Most people wear hats to those, even in the non-religious communities, I've observed.


The town I live in right now has a lot of people from different religions and cultures and I'll see people covering their hair in school or in other public places. It's nice to have a lot of people from different cultures and religion here but at the same time, I wonder what it would be like if I lived in a place that had all Muslims or all Indians/Pakistanis? (I'm Indian)
PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 6:27 pm


If you ever find out, Plixy, you tell me. I've always been a member of a minority, so I've no idea what it feels like to look around and see myself reflected back to me. In synagogue I don't feel like I stand out quite as much, but everywhere else, I play spot-the-hat just so I can find someone who's got something in common with me. Last head covering I spotted was on a nun on the city bus. I elected not to speak to her; I'm not sure we'd have had much in common, other than hair covering.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 2:18 am


Divash
If you ever find out, Plixy, you tell me. I've always been a member of a minority, so I've no idea what it feels like to look around and see myself reflected back to me. In synagogue I don't feel like I stand out quite as much, but everywhere else, I play spot-the-hat just so I can find someone who's got something in common with me. Last head covering I spotted was on a nun on the city bus. I elected not to speak to her; I'm not sure we'd have had much in common, other than hair covering.


I don't exactly get along with the Muslims or Indians/Pakistanis here because they're so different from me even though we follow the same religion and have the same culture. We don't hate each other or anything but no one brings up things like, "So... you're Muslim, huh?" or "You're Indian too?!" it just doesn't come up and I think that's cause I live in an area where it really doesn't matter to people but the there are clubs in school targeted towards specific groups (anyone can join though) and I think that's how we find things in common.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 10:18 am


Hello. Thank you for letting join the guild. smile

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 4:51 pm


We're glad to have you, Bish.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 9:56 am


Divash
We're glad to have you, Bish.
Thank you.

I have a question pertaining to dressing modestly. Some of the females in my life (family, friends) have different views on makeup when dressing modestly. What's everyones views on this? Even though I'm a guy I'm just curious. Thanks.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:53 am


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I have a question pertaining to dressing modestly. Some of the females in my life (family, friends) have different views on makeup when dressing modestly. What's everyones views on this? Even though I'm a guy I'm just curious. Thanks.


well my church disapproves of makeup,jewerally,tattoos,hair dye and that sort off thing at all.i have never worn makeup and have no wish to do so.we take reference from the likes of 1 Timothy 2:9In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array.
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